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Re: I Am Depressed by ZooOga: 9:42pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Mumu doesn't know the difference between his and her. I tire of many of these NL illiterates sha. ![]() |
Re: I Am Depressed by albanikeh001: 9:42pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Oh chimo! Marriage wahala everywhere. God abeg o. I am not asking for much. Just a homely woman that will be a wife, friend and supporter. That's all I am asking for. Dear God, take away from me all these woke, highlife feminists girls with touch of ashawo vibez. ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Elizmife: 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: What if the phone was at the last battery and it rang and went off before she could pick. See with her message to you of how she has being enduring, you have anger issue and seems you do disrespect your wife, there are way you talk to people or ask questions which will trigger, have you being ask her questions with respect? Or in love? And she still does that.. you have actually said your wife is good. You are saying if she stays till Feb you won't accept her back, haven't you heard of couples you separated for year(s) and when they were able to resolve they came back? See when you are thinking of maybe she. Can't cope without you cos of the economy forget it, with what I read your wife is not lazy she will survive. And try to work on yourself and try to see if you guys can settle and you work on yourself, if you are thinking of you will see another girl to marry, hummmmmm I pray you don't meet the one that will make you regret life. Advices you are seeing here, you need to think ooo because not everyone will tell you the truth about how it is in their own marriage. When you did not meet her at home and your in laws are not picking why not go to them first before they charge you for what is not. Ireeeeeeeooooo 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by Lucrativress(f): 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Iamthoney:As in ehn .. Countless reasons why she couldn't pick If she was charging, she sure won't guard her phone like a bodyguard She'd leave it to charge She probably was elsewhere when it rang Things happen, if she has cheated before then yes, I get the scepticism, but if not, op is just an emotional bully. 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Dogalmighty17: 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
OP. Relax yourself. They always come crawling back. Ignore the initial gra gra she and her family are doing. Bet me, if your wife senses that you are planning to move on, she will rush back and get pregnant. You ma get skushes for head sha. Anyways, just be calm, don't fret. Your wife thinks there's joy in the streets. She go soon know say nothing dey there. In the meantime, enjoy your new found freedom. F(u)ck plenty plenty. Reward yourself. |
Re: I Am Depressed by flexyrule(m): 9:43pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22:You sef. E be like say you be assistant Pharaoh. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Nobody: 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Now listen to someone who has gone through the same ordeal! I got home few weeks to Christmas and met the house empty, she ran away with my son who was just a year and 5 months old to her family house, after she attempted to stab me because I was broke unknowing to her I had my phone video recorder on, I ran out and reported to the police who came back with me after seeing the video and asked her to follow them to the station with the knife. I wept bitterly at the station because my son never knew he was at the station, but my joy was that the knife was collected from her, and she was made to write an undertaking that she will not slaughter me when I sleep at night. This was how I technically defeated her, she knew this and ran away with my son. I first went to the police station to report that my son was missing then I went to a den of carpenters that someone needed his roof changed at once, so I arrived at their house with about 15 carpenters and 5 ladders without giving a Bleep that I would die. To cut the long story short, I got my son back that day. So go and get your son back and stop this fucking love script, if you love your son, get him back! She is fucking another man already! That is the trend now once you go broke my brother. Bleep the law of custody bullshit! If you want your son by your side, get him back, even if you have to become a Spartan! Be a Spartan for your son! Let him see that you did everything to have him back!. Attached herewith is my son, I backed him and changed his pampers from 1 year 6 months till he was 2 years 6 months... I once fainted backing him because the stress was unbearable for me, but I was determined not to give up! Bleep those bitches claiming to be in love to escape their poverty stricken life! 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by buzorcharles(m): 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Oga depression go and learn good manners and approach. Why come here crying when u were insulting and demoralising her. Gettat 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by fykes(m): 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Bia all this married babies sef..."I love my wife" yhen yehn yehn... 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by JOYIS190(f): 9:44pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
TheGoodAmerican:You just said it all. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by Mrkindness: 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
WhoDeyHause:take your time and read the lady's message to him. The guy is a bully he has pushed the good girl God give am back to her greatest fear. Nagging, badmouthing her, telling her she is his biggest mistake in life, telling her he has never achieved anything. Good since he married her. Haba she is a human too. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by dontrulee: 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
You dey do your wife's role. You dey shout and nag. ![]() ![]() You no be man, you be woman. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by flokii: 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
@OP Why were you insulting and saying hurtful things at your wife if truly you love her?. The biggest fear most people have now is not the institution called MARRIAGE but fear of entering marriage with a wrong and immature person. Judging from the msgs she sent, you didn't allow her work and have a sense of purpose, you just wanted her to be under you. Look around you my friend, times have changed. It's because of terrible behaviors as this one that is making the number of single mothers /fathers and divorce cases to be on the increase. Just sad. 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by kelvinovie25(m): 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
I understand your pain, the fact that you are angry she didn't come back home without explanation doesn't make you wrong, but for her to come and pack her stuff from your home, except you didn't marry her, cus it's her being stupid, honestly if my wife pack out from my home herself no matter the love I won't let her back, the parents should take care of her. |
Re: I Am Depressed by grandstar(m): 9:45pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: You drove her away and you have no regrets about your actions (Read Proverbs 28:13). You need to change. The fault is entirely yours. Start working on yourself. When you remarry, the same problem will crop up again and again. The broom that chased the first wife away will still chase the new one away too. (Read Proverbs 21:9). Do something about your leaking roof. Stop feeling entitled to have your cake and eat it too. The woman wants her peace of mind before she runs mad. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by abbey621(m): 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
angelboy01: I have no issue with the wife, it is the in-laws that get problem. Man can get angry but as long as he is not physically abusive, the situation can still be resolved. Responsible in-laws find a way to resolve things not make it harder. The man has a right to fight for his son, it would be irresponsible for him to not do so. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by reddingtonblack: 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: In as much as you deserve an Explanation you shouldnt have nagged her out, making her feel she brought ill luck into your life, bro you went too far. Remember is not as if you caught her red handed cheating, naa suspicion you just get nd all you need do is guilt trip her, by simply raising that observation then just move with a silent treatment, that beg you dey find she for endup begging you. I keep telling men there are mature ways of punishing a woman, without violence or insults. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by TheZeezle(m): 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Freedom is yours bro. Enjoy and take care of your son. Lobatan! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by andyblinks05: 9:47pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I've read all your replies to him and I was impressed on how logical you were. People make action and can't accept the outcome whereas each action comes from our thought process. To make it worst the let thier minds to decive them by making them the victim. All can be reduced with the help of more knowledge that's why I liked it when you suggest a book for him. 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Greatechng(m): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
WhoDeyHause: Clear road, chief adviser |
Re: I Am Depressed by Dogalmighty17: 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Lucrativress: I think you need to apply for thunder to fire you. |
Re: I Am Depressed by abbey621(m): 9:48pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
IamMobisola: I'm not here for the sentiments, go pull the data and check for yourself, grandfather was a judge and I also have two family members that are lawyers, please don't argue without doing adequate research! 1 Like |
Re: I Am Depressed by Elizmife: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Why are you even asking for our opinion on this when it is shown in your reply to comments of who you are truly and what your wife has been facing, and if if I may ask in which constitution is it or religion book of why daughters should not visit their family members and spend weeks after marriage. I want to know please. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by Burgerlomo: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Another SIMPle dude spotted
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Re: I Am Depressed by Kingsean(m): 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: look bro you have anger issues. just accept the fact. work on yourself. it's not too late. whenever you are angry, don't utter any word. this is the same thing that happened to my boss at work. he has anger issues and utters damaging words at that moment. he told his wife to move out cos of a little issue and now he misses her so much. it's 2yrs now since she left. drop your pride and work on yourself for the sake of your son 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by Vulcan24(m): 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Hey, people say all sorts of things when it's going tough for them, I can't judge you base on your testimonies here cos so many things happen btw couples that is best understood by theirselves. Trust me, don't let anyone judge you, the first person to walk away from marriage is not always the right person. It dosent make you less guilty too. First it's your marriage you want to save, do what is necessary to save your marriage. I see threats of loosing your son in her text, it's dosent work that way. Probably both of you have been engaging in fight before now. Nonetheless your wife action is calculated to hurt you and it's a revenge for your actions. It's a dicey situation but you can still save it if you humble yourself because you will be ridiculed severely in the process of begging her. Be a man and talk nicely to her first and not to her family. If she refuse ...... Let go. You are a man, nobody's perfect 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Kobojunkie: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
sorextee:1. I hate having to deal with people like OP who assume their short fuse my obligation. Na that kain person I do dey think twice to discard as friend at all. ![]() 2. I hate drama and I hate dealing with individuals who, rather than deal with their personal stress, look to offload it on others just for the sake of it. Why go out of your way for make others miserable because you have a problem that you refuse to deal with. ![]() 9 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by Mrkindness: 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Baddosqqi:your own is a different case brother, this very guy was abusive to his wife. 7 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by loliapoopy2013(f): 9:49pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: Wahala dey your body. No wonder she left and you still have not learned. Don't come here shouting love when you are not yet mature for it. Thank God she has men in her family who are by her side. 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Depressed by captainjoh(m): 9:50pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: You still dey make mouth, don't go and repent and turn a new leaf. You will end up single and alone for the rest of your life. With the chat up there you have been the problem of the house and you're here still been prideful. Men need to learn how to take responsibility of their homes and leave social media opinions alone. My advice for you, don't force her to come back but let her know you're still expecting her back and the door is always open if she wants to return back. Try dey pray for God wisdom too 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by grandstar(m): 9:50pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
breakthrough22: You should simply have welcomed her back and forgot the matter. When coming in the evening from work or business, buy her and your son some fast food. Call her parents and thank them for taking good care of your wife. And don't bring the matter up. Once she's back from her travel, the problem died that very second. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Depressed by Belleful: 9:51pm On Jan 13, 2023 |
Have you legally married her? Because I don't think her family will just support her to leave over one trivial issue. I don't think the problems you two is having started with this issue. There is more to it. For her to make up her mind and pack out of ur house, and her family is in support show's how far she has been bearing. She accused you of blaming her of ur misfortunes. But you didn't address that. Now I will advise you learn to control your anger and mouth. Watch what you say to use woman. Words hurt some women than being beaten. Try and work on yourself. Your love is wicked to her. Go and apologize and show her real love. U can't be missing her and at the same time giving her condition, that if she doesn't come back before Jan ending, you are done. Were is the love? And don't listen to those unmarried kids advising you to move on, that she can't survive as a single mom. That no man will marry her and take care of her and the kid. She already told you she is going to look for a job. God can bless her with a good job. There are many single moms doing well for themselves out there. There are many men out there that will gladly take her in. As you think of the negative, you also think of the positive for her. It's 50-50. WHO KNOWS TOMORROW? 7 Likes |
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