I work in Portharcourt while my girlfriend works in Lagos. A few days ago, she told me that a guy who was posted in Lagos for NYSC would stay with her for a while. Since then, I haven’t picked her calls and she is worried that I am about to dump her. Yes, I am about to do so. They banged yesterday I think but she’s still telling me nothing happened between both of them.

What do you think guys? She’s crying on the phone.

It might be that she's just helping and nothing will happen.

And it might be they've had some chemistry in the past and something will or had already happened.

You can't know for sure

mumu


so she cant help an individual again... look at the insecured being saying they banged yesterday like he was there...


too many yaros roaming this good earth

Queendera:
It might be that she's just helping and nothing will happen.

And it might be they've had some chemistry in the past and something will or had already happened.

You can't know for sure

Okay but what do you think I should do? Because I can’t stand another man banging my girlfriend.

Johnholt909:
Okay but what do you think I should do?

I think that lies solely on you.

You know her better. If you can trust her tor. If you cannot tor.

Candidlady:
mumu


so she cant help an individual again... look at the insecured being saying they banged yesterday like he was there...


too many yaros roaming this good earth

Do you derive pleasure insulting someone who you don’t know? Do you derive pleasure insulting someone who could feed you and your entire family? Refrain from doing so.

Queendera:
I think that lies solely on you.

You know her better. If you can trust her tor. If you cannot tor.

Okay. It’s just that I plan to meet her people next month but the way things are going right now, I doubt if I could. I already told her to stay with the guy.

I camped a lady few days ago and we didn't fvck..


Its all in your mind..

Lol how did you know they fvcked yesterday? You seff your hand no clean be that for that PH because only someone who cheats will suspect their partner of cheating

Lee99:
Lol how did you know they fvcked yesterday? You seff your hand no clean be that for that PH because only someone who cheats will suspect their partner of cheating

I know they did, okay? If not, why would she be so desperate now to keep me? She already lost the game.

e don happen

Red flags everywhere, there is no such thing like she's just helping him, lies, women dont accommodate the opposite gender unless they are relative or they are intimate.

Know this and know peace, just let her go

Johnholt909:
I know they did, okay? If not, why would she be so desperate now to keep me? She already lost the game.

Your instinct is your spiritual guardian, follow it concurrently, if your instinct says they bleeped then you probably right

Bros leave that bitch..
No matter how they will still fuvk .. konji no be small thing

Sucre6:


Your instinct is your spiritual guardian, follow it concurrently, if your instinct says they bleeped then you probably right

They did because first, I called her in the night yesterday about 9pm but she didn’t pick up my call and did not call back. About 9:30pm, I called her again but she switched off her phone.

Today, in the morning, she called me more than 10 times , the twelve time, I picked her call and she was crying on the phone, saying nothing happened between both of them. I am not stupid. I am not a wussy. What I wanna do now is to withdraw myself. Withdraw myself gradually from her. She’s already lost the game. It’ll take her a lot of time to get someone like me. Surely, it would.

I will pick the other lady who indicated interest in me. A pretty lady whose mother doesn’t joke with me. She always calls me her son. I think her daughter would make a good wife because I can see that in her eyes.

I can’t marry a cheat!

love and relationships matta no concern us..na money we dey find nowadays...

we're tired of advising please break up..lols

Johnholt909:
Okay but what do you think I should do? Because I can’t stand another man banging my girlfriend.

Strangle her, case closed.

If you dont dump her, you are a finished man lol

Take one knock for head

That's a way of showing my appreciation for a good talk.

Queendera:
It might be that she's just helping and nothing will happen.

And it might be they've had some chemistry in the past and something will or had already happened.

You can't know for sure

She's a cheat!

Don't dump her, fvck her toto for free till you make up your mind to marry a more decent olosho.

imagrg:
She's a cheat!

Don't dump her, fvck her toto for free till you make up your mind to marry a more decent olosho.

Marry a more decent call girl? You are not wishing me well.

Johnholt909:
They did because first, I called her in the night yesterday about 9pm but she didn’t pick up my call and did not call back. About 9:30pm, I called her again but she switched off her phone.

Today, in the morning, she called me more than 10 times , the twelve time, I picked her call and she was crying on the phone, saying nothing happened between both of them. I am not stupid. I am not a wussy. What I wanna do now is to withdraw myself. Withdraw myself gradually from her. She’s already lost the game. It’ll take her a lot of time to get someone like me. Surely, it would.

Bro listen to me. take this from me as a person who has experienced what you are currently passing through and as a person that understand how you feel.

First, Believe your instinct because you know you babe more than the people here. If she is doing something unusual, trust your instinct.

An old nairalander once told me that a girl will likely cheat on you with the guy she always talk to you about. forget those talks of 'I don't like him. He is just a friend. He is not my type bla bla bla'. I went through all this only to find out she still slept with the said guy.

If that said nigga is like you or at least knows how to run things, bro, forget it, chances are there that they will both knack. An average number of girls will fall for an available guy who is always around her. There is barely anything you can do about it. But you can control how you feel and what happens next between you both.

Here is the mistake I made and what I learnt from my experience. Try your possible best to unplug any emotional connection you have with or for her temporary. NEVER, I repeat, NEVER EVER act needing and desperate to get her attention or know what she's upto or even try to get to know how she's coping with the nigga. If at all you have to know, NEVER act insecure. Don't explain much about your observation on her, or your fears, keep them to your self. Don't disturb her with too much calls and message.

This will put you in a safe position cause there are also chances that you can be wrong.

But start pulling your emotion off from that relationship E GET WHY

Johnholt909:
They did because first, I called her in the night yesterday about 9pm but she didn’t pick up my call and did not call back. About 9:30pm, I called her again but she switched off her phone.

Today, in the morning, she called me more than 10 times , the twelve time, I picked her call and she was crying on the phone, saying nothing happened between both of them. I am not stupid. I am not a wussy. What I wanna do now is to withdraw myself. Withdraw myself gradually from her. She’s already lost the game. It’ll take her a lot of time to get someone like me. Surely, it would.

And u handled it like a pro, I like that ✌😎

The simp said they banged yesterday but he is still considering dumping her. I have longer washed my hands off simps matter. Not my business

Imagine accusing someone of something you have no proof of. Oh chim! What will my ears not hear?

This one that was already planning to dump the lady long before now. The only issue here was she wasn't smart enough to pick it up.

Please, Op, break up with her and go and marry your "in-law" so that everyone can rest. Everytime, men will be acting like they are all that. Mtchewww

Op,your banny don dey receive strong whipping from the guy. And the painful part na be say the kind lashing wey such NYSC guys dey give other men serious bannies dey always dey dey different . I hear say dem dey take trams

Wahala

You know what to do

Can you put a 🐏 and a 🦁 in the same cage?

Even if it’s just once, they must do it.

Women no get strong mind like that.

Free the beech!

Feeder of family

SimeonOTC:


Bro listen to me. take this from me as a person who has experienced what you are currently passing through and as a person that understand how you feel.

First, Believe your instinct because you know you babe more than the people here. If she is doing something unusual, trust your instinct.

An old nairalander once told me that a girl will likely cheat on you with the guy she always talk to you about. forget those talks of 'I don't like him. He is just a friend. He is not my type bla bla bla'. I went through all this only to find out she still slept with the said guy.

If that said nigga is like you or at least knows how to run things, bro, forget it, chances are there that they will both knack. An average number of girls will fall for an available guy who is always around her. There is barely anything you can do about it. But you can control how you feel and what happens next between you both.

Here is the mistake I made and what I learnt from my experience. Try your possible best to unplug any emotional connection you have with or for her temporary. NEVER, I repeat, NEVER EVER act needing and desperate to get her attention or know what she's upto or even try to get to know how she's coping with the nigga. If at all you have to know, NEVER act insecure. Don't explain much about your observation on her, or your fears, keep them to your self. Don't disturb her with too much calls and message.

This will put you in a safe position cause there are also chances that you can be wrong.

But start pulling your emotion off from that relationship E GET WHY

Thanks for explaining everything to me. I can never be desperate on any woman, so long as you aren’t paying my bills. She’s the one doing the calling. She knew that I have nothing to lose. There are lots of women out there. I am already paying attention to another girl.