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Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 1:24pm On Dec 30, 2022
Good day, fellas. Dear ladies, if u want men to respect u, these are the things u must do and not do. It's long but i will try to summarize.
1. Don't beg or Pester men for money. Men hate it, especially when it becomes often. Yes, rather work and fend for urself. U aren't a baby, u are an adult. U can engage in learning skills like tailor, catering etc.
2. Be financially independent. Be an asset, not a liability. There are things u shouldn't even ask ur man to do for u. E.g Making ur hair, getting u a phone, ur wears etc. But if he chose to do these voluntarily, u may accept it.
Men have a very high regard for ladies who are financially independent.
3. Be supportive with the little u earn. I.e Don't always be at the recieving end, sometimes, surprise ur man with gift. E.g It could be airtime, singlet etc.
4. Be concern abt his welfare just as he is concern abt urs. He shouldn't be the only one to call u, u should atimes give him a call.
5. U should respect him. Yes, even if u earn high than he do.
6. Be Content. No go do oju kokoro.

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Zonefree(m): 1:26pm On Dec 30, 2022
1. Don't beg or Pester men for money.

2. Be financially independent.

There's a big contradiction in your number 1 and number 2.

No matter how financial independent an average Nigerian is, she must always beg men for money. It's in their constitution.

If you're in a relationship with a Nigerian girl and she doesn't beg you for money, ditch her. You're dating your fellow man.

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by PerfectStranger(m): 1:27pm On Dec 30, 2022
Nigerian girls left the group chat.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by brain54(m): 1:34pm On Dec 30, 2022
Your 3 points can be summarized to just one point.



Be independent…
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Candidlady: 1:37pm On Dec 30, 2022
truvel too late


from Sunday which is next tomorrow iwont be spending a dime.. iwanna be so dependent on MEN for whatever it is iwant... even to my toiletries


idont need their respect na money iwant
we no dey spend shi shi..

full leech mode 2023

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by PerfectStranger(m): 1:39pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:
truvel too late


from Sunday which is next tomorrow iwont be spending a dime.. iwanna be so dependent on MEN for whatever it is iwant... even to my toiletries


idont need their respect na money iwant
we no dey spend shi shi..

full leech mode 2023
Full olosho mode 2023

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Spandau: 1:42pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:
truvel too late


from Sunday which is next tomorrow iwont be spending a dime.. iwanna be so dependent on MEN for whatever it is iwant... even to my toiletries


idont need their respect na money iwant
we no dey spend shi shi..

full leech mode 2023

The future is leech mode!

Na so Dem de take Dem do sacrifice for wealth. Ole, ole olojukokoro.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by marlow1962(m): 1:43pm On Dec 30, 2022
PerfectStranger:

Full olosho mode 2023
Nothing more nothing less

Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by virginprincess(f): 1:43pm On Dec 30, 2022
This one has come to open thread just because he came across that that encourage men to respect women,Nairaland men will not kill megrin grin grin.

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Zonefree(m): 1:44pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:
truvel too late


from Sunday which is next tomorrow iwont be spending a dime.. iwanna be so dependent on MEN for whatever it is iwant... even to my toiletries


idont need their respect na money iwant
we no dey spend shi shi..

full leech mode 2023
Full leech mode, na your kpekus go suffer am bayii

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Medianna(f): 1:44pm On Dec 30, 2022
Story for the gods.
So ladies that don't do all these doesn't marry or stay in hubby's house?

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by brain54(m): 1:45pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:
truvel too late


from Sunday which is next tomorrow iwont be spending a dime.. iwanna be so dependent on MEN for whatever it is iwant... even to my toiletries


idont need their respect na money iwant
we no dey spend shi shi..

full leech mode 2023
Na your pankele go catch fire…


I only pity your pankele. Don’t ask me what pankele means because even me no know. But I am sure you get the point…
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Medianna(f): 1:46pm On Dec 30, 2022
PerfectStranger:

Full olosho mode 2023
I've not seen your vawulence sidekick kollinz or so, lately, hope he is alright?
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Candidlady: 1:48pm On Dec 30, 2022
PerfectStranger:

Full olosho mode 2023


you really don't have to have sex to get money(ies) from your gender

Aisha a friend of mine just got a car gift from one of her male FRIENDs (no sex involved) ..

abegi you men can keep your respect idont need it

give kudi keep respect

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by brain54(m): 1:49pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:



you really don't have to have sex to get money(ies) from your gender

Aisha a friend of mine just got a car gift from one of her male FRIENDs (no sex involved) ..

abegi you men can keep your respect idont need it

give kudi keep respect
Your friend Aisha must be a story teller…
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 1:51pm On Dec 30, 2022
Zonefree:



There's a big contradiction in your number 1 and number 2.

No matter how financial independent an average Nigerian is, she must always beg men for money. It's in their constitution.

If you're in a relationship with a Nigerian girl and she doesn't beg you for money, ditch her. You're dating your fellow man.
These ones are the Stingy, Selfish and Self-centered ladies. These ones are parasites. Point No 3 has answered that.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by PerfectStranger(m): 1:51pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:



you really don't have to have sex to get money(ies) from your gender

Aisha a friend of mine just got a car gift from one of her male FRIENDs (no sex involved) ..

abegi you men can keep your respect idont need it

give kudi keep respect
Story…

You think there’s any man that will dash you money without drilling your kpekus with reckless abandon.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Spandau: 1:53pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:



you really don't have to have sex to get money(ies) from your gender

Aisha a friend of mine just got a car gift from one of her male FRIENDs (no sex involved) ..

abegi you men can keep your respect idont need it

give kudi keep respect
The future is Aisha a friend of mine just got s car gift..........no sex involved (yinmu)

Na so person de take corn trick chicken into the room. Eyes congba!
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 1:57pm On Dec 30, 2022
virginprincess:
This one has come to open thread just because he came across that that encourage men to respect women,Nairaland men will not kill megrin grin grin.
I had to tell u the Ugly truth he hasn't told u ladies. This is the major reason u ladies are seen as just sex obect and childbearing machines.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 2:03pm On Dec 30, 2022
Medianna:
Story for the gods.
So ladies that don't do all these doesn't marry or stay in hubby's house?
They may but would be treated as trash or the men may not have regard for them.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Medianna(f): 2:19pm On Dec 30, 2022
Truvelisback:
They may but would be treated as trash or the men may not have regard for them.
That's not 100% true
And there are women who does all that and are being taken for granted

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Candidlady: 2:23pm On Dec 30, 2022
Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Dear ladies, if u want men to respect u, these are the things u must do and not do. It's long but i will try to summarize.
1. Don't beg or Pester men for money. Men hate it, especially when it becomes often. Yes, rather work and fend for urself. U aren't a baby, u are an adult. U can engage in learning skills like tailor, catering etc.
2. Be financially independent. Be an asset, not a liability. There are things u shouldn't even ask ur man to do for u. E.g Making ur hair, getting u a phone, ur wears etc. But if he chose to do these voluntarily, u may accept it.
Men have a very high regard for ladies who are financially independent.
3. Be supportive with the little u earn. I.e Don't always be at the recieving end, sometimes, surprise ur man with gift. E.g It could be airtime, singlet etc.
4. Be concern abt his welfare just as he is concern abt urs. He shouldn't be the only one to call u, u should atimes give him a call.
5. U should respect him. Yes, even if u earn high than he do.
6. Be Content. No go do oju kokoro.

Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 2:32pm On Dec 30, 2022
[quote author=Candidlady post=119550637][/quote] That means u want to be a full housewife. I.e Just stay at home, watch Zee world, produce babies, eat and grow fat. U don't know what u are wishing for. It is good but It has its own disadvantages too.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 2:36pm On Dec 30, 2022
Medianna:

That's not 100% true
And there are women who does all that and are being taken for granted
It is very rare. Men rarely take women who are financially independent for granted. They treat them like eggs because they are plus to them.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Candidlady: 2:37pm On Dec 30, 2022
Truvelisback:
That means u want to be a full housewife. I.e Just stay at home, watch Zee world, produce babies, eat and grow fat. U don't know what u are wishing for. It is good but It has its own disadvantages too.


It was one of your comrade that posted that not me... please check the attached pix well


Iwouldnt wanna be a full house wife.. never
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 2:46pm On Dec 30, 2022
Candidlady:



It was one of your comrade that posted that not me... please check the attached pix well


Iwouldnt wanna be a full house wife.. never
Then, he doesn't know what he is saying. A full housewife is not an easy task to accomplish because of the burden. If u are not earning very Big. I mean very Big as a man, don't even dare it otherwise, u will suffer and end up like this.

Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Fancy4e: 2:55pm On Dec 30, 2022
brain54:

Your friend Aisha must be a story teller…
very simple…..you want her to love you nd you alone, but don’t wanna necessarily do the needful…Nigerian men kolewek…I just Dey look

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Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Medianna(f): 3:19pm On Dec 30, 2022
Truvelisback:
It is very rare. Men rarely take women who are financially independent for granted. They treat them like eggs because they are plus to them.
Issook
Maybe the ones we see na unfortunate situation be that.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by kingPhidel(m): 3:56pm On Dec 30, 2022
I wish the OP was a gyal.
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by techWriter3: 4:12pm On Dec 30, 2022
fable for the deities
Re: Ladies, If U Want Men To Value u and Respect U, What U Must Do. by Truvelisback(m): 4:20pm On Dec 30, 2022
kingPhidel:
I wish the OP was a gyal.
What do u mean?

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