ifihearam:
If I get you correctly, your man is demanding you tell every other man who asks you out that you are taken yes? It simply means he wants you to scare off every man and wants you to himself...that does not mean he loves you because if he really wants you all by himself then he should do the needful by marrying you.

onumadu:
He is a very dangerous man. You should run away as soon as you can!
Men like that are never good for marriage.
He is insecure already even without marrying you.
Men like that kill their wives at the slightest suspicion of infidelity. You cannot help his insecurity.
So, RUN while you are still free.

ibkayee:
He sounds like a nutcase

Richy4:

Trying to mark his territory...
Section 19 subsection 34 of the Bro code Act of 1845

<< He is into you..
<< You are beautiful..he knows it but he can't face the competition of keeping you due to life challenges that made him not to come out strong..
<< He is hopeful that it will be okay and he will over come whatever it was that was holding him back and then show how much he cares..
<< Hence his oral statement for you to have it at the back of your mind..

faithfull18:
You are single as long as you aren't married.

fadilaMaikiriki:
He's well to do though.

It is not all about money... There's a 'demon' that he's fighting within him that u have not yet figured out... Which is making him to hesitate and come out strong...Try and find it out...

I hate to speculate but my guts tells me that he's two timing U...He doesn't wanna let you go because he's into you..But will definitely offend the other if he lets her go and focused solely on U...

Usually people that says things like that were sugar daddies... They can't leave their wife and they can't leave you as a mistress as well... Hence wasting the woman's time... Just be vigilant Okay

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hello all!
Please, what does it mean when a man says you should not go and meet another man. That man that asks you out, you should tell him you're married. Then when you now tell the man that saying you're married when you're not will mean you're lying. So, he then goes further to say you should tell them (any man that asks you out) you're taken. I want to know what that means. What does he mean by that? As a lady here, have you gotten such talk from someone before? Please, how did you handle it? And as a man, what do you mean when you say that to a lady, or what does it mean when a man says it to a lady.

Thanks.

ZIMDRILL:


how old are you? the guy is indirectly saying he is your man he is asking you out indirectly

He is telling you to tell any man interested to back off for him hence he telling ( to tell them you are married or taken ) reserving you for himself

I think he excpected you ask him (who am
i married to or who has taken me ) then he was going to say "himself" that way you have done the job for him " asking you out "

Richy4:

It is not all about money... There's a 'demon' that he's fighting within him that u have not yet figured out... Which is making him to hesitate and come out strong...Try and find it out...

I hate to speculate but my guts tells me that he's two timing U...He doesn't wanna let you go because he's into you..But will definitely offend the other if he lets her go and focused solely on U...

Usually people that says things like that were sugar daddies... They can't leave their wife and they can't leave you as a mistress as well... Hence wasting the woman's time... Just be vigilant Okay

fadilaMaikiriki:
Hmmmm. But, he seems like a nice man and knows how to respect a woman.

fadilaMaikiriki:
I didn't say anything again after that.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Thanks for your input. He's single though. But, I'm still confused even.

If u were still confused, it's about time U ask him what he meant...I believe he won't point a gun at u for doing so .

fadilaMaikiriki:
Thanks. But, it's not been long we met, though.

Mindlog:


Then it is a huge waving red flag because he is very likely obsessive and controlling, saying such so early in a relationship.

You should always remind yourself that you are not married neither are you taken.

Richy4:

If u were still confused, it's about time U ask him what he meant...I believe he won't point a gun at u for doing so .

onumadu:


Wait until you marry him...
Una no dey hear until too late.
An insecure man is the worst type of a man to marry. QUOTE ME.
I am talking from experience of close family members.
The one man was just like this your guy until she married him. The result of that mistake was her death after having four children for him.
She was my auntie.
The other family member married someone exactly like yours . He is RICH and has a house in Lekki.
Result is that she is currently going through HELL because of his insecurities. She is my niece.
Run before too late. Money means nothing when your life is at stake.

234GT:
A good man will be wooing you and convincing you to marry him, not asking you to chase other men away.

Be careful and open all your senses.

fadilaMaikiriki:
Thanks. But, it's not been long we met, though.

Saintmary:



How old are you?

Meandmycrew:
He is insecure and over possessive, never you date or marry an insecure man. Red flag, this kind of people can go the extra mile to torment your life!