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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 7:16am On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins:1. Here is reality for you. If you marry a woman that is not at least of the same economic status as your person, or close, chances are 83% that your marriage will end up in regret. Whether na Calista or Ijeoma or whatever her name is, if she doesn't earn as much as you do, before and after you both sign the marriage papers, and you are thinking that you can be her provider and Lord in marriage because of that, not only do you set yourself up for regret in marriage but almost guarantee failure even before the union has begun. ![]() 2. If you are thinking of marrying a woman who will not contribute her equal share of finances and time towards the care and upkeep of her own marriage and family, you are pretty much setting yourself up for failure in marriage even before you started. Chances are 83% that you marriage will end in tears. ![]() 3. Right now you think age is not on your side and so you should go ahead and marry for that reason, and that seems what makes sense to you at this point in time. However, what that also means is that your chances of ending up in tears as a result of not taking your time to find the right mate are greatly increased. Rather than succumb to anxieties regarding your age, i would suggest you get over those irrational fears, and focus instead of making certain you find the best mate for you first. ![]() 5 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by emmaodet: 7:54am On Feb 20, 2023 |
I’m in love with two women I don’t know which one to take 13 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Maxxim: 7:58am On Feb 20, 2023 |
emmaodet:~Tony Tetuila 😁 20 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Qatar2022: 8:29am On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins:Invite Judith first and compare both them 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Red02(m): 8:58am On Feb 20, 2023 |
I think she is business oriented in her own way. From her statement you can see she will and is elevating her personality because of her current status Which means the higher she goes the higher she elevates her self, can you cope with that. Beside the girl go dey enter people eye wella, so far na fashionista ![]() Lol, Aren't you the one she's in a relationship with 11 Likes 1 Share
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Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Crampyblood(m): 9:16am On Feb 20, 2023 |
Na everything una de carry come NL these days ![]() ![]() 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Demigod22: 9:35am On Feb 20, 2023 |
brightakas: Leave that nyansh aspect. Even though I am not picky, as a woman, haven consider every other qualities, you should have average nyansh, at least soft something. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 12:27pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Red02:I have always supported her her in my own way... What attracted me to her was not even her beauty of thing... It was because I knew her background so well.. The mother loves me so much too... Just that I don't want to do mistake.. As for the second girl, I don't know anything abt her background... She was like a fish they kill and gave me whereby Judith is like a woman I found myself... We are like best friends... The findings of the second girl has lower my affection towards Judith 4 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 12:28pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Qatar2022:I will do that, soon |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 12:32pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:In terms of financial background... She is from average background too... Both of us are not born with silver spoon... MY major concern is a woman who can stay with me weather rich or poor... Her education and beauty competition should never make her to disrespect me.. I am just confused the more.. The nsuka girl is totally unexposed... Imagine a girl who has never been in shop rite 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by kunkelhanspeter(m): 2:26pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins:Guys will move heaven on earth to be with a virgin you don’t know what you are about to lose bro. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 4:27pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins:1. Her background means absolutely nothing to you given that you will not be spending her father's money in your marriage. In the very same token, your background means absolutely nothing to her since what matters is whether or not you yourself are financially stable. So stop considering the meaningless things. What I mentioned was that her very own economic status is what should be of importance to the success of your union with her. . ![]() 2. Women, like men, reason their situation in relationship out in pretty much the same way. That love in the brain lasts only about 3-months to 3-years depending, after which reality sets in for most and by the seventh year many have already reached their limit of the foolishness of relationships. So, you need to make sure that you are an individual worth staying with for a woman to stay with you, same way a man will only stay with a woman he considers worth staying with, and I am not just talking about just financially here. ![]() 3. If you are looking for a woman to respect you simply on grounds that you have a dick and maybe you make more money and can take her to shoprite, then I suggest you go buy yourself a sex doll, because 83% is it will end in tears for you if you marry a human. ![]() 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Nonexisting: 4:41pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
The two are bad markets. Number one is a spoilt brat and as an undergraduate, she is still in her hoe face too and not ready for marriage. A girl that relies on her beauty is mostly into olosho already or have multiple dicks she fucck. Number two is from poor background and from Enugu state. I know Enugu girls well. Most of them are timid at first but when they get married, they are difficult to crack. They are stubborn and there is this wickedness vibe that is associated with them. Yes, they are mostly faithful partners and you may even marry her a virgin but one in three among them will cause fight in your family when you marry them. They are good at quarreling and in competition with people which I believe is a complex issue on their part and this happens after they tear eye because they will want to belong by all means. My advice is widen your horizon to bring in more old female friends into the consideration. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Chienex24(m): 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Just invite Judith whom u knew from secondary school and observe her character/compatibility status. Left to me, there is nothing more worthwhile than childhood friendship or someone u knew a long time ago and vibe with. You should only be concerned whether she is in love with you too and will marry u with time, not duration of years because u are a guy ist of all and happiness in marriage is everything secondly. Put it in God's hands and thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Nobody: 4:49pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
What happened to the women in their 30's who are well established and understand how life is? Why is it that you men always go for barely adult ladies who are still finding their feet and yet expect so much from them. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Akinfemmy(m): 5:00pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Ardar: So a man should go for a woman that her beauty is almost at the fading stage? Nope never. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 5:27pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Akinfemmy: Thanks you have answered him very well.. |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 5:28pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Chienex24: Thanks Boss.. I love ur advice 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Brownshoe: 6:29pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Marry the two, 600k monthly no be small money. 12 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 6:48pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Akinfemmy:And this is why 83% of the time you all end up in tears. ![]() 23 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sixfeetbelle: 7:58pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Stay with the one you're physically attracted to, cause if you decide to chose the one with good business acumen, you'll cheat on her with the prettier one. No woman wants to be cheated on. 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 8:07pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:Wow wow... I love this advice too much.... Infact I don't have any feelings for her but the other girl is like my best friend... We understand each other very well, my only fear is just that I don't know if she can be capable to be humble in future... But we loved each other so much 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 8:10pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:But women do cheat so what makes you think the one he is physically attracted to will not dump his arse when he is no longer able to take her to shoprite? ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 8:11pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Brownshoe:So he should marry two capable adults and make them his dependents because he makes 600k a month even though the chances are raised above 83% at that it will end in tears for him? ![]() 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sixfeetbelle: 8:16pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I do believe marriages have a tendency to last longer if the attraction is strong. It might be erroneous on my part. I think he'd always be able to take her to ShopRite 😂😂🤣🤣 6 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sixfeetbelle: 8:21pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Britishcoins: Just to be sure, which one of them are you attracted to? 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 8:26pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:You figure it is OK to ignore the fact that this attraction could be one-sided?, ![]() 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sixfeetbelle: 8:30pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Eh, well. I'm not really here for his own happiness, just the lady's. If he's attracted to her, she'd not need to do much to have a good marriage. |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Kobojunkie: 8:33pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:How can she have a good marriage married to a man she is probably not attracted to and to have kids for? No amount of money can make a marriage good if both are not equally vested emotionally, psychologically and physically. ![]() I wouldn't even wish such a marriage on my worst enemy. ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Britishcoins(m): 8:35pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Sixfeetbelle:Judith the one that I knew from secondary school 1 Like |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sixfeetbelle: 8:41pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: In this part of the world, marriages of these type are commonplace. Op is ready to dive into marriage without considering all else and thus has already narrowed his options. My advice is based on what he presented, nothing more. Sure, I know marriages should involve emotional and psychological, even spiritual connection, but despite having all that, marriages still fail. 2 Likes |
Re: I Am Confused In Choosing A Wife Partner by Sukkyy2010: 8:44pm On Feb 20, 2023 |
SeeItSayIt:I know there'll always be a platonic people like you who never give a fk 3 Likes |
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