when i look at most of my married friends, how they live in their homes, with distrust, nonchalance, high rate of infidelity? Its incredible how they survive either as a couple or as an individual. Also, the attitude of most single men, its appalling , . May God help us, it truly scares me to get married. what do you think guyz and babes , ever felt like this?

na na na marriage is very sweet ,and sweeter if u r married to d right person

i attest to that

@poster,

Nothin as a perfect marriage.
u just gotta be possible and pray that u find a good man.
unless . . marriage is not an agenda of urs.

@poster,

pray to god almighty for guidance.

amen

yeah saucekid

@ poster marriage is sweet like jenny and saucekid said but with the right man .
You can't make conclusions from friends,how was your parent's marriage,aunties and uncles?
I'm sure you have some good examples around you.

I've said this several times,I've never been duped, used or abused by any Nigerian man and all men I've known have been Nigerians
Not all men are lying dogs.
That hasn't been my experience and I'm sure there are plenty other females that agree.

uhm

I've said this several times,I've never been duped, used or abused by any Nigerian man and all men I've known have been Nigerians
Not all men are lying dogs.
That hasn't been my experience and[b] I'm sure there are plenty other females that agree.[/b]

word osisi ,true talk

hehehe

yeah, i pray most times to God for total guidance, cause i really need it and maybe someday i will meet the right person but in anycase @ sheniqua, my parents had a lovely marriage but marriage in the past were good, principled, with a great deal of sense of responsibility and consideration from both partners, not like these days in Lagos. Even ,my cousin such a lovely , gentle lady looks tired, unhappy and lost in her own world anytime i visit her at home, I know she married the wrong guy!  
  But ,by God's grace i intend to shine my eyes, ears and every vein in my body, Its better to be single,free and content with one's personal achievements than unhappily married, confused and in the mercy of fate that things will change in one's home. Well, married couples with such scenarios can attest to this silently and pray for the best in their lives.

The Lord is my strength! Thanks guys.

@post
Ok
Ofcourse if you're young, you'll be scared.
But when you're older, well prepared, got sth to bring to the table, have a stable job, can help financially, etc, and you have a loving caring husband, then what is there to be afraid of?

Not scared.

no perfect being or thing in this life,the essence of our beings is to try to be perfect in what ever we do with the help of God

Marriage is a bed of roses

stillwater:

Marriage is a bed of roses

With thorns underneath

Naa, no thorns

i dont have thorns in mine

stillwater:

Naa, no thorns

well, I can't argue with you on this one. . .it's better to expereience it on your own  

uhm

aha uhm

ehe uhm

una no get work

jennykadry:

una no get work

lmao!

saucekid:

ehe uhm

oho uhm

ihi uhm

*sigh* arrg! you win



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too many crace pple hiaaaaaa

jennykadry:

too many crace people hiaaaaaa

3 is not many o
Saucekid
Jenny
nana


SORRY FOR GOING OFFTOPIC

@post
read up

A flawed marriage can be more painful than remaining single.

am very pessimistic about marriage
i wonder some times if it is even necesary
i come from a broken home and this plays a very crucial role in my pessimistic outlook on marriage
i prob will never get married although i wld want kids at some point, i love being in a relationship but i think marriage is very overated
imagine pretending u will or would like to be faithful to one person for the rest of ur life, i find that very restrictive
whether male or female are we really designed for monogamy presumming thats what most would prefer