TheMensch:
Whenever I remember this picture
Sapa na bastard

Donwizbro:
I don't know if it's normal, but I tend to lose interest on a woman when I sense you're so obsessed with me. I once had a girlfriend that can call me like fifteen times a day. She can come to my place almost everyday without even telling me. Last year's Valentine she bought me alot of gift, and I was so ashamed I didn't even remember it was Valentine peoriod talk more of reciprocating the good gesture. I've never loved a woman like her in my life. But she's making me scary af
I think I might have ptsd due to the numerous breakups I had.
Sometimes I just stare at her and wished she is with someone more serious than I am. Seriously, that girl is a good woman, a good soul, well mannered too.. she's never asked a penny from me.

SimeonOTC:
Okay, here is mine.

Am too emotional or let me put it this way, i WAS emotion. I used 'Was' because this aspect of me has been fixed.

Am not good at keeping up with spouse and people in general. We can be dating and I might at a time find it difficult (Occupied, Lazy, or just dnt care) to check you for a long time. This affected my communication in the relationship too., may be because i am an introvert. Though, am still working on this.

Being an Introvert, I find social event difficult to partake. my ex love this due to the fact that she is that social kind of a person and I don't really get along with girl who are way too social. Anything going out, having fun outside, birthday, going out on a date and all that, JUST COUNT ME OUT!!! I can do it once in a while or a blue moon. But every weekend? NO!!!

Am abit insecure. I love in full. I put all my ALL in a relationship. So if anything in the relationship is going sideways, I kind of develop insecurity especially if my instinct is right. But this has be fixed. Atleast 95%.

Manna4Gurls:
Cos I'm too nice
No need explaining what too much niceness towards a lady results to.
Make i kukuma dey my day

Crystalom5:
seems a lot of us here need to deal with jealousy. And rightly so, the rate of cheating is just so much that most of us are now extra cautious and wary about any relationship between any guy and our girl.

But never the less, you should never be so cautious as to be afraid of being hurt so much so that you don't even give your trust in the first place.

You need to give that trust first

What's good manners to you anyway and how do you know that you'll have the same good manners for the girl?

It's easy to know what you want and how the other person should behave. But very hard for us to think, what if I'm the one misbehaving? What if I'm demanding too much or the impossible? But more importantly, what if what you feel is respect is disrespectful to her?

Your girl is also human and not some sub human that must bow to your every wishes. She also wants equal respects and love.

Now imagine you thinking you are giving her all those but in her mind, you aren't. Simply because what respect means to you doesn't mean the same to her.

Most of these things can be solved by communicating more. But instead, we run away with our ego forming hard man

Crystalom5:
everything you said here blames other people except yourself.

Other people don't treat you as good as you assume you treat them. They are lazy and have bad characters.

Imagine that every woman is a Saint and can't do no wrong, y can't you keep a woman?

I mean there are hundreds of guys getting married, so why don't you have someone really serious like them?

And as a man, it's mostly your responsibility to keep a woman forget all those redpill and feminists sh't. Most times its your duty to keep a woman in line

Crystalom5:
I can relate with this.

I'm an introvert too. But you need to make some changes especially when you're with your girl.

One thing I've learned that helped me a lot is to watch comedy videos. You know, watch some of those stand up comedies, not the skits.
Thank u
You'd start learning how to be funny a little and don't be afraid to put yourself on the line.

Crystalom5:
again, it's a game and you're already losing really bad.

Nothing is owed you. Nothing is given for free. If she's harsh, move on.

That's how she play her own game. That's her strategy. She owes you nothing. She owes you no respect.

Crystalom5:
MALIGNANTGuest see wetin your mate write. Oya copy am but change the words

Savedday:
Know this from today that, all 9ja girls are public toilet ...... All of them

imagrg:
And we Naija men are the ones who poo in it and damn the consequence.
We made the toilet public by our lust for toto.

zed7:
Interesting topic. Many years back I couldn't keep a relationship for a variety of reasons.
1. I find constant keeping in touch very tiring, I just can't call everyday. I usually send a message once in 2 or 3 days, just to check in. That was a major issue amd no woman can stand that.

2. Again, I only wanted a woman around when I wanted sex only. Immediately after the deed, I usually tell them let's go out even when they want to chill and just watch a movie. I'd rather we go to a joint and have a drink or food and then I drop them home. It was quite a selfish act I know, but I was quite young.

3. Most days, I wanted to be alone and when they call and ask if I'm available, most times my answer was always no. Most girls saw me as unserious and a playboy but in actual fact I just liked my space. I nor like wahala.

I mainly just did flings and for a long time, I was a side kick, they had their main boyfriend.
When it was time to marry, I sat up, adjusted my ways and thankfully, found a woman who understands me. After all these years, she still respects my need for space.

marlow1962:
I no dy take rubbish from person, display signs of mental illness and I discharge you immediately.

Treat me the way I treat you, if I treat u nicely and you do me like trash ( I go beat u cun trash u out)

I hate lazy gals, bring that feminist bullshit near me, I slap one of ur eye comot (na hu u wn dy follow do that nonsense)

I no fit say wit woman wer get bad character, if u like get the biggest breast for the whole world (idgaf).

Samantha123:
I sense an abuser here... Gender based violence everywhere.

idahsy:
i too dey Bleep but no money to give

Crystalom5:
Samantha I'm not sure you talked in my other thread. The one for ladies

Samantha123:
Wow! You've got sharp eyes..
You're right, I didn't..

HellVictorinho6:



Why can't a girl or woman keep me?

zed7:
Interesting topic. Many years back I couldn't keep a relationship for a variety of reasons.
1. I find constant keeping in touch very tiring, I just can't call everyday. I usually send a message once in 2 or 3 days, just to check in. That was a major issue amd no woman can stand that.

2. Again, I only wanted a woman around when I wanted sex only. Immediately after the deed, I usually tell them let's go out even when they want to chill and just watch a movie. I'd rather we go to a joint and have a drink or food and then I drop them home. It was quite a selfish act I know, but I was quite young.

3. Most days, I wanted to be alone and when they call and ask if I'm available, most times my answer was always no. Most girls saw me as unserious and a playboy but in actual fact I just liked my space. I nor like wahala.

I mainly just did flings and for a long time, I was a side kick, they had their main boyfriend.
When it was time to marry, I sat up, adjusted my ways and thankfully, found a woman who understands me. After all these years, she still respects my need for space.

Savedday:
Know this from today that, all 9ja girls are public toilet ...... All of them

Samantha123:
I sense an abuser here... Gender based violence everywhere.

marlow1962:


Lol, I’m not an abuser, that is not how my dad trained me.
I’m calm in nature, but my dad didn’t train me to eat shit from women.

Samantha123:
If you can't tolerate a woman, leave her, or don't ever get married rather than being abusive.