Let's take three scenarios that are very ubiquitous in our modern day living...

Scenario 1

Two high school graduates, male and female, both jobless, probably learning a trade, around 18 years of age. If the guy approaches the girl for a relationship, 7 out of 10 times, the reply would be you're not my type.

Scenario 2
Two University students, around the same age, in the same level, maybe even the same department and/or hostel. If the guy makes any overt approaches to the lady for a relationship, he's most likely 8 out of 10 to be rebuffed.

Third scenario
Two graduates, both B.Sc holders, both hustling after school, living in very modest apartments, both under 30. The same outcome as the first two would most likely play if the guy does seek for a relationship.
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In all 3 scenarios, they could be very good friends especially for the guys. They could be there and do heaven and earth but as soon as the relationship line is approached...its back to your tents oh Israel.

Many guys will surely be wracking their heads, some would even become angry, possibly violent after investing so much into a friendship in the hopes of a future relationship. The rejection most of the time is usually firm. No means No.

Why? Why do you think you're not her type?

First things first is that you need to understand that men and women are not the same, whether you want to go physical, mental, psychosocial, psychological etc. We think and act very differently because the social pressures and expectations on us are very different.

Secondly, you need to understand that many (not all) treat anyone auditioning for their relationship space as a job seeker. You need to match a list of requirements.

I stumbled across a quote somewhere that states that men are idealistic in loving, show an average man a little love and watch him melt. Women on the other hand are pragmatists who love wouldn't sway at a certain age. It is a also a fact that women mature way faster mentally meaning that guys are playing catch-up.

So whilst you as a man is fumbling towards the woman you like, she on the other hand is assessing you coldly and she has to.

Women after a certain age looks at a relationship with economic lenses. Let's assume that you have a hundred Naira note and I have a hundred Naira as well. I then approach you so we can swap notes. Does that make any sense to you?

You have a bottle of coke and I have the very same and I approach you for a swap, surely you must think there's something wrong with my coke or with me? When you approach a lady on the same level, she's thinking about what you could do for her that she cannot already do for herself. Most of the time it's a zero sum game and hence they turn you down.

Even if a woman wasn't going to think like that, societal and social pressures would force her to.

Family: if your sister picked a salary earning teacher of 30K over a banker who earns 5 times that amount, wouldn't you call her crazy? Not to her face but you would.

Suitor: as a man, if you were rejected by a lady for someone below your level, wouldn't you question her intelligence? Have many of you not tried to buy women with money and gifts?

Thus women carry hypergamy but society (men included) support and prop it up. We keep it alive and thriving. Social media makes it even worse. Many Nigerian women think they're Florence Otedola that can bag a wealthy boxer in their 30s. Many Nigerian men are dreaming of having Davido type of money someday. The statistical chances of that happening is low.

There's a reason why Leo DiCaprio will never date over 25 thus no one will ever Amber Heard him.

Thus if you both are at the same place when she says she's not on your level, she's actually correct. Don't let woke media deceive you. Men and women want different things.

This is why highly successful men don't want highly successful women, what does the lady has that the man doesn't have? Jay Z could have had any A lister but he opted for Beyonce. Because he's got things to offer her, even despite his indiscretions, she stayed. Bill and Hillary Clinton, man was caught cheating but his wife stayed.

You definitely don't need money to get a goodlooking woman but you have to position yourself to be one that people are scared to lose. Don't let anyone tell you it's manipulative. It's not. When you exude value, you then get to pick and would not be subject to any feminine games or shit tests. She tests you, she's gone. No take backs.

In fact it's a fellow woman that'll shut the door in her face, not you.

Conclusively, avoid Nigerian girls.

atheistandproud:
Let's take three scenarios that are very ubiquitous in our modern day living...

Scenario 1

Two high school graduates, male and female, both jobless, probably learning a trade, around 18 years of age. If the guy approaches the girl for a relationship, 7 out of 10 times, the reply would be you're not my type.

Scenario 2
Two University students, around the same age, in the same level, maybe even the same department and/or hostel. If the guy makes any overt approaches to the lady for a relationship, he's most likely 8 out of 10 to be rebuffed.

Third scenario
Two graduates, both B.Sc holders, both hustling after school, living in very modest apartments, both under 30. The same outcome as the first two would most likely play if the guy does seek for a relationship.
----------------------------------------
In all 3 scenarios, they could be very good friends especially for the guys. They could be there and do heaven and earth but as soon as the relationship line is approached...its back to your tents oh Israel.

Many guys will surely be wracking their heads, some would even become angry, possibly violent after investing so much into a friendship in the hopes of a future relationship. The rejection most of the time is usually firm. No means No.

Why? Why do you think you're not her type?

First things first is that you need to understand that men and women are not the same, whether you want to go physical, mental, psychosocial, psychological etc. We think and act very differently because the social pressures and expectations on us are very different.

Secondly, you need to understand that many (not all) treat anyone auditioning for their relationship space as a job seeker. You need to match a list of requirements.

I stumbled across a quote somewhere that states that men are idealistic in loving, show an average man a little love and watch him melt. Women on the other hand are pragmatists who love wouldn't sway at a certain age. It is a also a fact that women mature way faster mentally meaning that guys are playing catch-up.

So whilst you as a man is fumbling towards the woman you like, she on the other hand is assessing you coldly and she has to.

Women after a certain age looks at a relationship with economic lenses. Let's assume that you have a hundred Naira note and I have a hundred Naira as well. I then approach you so we can swap notes. Does that make any sense to you?

You have a bottle of coke and I have the very same and I approach you for a swap, surely you must think there's something wrong with my coke or with me? When you approach a lady on the same level, she's thinking about what you could do for her that she cannot already do for herself. Most of the time it's a zero sum game and hence they turn you down.

Even if a woman wasn't going to think like that, societal and social pressures would force her to.

Family: if your sister picked a salary earning teacher of 30K over a banker who earns 5 times that amount, wouldn't you call her crazy? Not to her face but you would.

Suitor: as a man, if you were rejected by a lady for someone below your level, wouldn't you question her intelligence? Have many of you not tried to buy women with money and gifts?

Thus women carry hypergamy but society (men included) support and prop it up. We keep it alive and thriving. Social media makes it even worse. Many Nigerian women think they're Florence Otedola that can bag a wealthy boxer in their 30s. Many Nigerian men are dreaming of having Davido type of money someday. The statistical chances of that happening is low.

There's a reason why Leo DiCaprio will never date over 25 thus no one will ever Amber Heard him.

Thus if you both are at the same place when she says she's not on your level, she's actually correct. Don't let woke media deceive you. Men and women want different things.

This is why highly successful men don't want highly successful women, what does the lady has that the man doesn't have? Jay Z could have had any A lister but he opted for Beyonce. Because he's got things to offer her, even despite his indiscretions, she stayed. Bill and Hillary Clinton, man was caught cheating but his wife stayed.

You definitely don't need money to get a goodlooking woman but you have to position yourself to be one that people are scared to lose. Don't let anyone tell you it's manipulative. It's not. When you exude value, you then get to pick and would not be subject to any feminine games or shit tests. She tests you, she's gone. No take backs.

In fact it's a fellow woman that'll shut the door in her face, not you.

So true...

That is why it is advisable for guys to have something to offer in a relationship, before approaching a girl of a particular standard or level.

Before you approach any girl as a guy, first weigh the option by asking yourself some true questions.

Yawn!!

Zonefree:
Conclusively, avoid Nigerian girls.

Lol Women are women everywhere, go ask Emmanuel Eboue, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates how far? Cristiano has refused to wed Georgina, why do you think he's taken that stance?

If you dodge Nigerian women, Ghanaians aren't from the moon, neither are East African or North African. See wetin Ned Moroccan wife do am.

Dshocker:


So true...

That is why it is advisable for guys to have something to offer in a relationship, before approaching a girl of a particular standard or level.

Before you approach any girl as a guy, first weigh the option by asking yourself some true questions.

This is why men are logical and women are emotional.

This response is from a place of logic and intelligence. If it was a post about that other gender, then go don line up dey lament.

The line you are not my type will continue be in the lips of Nigerian girls until they become evening newspapers and reality sets in. That time, they become humble and start treating every man with respect including male beggars in the street. That time, every man becomes their type including okada men for two reasons. One is to help fucck them once in a while to save their aged pussies from drying out and two, to see if there's a chance of becoming "mrs" and have children before menopause comes knocking. The gender is confused.

atheistandproud:


Lol Women are women everywhere, go ask Emmanuel Eboue, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates how far? Cristiano has refused to wed Georgina, why do you think he's taken that stance?

If you dodge Nigerian women, Ghanaians aren't from the moon, neither are East African or North African. See wetin Ned Moroccan wife do am.

Update me abeg. Wetin Ned Moroccan wife do am?

pansophist:


Update me abeg. Wetin Ned Moroccan wife do am?

She left her husband's house, went to London and nobody knows what she was doing there. She was even posting herself on IG.

Now she's deleted everything and came back to beg for forgiveness.

So true. Like one of my lecturer once told us, why waste your time investing your emotions and finances in a relationship with your female classmates, when you know that the possibility of she getting married to you is low.

Zonefree:
Conclusively, avoid Nigerian girls.

He didnt state that

Where's your reasoning comimg from

Yohans:
So true. Like one of my lecturer once told us, why waste your time investing your emotions and finances in a relationship with your female classmates, when you know that the possibility of she getting married to you is low.

The man is talking from a place of experience. Course mates that boys were jealously guarding. Before we come back from 6 months IT, many were coming back with engagement rings or giant bellies. Men weak 😂😂😂😂😂

atheistandproud:


Lol Women are women everywhere, go ask Emmanuel Eboue, Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates how far? Cristiano has refused to wed Georgina, why do you think he's taken that stance?

If you dodge Nigerian women, Ghanaians aren't from the moon, neither are East African or North African. See wetin Ned Moroccan wife do am.

Why are you on this section abi you miss road

they will not read. Instead they will start abusing you. Some men are just basket cases.

atheistandproud:
Let's take three scenarios that are very ubiquitous in our modern day living...

Scenario 1

Two high school graduates, male and female, both jobless, probably learning a trade, around 18 years of age. If the guy approaches the girl for a relationship, 7 out of 10 times, the reply would be you're not my type.

Scenario 2
Two University students, around the same age, in the same level, maybe even the same department and/or hostel. If the guy makes any overt approaches to the lady for a relationship, he's most likely 8 out of 10 to be rebuffed.

Third scenario
Two graduates, both B.Sc holders, both hustling after school, living in very modest apartments, both under 30. The same outcome as the first two would most likely play if the guy does seek for a relationship.
----------------------------------------
In all 3 scenarios, they could be very good friends especially for the guys. They could be there and do heaven and earth but as soon as the relationship line is approached...its back to your tents oh Israel.

Many guys will surely be wracking their heads, some would even become angry, possibly violent after investing so much into a friendship in the hopes of a future relationship. The rejection most of the time is usually firm. No means No.

Why? Why do you think you're not her type?

First things first is that you need to understand that men and women are not the same, whether you want to go physical, mental, psychosocial, psychological etc. We think and act very differently because the social pressures and expectations on us are very different.

Secondly, you need to understand that many (not all) treat anyone auditioning for their relationship space as a job seeker. You need to match a list of requirements.

I stumbled across a quote somewhere that states that men are idealistic in loving, show an average man a little love and watch him melt. Women on the other hand are pragmatists who love wouldn't sway at a certain age. It is a also a fact that women mature way faster mentally meaning that guys are playing catch-up.

So whilst you as a man is fumbling towards the woman you like, she on the other hand is assessing you coldly and she has to.

Women after a certain age looks at a relationship with economic lenses. Let's assume that you have a hundred Naira note and I have a hundred Naira as well. I then approach you so we can swap notes. Does that make any sense to you?

You have a bottle of coke and I have the very same and I approach you for a swap, surely you must think there's something wrong with my coke or with me? When you approach a lady on the same level, she's thinking about what you could do for her that she cannot already do for herself. Most of the time it's a zero sum game and hence they turn you down.

Even if a woman wasn't going to think like that, societal and social pressures would force her to.

Family: if your sister picked a salary earning teacher of 30K over a banker who earns 5 times that amount, wouldn't you call her crazy? Not to her face but you would.

Suitor: as a man, if you were rejected by a lady for someone below your level, wouldn't you question her intelligence? Have many of you not tried to buy women with money and gifts?

Thus women carry hypergamy but society (men included) support and prop it up. We keep it alive and thriving. Social media makes it even worse. Many Nigerian women think they're Florence Otedola that can bag a wealthy boxer in their 30s. Many Nigerian men are dreaming of having Davido type of money someday. The statistical chances of that happening is low.

There's a reason why Leo DiCaprio will never date over 25 thus no one will ever Amber Heard him.

Thus if you both are at the same place when she says she's not on your level, she's actually correct. Don't let woke media deceive you. Men and women want different things.

This is why highly successful men don't want highly successful women, what does the lady has that the man doesn't have? Jay Z could have had any A lister but he opted for Beyonce. Because he's got things to offer her, even despite his indiscretions, she stayed. Bill and Hillary Clinton, man was caught cheating but his wife stayed.

You definitely don't need money to get a goodlooking woman but you have to position yourself to be one that people are scared to lose. Don't let anyone tell you it's manipulative. It's not. When you exude value, you then get to pick and would not be subject to any feminine games or shit tests. She tests you, she's gone. No take backs.

In fact it's a fellow woman that'll shut the door in her face, not you.

Wotoporiously speaking

The only thing I like is your writing skills...period!!

atheistandproud:
Let's take three scenarios that are very ubiquitous in our modern day living...
and earth but as soon as the relationship line is approached...its back to your tents oh Israel.

In fact it's a fellow woman that'll shut the door in her face, not you.

This is a greatly appreciated thread.
We need more of this.

I hope Nairaland redpillers and alpha males can see this.
No need bashing Nigerian ladies daily. Go Upgrade yourself, do this and watch them rush you.


Op I enjoy the way you write ✍️.

atheistandproud:
Let's take three scenarios that are very ubiquitous in our modern day living...

Scenario 1



There's a reason why Leo DiCaprio will never date over 25 thus no one will ever Amber Heard him.

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This Op sha.🤣🤣

Demonicus:


This Op sha.🤣🤣

DiCaprio na sharp boy na. You WILL never find him ENTANGLED in any drama. No trouble is ever HEARD from his end.

angelfallz:
they will not read. Instead they will start abusing you. Some men are just basket cases.

The thread is actually very civil

And I have been ignoring idiots

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

The only thing I like is your writing skills...period!!

Fmghewzy:


This is a greatly appreciated thread.
We need more of this.

Op I enjoy the way you write ✍️.

Thank you

All this epistle because of women??

Lmao

Nice one Sir
More of these

Women are too hungry for money. They don't love you for you. So when you make money, treat them anyway you like.

Long post for what we know already. Even from secondary school girls were already dating jambites and 100 level guys. Women are hypergamous in nature

Zonefree:
Conclusively, avoid Nigerian girls.

The way most of you Ikot Ekpene Andrew Tate lambast Nigerian ladies is mind-boggling. You think young Nigerian women are hypergamous? Then, you have not come across young women in other parts of the world. Their hypergamy is on steriods. Unlike in Nigeria, where there are social pressures to marry, these women can decide to remain single for the rest of their lives if they don't see their type[ of partners.

I would have posted links of Nikkei Asian Review and New York Times for you to read, but as a notorious alfa meil wailer, I doubt you would understand what is written on any of those newpapers.

Duh, Op you're stating the obvious.

atheistandproud:


DiCaprio na sharp boy na. You WILL never find him ENTANGLED in any drama. No trouble is ever HEARD from his end.

This AMBER wey Op dey fan dey Red ohh.🤤

Demonicus:


This _AMBER wey Op dey fan dey red ohh.🤤

😝😝😝😝😝

Kai understanding women is hard oh. All this epistle you wrote down are not applicable to all girls. i use to have university class mates who married each other. allota them. not all of them are useless.

whippersnapper:
Kai understanding women is hard oh. All this epistle you wrote down are not applicable to all girls. i use to have university class mates who married each other. allota them. not all of them are useless.

That's why I said 7 or 8 out of ten meaning that 2 or 3 will probably go and settle down with their mates but these cases are the exception, not the norm.

In my department, we were 136 yet we only had 2 couples, that's 4 people out of 136. These are the exception, not the norm.

I got two questions??


1. Isn't relationship suppose to be of symbiotic nature??



2, what did jay z had to offer Beyonce??


From what I can recall they were both A-listers ..

PrinceofAgoAre:
I got two questions??


1. Isn't relationship suppose to be of symbiotic nature??



2, what did jay z had to offer Beyonce??


From what I can recall they were both A-listers ..

1. In symbiosis, one party offers something that the other does not have and in return receives something that it needs. There's has to be mutual benefits, as anything less is parasitism. There's no unconditional love anywhere. It's a Disney myth. One that has been used to manipulate men into providing for women and receiving nothing in return. Men encourage this parasitism too.

The point of this post is to let men know that women are constantly assessing them and that they too should be very selective and choose based on what will be beneficial to them as opposed to just physical or emotional attraction.

2. In the early 2000s, no. She was not. For reference look at all the fellow members of the defunct Destiny's child. They were young and promising but they've all but disappeared. Beyonce however endured because she teamed up with Jay Z. Her first number 1 top rated single and her solo Grammy came from this partnership and she never looked back. Where's Michelle Williams and Kelly Rowland today? But Queen B is still relevant.