Ibechris2:
Congratulations to everyone of u out there. Welcome to 2023.

And if u know u are 30 and still in ur parents house...pls,do everything possible to leave them. It can never be easy at first but I am sure it would be easy as time goes by.

I was privileged to have left my parents at the age of 19 and I never came back except I want to visit them and spend some time with them.

To be honest here,i really suffered when i relocated to a new environment with not enough cash,no brother ,no sister no one to advice me except me alone. I squatted and things became rough that my parents urged me to come back and manage with them,but eventually it became a success story.

This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret.

Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.

Ibechris2:
Congratulations to everyone of u out there. Welcome to 2023.

And if u know u are 30 and still in ur parents house...pls,do everything possible to leave them. It can never be easy at first but I am sure it would be easy as time goes by.

I was privileged to have left my parents at the age of 19 and I never came back except I want to visit them and spend some time with them.

To be honest here,i really suffered when i relocated to a new environment with not enough cash,no brother ,no sister no one to advice me except me alone. I squatted and things became rough that my parents urged me to come back and manage with them,but eventually it became a success story.

This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret.

Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.

Ibechris2:
This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret. Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.

skultrick:
The op made a very valid point. To those condemning him, you're free to continue deceiving yourselves. Leaving your parents house doesn't mean you're competing with anyone, it gives you that opportunity to be a complete man.
The logic here is that free house, food... means staying in your comfort zone. And staying in your comfort zone may never allow you reach your full potential. Again, you can continue staying in your papa house.

Kobojunkie:
So a 30-year-old who lives at home in a house that belongs to his parents, enjoying free food which his parents can afford to give him, and all else, all while saving up to build his own house which he can then move out into is wrong?

skultrick:
1. Look, I never said its wrong. However, the word "free" restrains you to a comfort zone that might never allow you think outside the box.
2. Ask yourself, many young and old guys are reaching new heights everyday, and certainly most of them are not staying in their parents house.

Kobojunkie:
1. But that is an assumption on your part, isn't it?
2. Many of them began right when they were living at home with mum and dad. Does moving out of home guarantee success for anyone? The answer is no. So do not sell it as a step towards success in the world when it ain't!

skultrick:
1. It's not assumption, it's a fact. Do your research on the dangers of comfort zone. You think paying lesser bills will allow you save more, nah, it doesn’t. Higher income is what allows you to save more and achieve more.

2. Note everyone will be rich or wealthy if that's your definition of success. The bottom line here is that you will achieve more financially when you live that comfort zone.

Kobojunkie:
1. What are you talking about? Not long ago, I too was able to save up more than 80% of my salary in one particular year as a result of not having to pay much in house bills for the same period. What research told you it is impossible to do?

2. Wrong! Not everyone will be as it doesn't mean that we will all begin making big bucks or anything like that. For example, for a 30-year old with monthly income of less 100K, living at home with parents can help him put of that money to use helping them even as he maybe saves some change on the side. Not everyone thinks "free" incense to go lazy.

skultrick:
1. There's a very thing line here which you've repeatedly failed to understand. I'm not saying you won't save, I'm only saying that, that extra challenge could be the only motivation you need to go harder on it.

2. Going by your analogy, the 100k will definitely become a norm. You see creating wealth starts from the mind, and motivation, challenges, are key players.

Kobojunkie:
1. I don't follow your logic at all. What extra challenge? Isn't saving up for a home or even for a car challenge enough while living at home

2. Creating what wealth again?

tensazangetsu20:
Better stay and save money. Nigeria is brutal and no one will help you when shit hits the fan. I am 39 and still live with my parents

tensazangetsu20:
Better stay and save money. Nigeria is brutal and no one will help you when shit hits the fan. I am 39 and still live with my parents

Ibechris2:
Congratulations to everyone of u out there. Welcome to 2023.

And if u know u are 30 and still in ur parents house...pls,do everything possible to leave them. It can never be easy at first but I am sure it would be easy as time goes by.

I was privileged to have left my parents at the age of 19 and I never came back except I want to visit them and spend some time with them.

To be honest here,i really suffered when i relocated to a new environment with not enough cash,no brother ,no sister no one to advice me except me alone. I squatted and things became rough that my parents urged me to come back and manage with them,but eventually it became a success story.

This is 2003,take the bold step and leave ur parents and fight ur way to success and see how life would be with u in the near future. I don't mean to insult anyone here but it is imperative to help oneself before it becomes a thing of regret.

Time waits for no one and if u don't take this actions,the thing is,u will regret not taking an action if old age eventually catches up with u.

Thanks and may God bless u guys.