Munzy14:

Take a chill pill bro..You don cast


It was totally unfair projecting wrong ideologies online, when you don't practice them and totally knew it was wrong.

A woman who cooks for you, shows care and prioritized you over others..
Marriage is fun, but demands sacrifice to overcome challenges in it.

You guys must tune down on how you paint it bad..it is causing fears and worries here and there.

LegitAutos01:


This is the comment that made op deactivate

LegitAutos01:


This is the comment that made op deactivate

seguno2:


You are the one who needs to rest from doing bęgbęwö stylish defence of the indefensible hypocrite, who appropriately called himself MALIGNANTGuest.

How do we even know that this is not the alternative moniker of the hypocrite

SerikiFulani:
Single,bitter, desperate and unlucky feminists have made the OP deactivate his account

So cos he always advice his fellow men to beware of nigerian women, y'all thought he's gonna hate his wife who might probably not be nigerian.

These dumb ass idiots calling themselves feminists don't know what time is it

LegitAutos01:


This is the comment that made op deactivate

Lastly........
Happens to be my First Meal in 2023 as at 12midnight at workplace. (Not Family's).
Workplace Party ushering in the New Year...

LegitAutos01:


This is the comment that made op deactivate

Mercury12:
So why did Op deactivated?
Which dragging can make one do that? Some people are just too weak for my liking

IME1:
Let there be peace.

I grew up in a time when our role models were physical or at least real.
We didn't rely on online logic and diaspora views to know our selfworth and shortcomings.

The op is wrong to push his prejudices and biases in public space, worse on a place like NL.
Sadly a number of Nlanders don't know how to divest themselves from the write-up from the many faceless people here.

While acknowledging that a few have shown their faces and others have contributed greatly to the lives of many, me inclusive, I still feel that NL pre 2023 had become toxic, illogical, abusive and a pathway to mental abuse and mental ill health.

By faith I pray the owner Seun and his mods make the platform a veritable place for honesty, unity, sense, infact common sense and a pool of knowledge and undiluted fun.

Sometimes when my younger cousins or younger people around me see me of NL they have this irritation and disappointment on their faces as though I ought not to waste my time here and rely on opinions and news from this platform. But alas! I've grown fond of NL. Been reading since 2006 when I got my first internet enabled phone and stumbled on it. But I thank God for giving me the ability not to be an addict of anything.

So if people like the op and others who have stooped so low to his level to be cursing him and abusing both genders want to carry this negativity of NL this 2023, then I'll go back to just being a casual reader. Geez I can stay the entire 2023 like I've done in some years and months without logging in, commenting or even opening threads (just browsing the front page for relevant news and move on).

They say Twitter is bad so NL is jealous? I beg make peace reign here make we rest. Meanwhile op na you start thread dey dey show us foods dey you don chop. But you no tell us wetin we suppose do? Make we praise your wife abi salivate? Oya take am 2

Ikillbrokehoes:
He's not only weak but a coward.

Imjustagirl:




Please read well. His wife is a Nigerian, she's also chubby. She also joined him from portharcourt to the US.

Meanwhile he has condemned women, marriage, Nigerian women in particular and also fat women.

Conclusion he is the biggest hypocrite right now, he was probably saying all those things to chase clout on here. Shameful

He that comes to equity must come with clean hands

Luckysbab:

Just shut it!

I'm saying everyone has a right to their opinion and shouldn't be crucified on the basis of not aligning with popular opinion.

If you are childish enough not to understand that, that's your cup of bread.

Luckysbab:


That was really disappointing.

Succumbed to sadistic cyber bullies.

The essence of this, is to appreciate the hardworking women out there who contribute a lot in ensuring their Loved ones & the neighbors around them are well fed and nurtured.
This, I'm doing using the Savory Kitchen Efforts of my Lovely Wife as a point of reference.

Here are some of the tantalizing pictures to revamp your waning appetite.
This is just for your entertainment as we usher in the New Year, 2023, on this great platform!
Do have a Prosperous New Year!

Cc
RoyalRoy
Seun
Moderators

pocohantas:
Your wife is feeding you meals, whereas you are on Nairaland telling whoever cares to listen that men have stopped marrying and are divorcing per second because men gain nothing from marriage. All this while staying firm inside your marriage, going on trips with your wife and eating coconut rice and fufu.

Na mumu dey take relationship advice online.

If the rest of you like, don’t find a good partner and hold them tight. You will be online commenting “Does your wife have a sister?” … “Is your husband single?” Before you know it, they done leave you.

Ishilove:
Op, I stopped taking your posts seriously after you made this statement.



You have since then made several derogatory comments which I have been taking note of. If you were doing it before, I don't know, but after this one up there which I read, I simply concluded that you are one of the problems we have on social media. You speak from both sides of your mouth.

You talk down on women and the institution of marriage, and then go back home to be cared for and pampered by a woman. You then further come here to pour adulations on your wife.

Make up your mind: are you for or against marriage? Don't be a hypocrite. Practice what you preach. Since marriage is an unalluring baseless lie, when will you throw your wife out? You cannot be advising young, Nigerian men to stay the fvck off marriage and then come here to praise your wife in the same marriage you are condemning. That's an invitation to thunder to come and locate you in that your America where you are staying to type crap.

Luckysbab:


Na him get time, dey fear nonsense.

Why should we believe the commenter isn't just as fake as the OP?

"Trust me, I know, because..."

Zee0007:
God will judge you OP. una marry the better one leave hookup babes for us to marry.

Never take relationship advice from online and relationship experts. Hold your babe or man well. Many are hypocrites. Many discourage us from marrying while they enjoy theirs.

chris51:



The problem is that many young men Co-habit with girls and that makes it difficult for them to compare and pick up girls who have marriage qualities.
In short, they are more interested in physical relationship

Ikillbrokehoes:
He's not only weak but a coward.

Candidlady:
alpha online beta offline
Andrew Tate gangs
dude had to deactivate lmao

Luckysbab:


Then create your own advice streams. Respect other people's perspective. How do you dictate what anyone should dish out as his opinion.

I have seen good women and equally useless ones. If I decide to talk more about the useless ones, how should that be a pain to you, when you can easily focus on talking about the goods ones only?

seguno2:


Asking me to shut up, is obviously how you say that everyone has a right to their opinion.

Is it any surprise that you are justifying your co-hypocrite, MALIGNANTGuest