Martinez39s:
"Wetin" is a word in a Nigerian vernacular. It means "what."

Haydens:
How to find out about your girlfriend body counts:
Just pick a qu@rrel with her female best friend and call her Ashawo...
Then buy ur popcorn🍿 and wait make she yan u all the full details of ur babe past.
No stress.

dontai:
Rubbish.

MallamChukwudi:
I can relate to what you have written, and quite frankly, you have a solid point. Though all that you narrated are symptoms, I will focus on the cause.

You see, the life of a man is hard in a way women do not understand. Our responsibilities are non-negotiable, and our dependents won't understand why they have to suffer, and why we can't show up and meet our responsibilities.

Nigeria is a poor country, and men by default in every society are the first 'defensive shield' to soften the economical blow for others (children, partners, aged parents, etc), or in the case of war, it is the men that will put their life out there for others.

And for centuries, this has been the fate of Nigerians as a people. If you can find the oldest man in Nigeria, ask him about tales of his great-grandparents if he can remember, and it would probably be in the time of slavery, or at the earliest, colonialism.

There is an arab proverb that says ''only sunshine creates a desert''. What that proverb meant is that to create lush, green vegetation, sunshine is not enough, you need to put the seed, water the soil, do pest control, etc to make it germinate. Furthermore, only rain creates a swamp as well.

You can't give what you don't have. Nigerian men are merely a bio-product of the difficulties of life in the Sahara, something good governance can alleviate the burden men carry, which gives way for that organic, deep masculine strength to blossom.

Up to our ascendants, there has been a series of disconnects for the timeless transfer of masculine codes, and what you have right now are sissy men that at best, are tolerable, not desired. It is a shame because as women complain of real masculine men, the few masculine men also complain of little to no masculine friends. And when society is led by substandard males, everybody suffers (proverb 29.2).

Your average Nigerian man is carrying loads upon loads of responsibilities, and the majority of his earnings do not even go to him. The wholesome, refined, sophisticated male figure that women crave is deeply lacking, and the cohesive bond and seamlessly interwoven of the sexes have been foundationally thwarted.

I am a man, so I know this place very well. I am responsible for lots of people myself, and I am not even married yet. My aunt and her husband died, and they left four kids as orphans, three boys, and a girl.

It was because of our intimate understanding of these social dynamics, and the requirements it takes to raise responsible adults, that made my family adopted them all, and made sure they grow in a safe, stable, and responsible family setting in their formative years, and it is no easy task at all.

And this is where empathy comes into play. Empathy is not a spoken word, it's an action word. I know it's easy to just heap the blame on men for their robotic state, but it's equally necessary to diagnose the causes, and if you can't help, at least don't add to it.

Nigerian men are humans too. They want to live with ease, and thrive, not just exist. Men are at their happiest when they give and protect those they care about. It is a thing in males, to sacrifice themselves (either time, money, or even life) for something meaningful, and family is one.

The above paragraph is the archetype of the messiah, to die on the cross for mankind, so others could thrive. That's what a man is about. And any man that deviates from this pattern, will suffer even more than those that look up to him. The data backs it up. For a start, men die earlier.

Karlifate:
Nobody loves you unconditionally. 👌

Only women, children and pets enjoy that luxury.

A man is loved based on the value he provides (at that particular point in time).

Karlifate:
Twice beaten, twice shy.

Having sex with his brother only reduced her value, the more.

Haydens:


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Lordfranklin:
Good morning brothers of the red pill!
I went to visit a female friend yesterday. While we were conversing, I noticed a change in her tonality, her body language and my instinct kept telling me to make a move.


While I was a bit skeptical initially was because she's made it point blank that I am not godly and I am a bloody Casanova; she's attempted to invite me to her church and fellowship countlessly which I always cockily decline.

And then I remembered the golden lessons I've learned from here about women having dual sexuality (the Madonna-LovePeddler Complex), their predisposition to gratify body desires even if goes against their core principles, belief and upbringing. I learned never to judge them by what they said, but by their actions and body language.


It didn't take long for me to surmount my doubts and I put my hands to work almost immediately. She resisted at first but it was in a faint manner so I continued. We romanced and kissed, it was a very intimate session.


I didn't have condoms with me so there was no way we could continue plus she paused; maybe she was waiting for me to start telling her those pointless declarations of love all to woo my commitment. I maintained silence and her face was awash with guilt and regret.

She'd suddenly realized she let her guard down and I, being the one they refer to as the "Silent Devil" struck.

She just couldn't bare the guilt and I had to excuse her to get a hold of herself. I've got this stone-cold aura, albeit wearing the face of a pastor. People often mistake me for an innocent soul.


I left her place and never bothered to call or text her until this morning. She's a student actually and she's writing an exam today.
Checked her Whatsapp updates this morning and she's literally begging God for forgiveness after going "astray". Lol


I texted her this morning and here are the screenshots.
Thing is, I really don't want to engage her in any conversation about what happened between us yesterday.
I'm confused right now and I really do not know my next line of action.


How should I handle this?


@Ubunja @Pukkalolo @JESHAL

Amongst others that have affected me positively in various lights.
I look forward to your wise inputs.

Karlifate:
Beyond the facade of innocence, is a girl that want to be slutted out.

Too bad, the boyfriend doesn't know this.

Karlifate:
Dora the explorer

Though she married as a virgin, yet the insatiable nature still took over