A boy's conversation with his father about his Christmas gift has been shared online by the boy's mother and this has started a debate.

In screenshots of their chat, the boy asked his father if he got him and his siblings anything for Christmas and the father said he did.

The boy then asked his father how they can get the gift but the father said they will get it when he is "free" because their mother did "too much" and she made him "mad".

The boy hit back and asked his father why his mother making him mad should have anything to do with his kids.

The boy also told his father that it's fine if he didn't get them anything for Christmas but insisted his father shouldn't blame it on his mother.

The father then called the son and asked him to pick the call but he refused and replied to his father, "I'll call you when I'm free."

Sharing the screenshot, the boy's mother wrote: "And my son handled their deadbeat daddy very well! He think he can tell my 13 year old anything! He outspoken, not disrespectful."

https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/12/boys-converstaion-with-his-deadbeat-dad-about-christmas-gift-sparks-debate-2.html

The post has started a debate about whether the boy was
disrespectful to his father or was simply being assertive.

The woman probably poisoning his mind overtime. And the man actually messed up for bringing their mom up on that discussion. If it was me I would play my part very well and no matter what he's been fed with he will eventually find the truth of the whole ish. I pray I don't get to find myself in such a horrible setting

Everyone has a mind of their own!! He started it!! Respect is a two way thing!!

All I got to say is that Nigerians are paying for ielts while I'm reading this mumbo Jumbo.

Our leaders have wrought wickedness on us.

ExAngel007:
The boy also told his father that it's fine if he didn't get them anything for Christmas but insisted his father shouldn't blame it on his mother.

The father then called the son and asked him to pick the call but he refused and replied to his father, "I'll call you when I'm free."

The boy has every right to be pissed off given the nonsense excuses the papa give am naw! Are kids not allowed to be pissed or something?

Richy4:
The dad was totally wrong... If indeed he wanted to get something for them, he would have called or texted the kids to ask their mother for their measurements instead of their mum... It's not rocket science...

In my opinion, the last comment of that kid was disrespectful.. I wonder why the mother was so proud of sharing that instead of cautioning him...It might backfire on her someday if she continues to indulge that kind of comment... He might also say that to her someday if not corrected at this early stage.

Nothing was wrong with the last comment. The child was simply angry and did not want to pick his call. The child even did well to want to return the call.

If u know how bittered single mothers are, you will know she type that shit herself.

Dont blame the 13 year old boy.
He doesn't understand life yet, neither does he understand how manipulative mothers/women can be.

Once he gets older, he'll understand the true story

Omo

Women be shaming men since the Garden, did she have to put this online, nonsense

Leprosy to every hand dat WI want to vote apc again

That year I used to get angry at some uncles not sending me money in school or the generous ones sending something I take to be insignificant.

Today, my company downsized the staff and I was affected, here I am sitting on my bed, not going on vacation, not calling anyone to wish them happy Christmas because I am thinking about survival and then many of my cousins, nephews and nieces could probably be somewhere calling me "Deadbeat uncle", life na turn by turn, now I have realised what those uncles could be going through and I now appreciate those uncles who reached out to me in little ways.

That 13 year old boy been tutored by his mum to see his father as deadbeat will one day realise what made his dad to leave home because of what his mother is doing to him, by then his own children will refer to him as deadbeat.

Tufiakwa . The Akata family dynamics is just one weird nonsense. How can you post chats of a father and Son. If i was the dad never chatting him again be that.

I will only need to buy pairs of boxing gloves to meet that bastard son! Give him a pair while I use the other

When I am done with him, I will personally be calling 911 about someone been brutally beaten and needs help. I will report myself to the police afterwards.

The children of these days are naturally a yahoo boy.

Baby mama hiding behind her son's phone to torment the father

The kid is like an adult . But the mother should encourage more respect and harmony, if everyone is right, who will listen to the other.

Give your father and mother basic respect, even if they do not deserve it. And parents should value their children more.

Ok

In our time, who gave u the temerity to talk back (◔‿◔) but this generation of kids are not afraid.



The dad should not transfer his aggression to his kids. It's wrong!

Hmmm

Useless mother

Who else doesn't read the whole conversations like me. Very boring to read! Dey play