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Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 8:24pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Pals I'm still trying to find my true Match, the rib of my ribs, someone that will understand and see future with me , even as e no dey today, e no dey tomorrow, someone that will sow and ripe with me , someone that will love and respect me. I won't promise her heaven and earth, but inasmuch she remands with me, life will be comfortable. I stumbled on this gal on Facebook, she's exact my spec, thick, big hips with big booty (big yansh) lol, young and fair in complexion and we are from the same state. the south south, and i so much like her and we are in the same town. After talking on Facebook I asked for her contact and she gave it to me. I told her I will love to see her she said no problem. She gave me a day and where to meet (an eatery) but pals i must be honest , I didn't have a dime at the moment, I work offshore though as a trainee coming back home from work, i stayed at home for 7months no work no pay, I was broke at the moment. So I posted her that I'm not in town that as soon as I'm back I will meet her , she said no problem. Since I didn't meet her at where she said we should meet , I resorted to chatting with her on WhatsApp since I noticed she was on WhatsApp. First time I demanded to know what she's into , be it schooling or she's learning a trade, she responded to me that she's tied infact she needs data to talk, suggesting that I should buy her data, I ignored . I got to understand that she's a women's fashion designer cos she do post most of their firm's designs , d firm looks very expensive not like your normal tailoring shop. Equally got to understand that she uses iPhone 14 pro max and that's what she uses to upload her designs on WhatsApp , compared to me that uses ordinary android lol, but that isn't a problem. Our chatting has not really been good , currently I saw from her status when she wrote " guys are no longer toasting me" and I respond I don't want guys toasting her and that my eyes is fixed on her infact that she's taken. Before I could knew it she demanded for Christmas gift and new year, this is someone that barely meet me . And I responded that Christmas gift isn't the problem ,that I want us to meet so we could talk and know each other then I will get to tell her my intentions. She responded back that she demanded for Christmas gift not a date with me. since I said the gift isn't the problem do you know she sent in her account number immediately. Pals since then I have not responded to her yet, pals the thing is heart breaking and worrisome , I really like this gal, she's exact what I need as a wife if God permit I will love to marry her. Why is she putting peanuts in front compared to plans I have in mind for her. I see her as my wife , I watch her short videos everyday on my phone the ones she displays on WhatsApp status , but I will soon stop viewing her status. This year I will be going for a 6months career license course and as soon as I get my license things will change. Pals pls advice me on what to do, make I bon her, our conversation on WhatsApp is not really flowing well. Why is she so materialistic and it's obvious d iPhone 14 pro max she's using must have been given to her by one rich dude she's dating or was dating I guess , I just love her. Pls advice insults too is also welcome. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by PerfectStranger(m): 8:31pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
You see her as a wife, but she sees you as a maga. 26 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by fman(m): 8:31pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
She is not into you!! Forget her and move on... Many fishes in the ocean 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Salary: 8:34pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
**The fúck you say, little nigga? **That girl you're chasin' is preoccupied with some real nigga díck! **You've got to use your head! 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Nonywendy(m): 8:38pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
In all ur doings, please don't be a SIMP 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by texannaija: 8:44pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Shey this one dey whine ni?? 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by tayo60(f): 8:45pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Someone wants to be using you to cash out, better wake up. She isn't into you, na her maga she wan make you. 5 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Zeal0000007(m): 8:46pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Nonywendy:Yes my lord and spiritual 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Jennyclay(f): 8:56pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
I pray God deliver her from entering relationship with you not to talk of marriage. Someone's daughter is about to settle down with a broke man. Shior! Meet her in an eatery.. Wahala! Money for data.. Problem! Even common Christmas gifts... You can't afford and you say you want to marry her . You don't even have money to take care of her basic needs and you're thinking about marriage . Nawa oo . 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Dyfynezz12(m): 8:58pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
OP apart from the thick hips nd fair skin what other qualities did u see that made u come to the conclusion that u will like to wife this girl 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Banilla: 9:06pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Dyfynezz12:Thank you! The op is in-lust. He doesn't realise it yet. He hasn't met the girl. Apart from her body, nothing else makes her special. She even begs, yet he tolerates it cause she's his future wife. Lol! 4 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by obinna58(m): 9:09pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Snap out of your dream and face reality She has the hoe ideology so she’s most likely to be a hoe and fvked for penny She’s not for you, it’s a public property 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Nazgul: 9:15pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
You were jobless for 7 months without pay, you're currently at a very low period of your life cos you still don't have a dime on you, and rather than plan on how to improve your present situation, it's a girl whose sole purpose is to milk the little you don't have you're dying for. Honestly, guys are the architects of their own problems. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Jb95(m): 11:07pm On Jan 18, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Set awon corporate beggar 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Patriotsleague: 6:30am On Jan 19, 2023 |
If she doesn't change before marriage, she will never change. She sees you as a cash machine. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by peedeeasobie(m): 6:44am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: "I see her as my wife" because of bum bum and breast? Someone you barely know? You must be a seer! Abeg, shift one side 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by swaley: 7:23am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Nazgul:That's how they do. He see say she pass im level yet he wan chook head. He go come open thread tomorrow say after spending everything she left me. Nigerian men like suffering as it has configured their brain. Better go find work and leave girls alone 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by RayM34: 7:59am On Jan 19, 2023 |
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Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by 4ward4: 8:07am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Dyfynezz12: just ask him? Thinking marriage Is about those qualities |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by 2goodbobo(m): 8:08am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Young Man focus on the sugar for now, ants will surely come later. You are already seeing the red flag but you’re blinded by lost. Finish your 6 Month course and you will get many Girls that tickles your fancy. Not all girls are high maintenance or demanding. But as for that Girl, Run!!!! |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by 2goodbobo(m): 8:09am On Jan 19, 2023 |
2goodbobo: Lust* |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Xxx123xxx(m): 8:16am On Jan 19, 2023 |
You can see clearly see she's not for you but the big nyash and hips no go let you think well. Money go come if what you said about your work is true you just need to face front and arrange your life first. 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Goodlady(f): 8:38am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Zeal0000007:Let me give you an advise like your blood sister. Give her gifts you can afford. Go for your career course in time. Make some money before you consider relationship. Why? Cos relationship and money are twins. They came together. She may be a girl that's expensive than you. You can't expect her to lower her standards for you. So...face your career, give what you can give and if she's not giving green light, focus on someone else you can afford. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by ifihearam: 8:53am On Jan 19, 2023 |
You are way out of her league for now. Sometimes we say girls are materialistic but the truth is how you meet a girl matters a lot, you either maintain what you met ot improve on it. In you own case, this girl might be very beautiful to you but not a wife material because you cant fund her lifestyle and she is the type that is very materialistic and maybe into hook up. Stay away from her and since you are looking for a girl to suffer with you for now then go for your level. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by luizpippo(m): 9:38am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Jennyclay: Basic needs like free food at the watery, free data, and free xmas gifts |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Sheistoopretty(f): 9:39am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: Too much talks and no actions u should have stopped de questions and wait till u two meet, u are stalking her how come u have marriage plans at heart yet no tangible source of income? Please don't get me angry Besides, I hope u know such girls, like our type will always be approached by men? Do u think she is ready for marriage now? Hmm I guess not 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Streetmovement(m): 10:34am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking I just say make I tell you say day don break o, better wake up from this nightmare before you lose yourself. Breast and yansh and you don see future wife, una go just dey marry nonsense come put for house after complain go start. Better turn than girl to your hook up connect and discard her when you're tired of her kpekus, that's not a wife material, that's a cooperate olsoho in uniform. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Sixfeetbelle: 11:00am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Zeal0000007: Everyday, Nigerian men will come up with the same story, as an opportunity to insult women. Op, did you not look at yourself well before approaching that lady? Do you think you guys match? Just know that life is all about levels. The minute I saw your description of the lady, I knew levels was the issue there. A fair lady, on a normal, is more expensive to maintain than a dark one. Her skincare routine is expensive, her "dress up" is always on point, her physique means she will be dealing with suitors of a different grade above the normal which means an average guy like you will need to break to bank to keep up. Basically everything about her means you'd need to upgrade before you can get a lady like that to be yours. In essence, cut your coat according to your cloth. Cc: Pansophist come and preach to your brother abeg 2 Likes |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Sixfeetbelle: 11:02am On Jan 19, 2023 |
2goodbobo: Touch Modify on your first post and add Lust where you wanted to add it 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by pansophist(m): 11:13am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle: If I respond, na insult go follow. So make I chill for now. |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Sixfeetbelle: 11:16am On Jan 19, 2023 |
pansophist: There's nothing like insult here. Almost all the comments are going in the same direction. 1 Like |
Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Slynation(m): 11:24am On Jan 19, 2023 |
Men are the cause of there own problems... She's giving you all the flags that you are another potential simps but you are busy loving up a colded Olosho...You want a materialistic Olosho to build with you, I will not tell you what will happen anyways. 1 Like 1 Share |
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