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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by lereinter(m): 11:45am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Akorkor: Hypocrisy |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Earthstorms(m): 11:46am On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar: I have been married to one woman for over 20 yrs now? So what is the question about staying with one woman? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by mrblessed(m): 11:46am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Tribalism123:So, what is your resolution? Are you diving in with your eyes wide open? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 11:51am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Wiliyanahalowin:when are you getting married? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by tiswell(m): 11:51am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Akin1212:from my revelation, I can see a product of single(mother) parenting. Your parent(s) obviously didn't show you enough love as a kid. We are not mates! |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by GodisFirst: 11:54am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: You really deserve better my dear. Just don't have it on your mind to weigh you down. They are your family, so you can't avoid them forever. Just pray that God will bless you with the type of husband that you need. Whatever they say, will not kill you only if you attach much to it. Just cheer up, don't get fed up easily haba! |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 11:54am On Feb 10, 2023 |
Earthstorms:how do you do it? For us that are used to frolicking with multiple women |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Chuxx84: 11:55am On Feb 10, 2023 |
How old are you? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by TalkCity: 11:56am On Feb 10, 2023 |
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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Akin1212(m): 11:57am On Feb 10, 2023 |
tiswell: You have seen many things that do not exist, it only proves that you are blind. We are definitely not mates, at least in the department of thinking, you are way below. All you do is project your whims, caprices, and conjectures on strangers online. It must really hurt to be you. If your parents had shown love to you when you were a kid, you would know very well that human beings are supposed to be given the freedom to live their lives on their own terms and not pressured to live the way others want. I am guessing you are one of those kids your parents hit every time you express your desires, hence you grew up with that attitude that everyone must do this or that, instead of doing what they want in line with their desires. You will be fine, or not, it may be too late, I only pity you. 2 Likes |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 11:58am On Feb 10, 2023 |
lereinter:go and research. You are a buffoon. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Earthstorms(m): 12:00pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar: It is simple, do unto others what you want others to do to you. You need to realize that sex is sex, so why get it from several women when you can get it from your wife. To me, successful marriage is about mutual respect and people being responsible. It starts with selecting the best partner that you can find and both of you agreeing to try your best to make the marriage work. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 12:03pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
ukaface:you are a two face mofo. You are advising sb but you dont want to get married. I pity people taking advice from you |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 12:06pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
tiswell:go and read. you reek of abject ignorance. Spits and smh 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Isabi4lov: 12:08pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Nowadays to see a guy that's serious for marriage is also difficult, na pipe and swipe with baby mamas mentality full outside. God will help we the single ladies . 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by ukaface(f): 12:09pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar:Na you be the real mofo Who be this one? Did you read what I wrote? I Dey tell person that no matter what she should find happiness this one Dey here Dey blab rubbish. Abi foolishness be your attribute? No be you get thread, but na you Dey scatter thread are you this stupid? Don’t you know when to stop? No carry your rubbishness come my side o, onye ezi |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 12:11pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Earthstorms:what about see finish? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by ukaface(f): 12:12pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar:For you to even think you are worth me telling when I will be getting married is laughable. People just get unnecessary confidence |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Earthstorms(m): 12:16pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
neztar: You want to prevent "see finish" with your wife? You can not avoid it, with time your wife will know almost everything about you. She will go through your stuff when you are at work. Like I said both of you should agree to make the marriage work and both of you should agree to separate if it is not working. Ensure your wife is empowered enough to take care of herself in case of divorce. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 12:18pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
ukaface:you are a woman for godsake and your place is in the kitchen. My mind is telling me you are into hookup |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by enonche85(m): 12:25pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
NutFunny: You no well!!....lmao!!! 3 Likes |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by enonche85(m): 12:27pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: How old are you?. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by NutFunny: 12:32pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
JASONjnr:No one's gonna tell you. You're gonna tell yourself by yourself. After then, come here. Okay? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by deavicky(m): 12:32pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:yousef go marry because I know no watin you want make we tell u here. If ur parents are pressurising u, it because they know u are long over due for marriage. The present life expectant of a Nigerian man right now is 65 years if u get to that point u will be living ur life by the day. Telling you this to encourage u to marry on time and give birth ontime sothat u won't die and leave little children without care at the hands of the people in this wicked world. Don't think u have all the time. |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by NutFunny: 12:33pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
enonche85:A good bad question right? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by TenQ: 12:33pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:Just tell them you will cut off from them if they continue to pester you. They want a good Wedding rather than a good Marriage ! But, you too should up your game. Dress right Present a cheerful- happy countenance Be in the right venue where men of same value go Be financially independent Advertise your qualities Pray and Serve God well 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by NutFunny: 12:37pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Bluezy13:Who told you they didn't understand the msg?
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Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by crowther15(m): 12:41pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter:I was looking for this in your write ups but it was not there. Everything is all about time. I would advise you depend on God on whom to marry, rather than leaning on your own understanding. You only see the outward but God sees the inward. God knows you better than you do. Please tell God to guide you on the choice of partner. Remain bless. 1 Like |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by neztar: 12:43pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Isabi4lov:are you celibating? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by MrSmooth71: 12:48pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Ideservebetter: Madam, first of all, how old are you? |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Anonymoususher: 12:49pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
As an adult three things I have learnt to do are. 1. Never ask someone when or why they are not married 2. Don't body shame anyone 3. Never talk down on any tribe publicly (though I do this in private) Those are private issues never to ask anyone except they bring up the issue. Back to the topic. I had same experience but with my pastors in church. Luckily I am from a family where everyone respects everyone's private life. My mom will never tell you to go and marry and neither will my siblings, they don't meddle in such affair. I am igbo but no one gives a f*ck if I marry Yoruba or Hausa... They believe you are old and mature enough to make a good decision. Where issue lied was in my church. My guys got married and a pastor in church would always call my name that you are next. Looking at the pple that married sef wasn't encouraging. They are living from hand to mouth. The thing became too much I had to tell the pastor to stop and warned church members to stop it. They were mounting unnecessary pressure on me which I didn't like. I am 30 but set 32yrs as the ideal age for me and so far I have been able to meet most targets and on course to settle at the age I set |
Re: My Parents And Other Relatives Are Making Me Go Crazy by Glowqueen3(f): 12:57pm On Feb 10, 2023 |
Hmmmn,Dear Op,just be calm and pray for God guidance to give you your own husband because a lot of ladies are experiencing what you are experiencing now.Yet most people put pressure on the lady to get married by hook or crook which is not advisable. Just try and mingle with people and also keep your mind open because peoples comment about you might make you get depressed.ire ooo |
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