I am trying to figure out of it is actually better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Look at most of the aftermath of lost love, it makes one so bitter, cruel, evil, sad, depressed, much more compared to someone that may have never loved before.

It is well worth the risk of getting your heart broke.

If you never try you live a life of fear and that is a fate worse than heartbreak.

Better to have never loved at all.

Yes I think it's better to have loved and lost . . . . for the simple fact that you gain sooo might experience and insight into relationships and the opposite sex when being in a relationship and afterwards.
My experiences both good and bad have come from my relationships with people, and thankfully to that, I now know what I do not want in a partner and what I do. I also know the kind of 'friends' I want (I use the term friends very loosely). I do no negotiate with my standards in people.

sistawoman:

It is well worth the risk of getting your heart broke.

If you never try you live a life of fear and that is a fate worse than heartbreak.

I have to agree. I know alot of people who now haven't got a clue because of lack of experience. in their late thirties they are actually fearing, because they have never been there. (if that makes sense).

ibkaye:

Better to have never loved at all.

We think alike.

Modelesque:

death @ the topic. Aren't those the lyrics to Jazmine Sullivan's "Lions Tigers and Bears"?

lol, I just clocked that. Very true. But it is also quite a commen phrase.

It is true we learn from experiences no doubt but how about those that have not and would not be able to heal from such, some have even resorted to suicide. what can be said about them? It makes you learn but can also change your outlook on life.

If I got the post right as in when one voluntarily refused to fall in love or have anything to do with the opposite sex, then I'd say it works in two ways, some people have lost their memories or even their life out of heartbroken while some have made the greatest mistakes of their life rejecting their Mr. rights and ended up with bullies. whatever your reasons may be. in either cases, you only have to define exactly what you want in life, work towards it , it beats me to see some girls do things just out of peer pressure.
To love and beloved is cool if you 'd love with your brain but not foolishly.

Regards,

ibkaye:

Better to have never loved at all.

For real, lmao.

Igwe.:

If I got the post right as in when one voluntarily refused to fall in love or have anything to do with the opposite sex, then I'd say it works in two ways, some people have lost their memories or even their life out of heartbroken while some have made the greatest mistakes of their life rejecting their Mr. rights and ended up with bullies. whatever your reasons may be. in either cases, you only have to define exactly what you want in life, work towards it , it beats me to see some girls do things just out of peer pressure.
To love and beloved is cool if you 'd love with your brain but not foolishly.

Regards,

Right

I think it goes both ways, sometimes i wish i had never fallen in love but how can i pass through this life and not experience the wonderful feeling when it was good.

Monicaa:

I am trying to figure out of it is actually better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. Look at most of the aftermath of lost love, it makes one so bitter, cruel, evil, sad, depressed, much more compared to someone that may have never loved before.

There's no hard n fast rule to it. . . .
Whether one has loved and lost or has never loved at all, she is still going to be vulnerable at one stage in her life or the other.
Aftermath of lost love you say? Some people have never loved but they are so bitter they make chloroquin taste like chocolates.

~Sauron~:

There's no hard n fast rule to it. . . .
Whether one has loved and lost or has never loved at all, she is still going to be vulnerable at one stage in her life or the other.
Aftermath of lost love you say? Some people have never loved but they are so bitter they make chloroquin taste like chocolates.

LWKM

@Topic

The greatest risk in life is not taking any risk at all.

kay_pumpin:

@Topic

The greatest risk in life is not taking any risk at all.

Gbam but love still sucks

tope5000:

Gbam but love still sucks

yeah, because of pains love can make you pass through, and also judging by the notion that true love only manifests itself during the period of trials.

Igwe.:

yeah, because of pains love can make you pass through, and also judging by the notion that true love only manifests itself during the period of trials.

That's right.

better to have never loved at all.

better to have loved and lost. 'cause you learn from it at least for some.

~Sissy~:

better to have loved and lost. 'cause you learn from it at least for some.

That's right. There is pain in lost love but it would be worse if you don't learn from it.

~Sissy~:

better to have loved and lost. 'cause you learn from it at least for some.

is that so? maybe it is better not to have loved o.

Diva1:

That's right. There is pain in lost love but it would be worse if you don't learn from it.

real acute pain

Nikky23:

is that so? maybe it is better not to have loved o.

life is all about taking chances and risk. and if you never try, you never learn. now i wouldnt want to live my life being naive and fearful in everything.

dats d only way 2 be experienced,

Sometimes U'll never get over the pains of lost love. Even if Cupid shoots a dart at me,i'd rather it pierce my forehead than pierce my Heart,dat's how bad i feel about love.
Yesternight,1 of my Girl 'just' Friends ask me if I'm in love, i replied 'LOVE, I just can't love', she then ask me if i wil get married sumday, i replied 'Yes of Course, but i won't marry out of love, I'll marry just to fit in'. That's how bad love has made me. I think it's better not to fall in love at all.IMO love brings nothing but acute emotional,psychological and physical pains.

Its far far better off not to have loved at all.Cos love is jealousy,weakness,depression,sadness,and even draw back.I wont advice anybody to be so engrossed in love,cos it its sometimes a bumpy ride and never do end well

Definitely better to LOVE AND LOST than not to ever love at all.
Loving and losing makes you gain experience and learn lessons. It may be hard but you will get over it and be a better person from the experience.
However not trying something is worse because you never know what it feels like. You will be left wondering "what if i love, " or "what if i tried that?" and all sorts of "what ifs"

Trust me, to love and lost is better off. Its the same as taking risks and failing rather than not taking at all? which one would you do? Wont you rather take the risk and fail, so that you may learn from why you failed and how to be a better person, than not taking the risk because you fear failure, and are too scared to evem try, thus not learning a single thing

One advice in life. No matter what it is, go for it, if its that person you like, ask them out, the worst thing that cld happen is rejection, it doeskin matter, move on. You will learn from it.
Please don't be scared to try things or go for what you want, because you may end up wishing you had at the end of the day.

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If U don't love(d greatest force in d universe- has made historyz greatest warz b greatest Unity) hw do U fulfill d word of God in ur life, GOD is love, GOD is d truth nd GOD is d light,

What is love?

Itz wat our Lord God Almighty said we sud av 4 a partner,

And What're those things?