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My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by scholarshipbaze: 9:55pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
I work and trade crypto and forex, my girlfriend knows how much i earn, but because i have plans, i still live in a modern selfcon in an estate. So tonight i asked my girlfriend whom i wish to marry, if she would be willing to marry me as i stay in this selfcon, even if i don't have money to rent 1bed room. She said she can't, please what does this mean? Possibly not my class? Possibly might leave when things go bad? 38 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by slimjohn2k5: 10:00pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
Move on Most times, rejection bring out the best from us. Your story after u made it won't be without her 355 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by SlurUsername1: 10:02pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
She's a good woman, Hussle hard and build a duplex so she can Marry you ![]() 362 Likes 26 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by qwertyboss(m): 10:03pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze:What does that that supposed to mean, you work, trade crypto and Forex? Ain't that bullshits? When you are struggling 141 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Nobody: 10:09pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
Is crypto and forex enough to start planning marriage? What other investments do you have? Don’t be deceived sir, love is not enough in a marriage, a woman will always think ahead, the future of her unborn kids, the kind of environment she’ll want her kids to grow up and the rest. Women are love mathematician, you must calculate and get it right to some extent . So it means in her calculations she didn’t get you as the answer. It’s not that deep, these are some of the reasons why women shouldn’t date men in their age range, it mostly doesn’t t work out. 287 Likes 18 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by viyon02: 10:10pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
And when you eventually marry her, she will tell you she wouldn't like to see your siblings or parents visiting right?. You must be a fool if you yield to her feeling. 66 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by ProphetM0hammad: 10:21pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze:It's her choice Leave her alone 138 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by ModCaller: 11:15pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
Tell her that any girl who can't marry you as you are now is not worth your time 205 Likes 16 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by LikeAking: 11:18pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze: Many things wrong.. Try move to one bed room with water.. 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by JovialJune(f): 11:23pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
viyon02: You will sit down in your 2 by 2 and type the figment of your imagination, where is the correlation between the bolded and this thread? What is there if op yield to her feelings? People like you always think expressing ones heart desire is a bad thing, what is wrong in upgrading from selfcon? All these poverty mentality people sef, if Op doesn't like what she said, he should break up with her and move on, very simple. 102 Likes 10 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by ZIMDRILL(m): 11:26pm On Mar 03, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze: she sees no future in your crypto and forex thing so far what have you done with the money u earned from it 34 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Mindlog: 12:11am On Mar 04, 2023 |
Fact is the that, getting married now shouldn't be your focus. Imagine getting married where you presently are, she gets pregnant and start having children.... Nigeria already has over 133 million people living in poverty, 99.5% of Nigerians who have bank account, have less than N500k in it. Nigerians are fond of "nobody knows tomorrow" in regards to such situations, giving examples of people who married while financially struggling and later became financially comfortable, the question is....are they even up to 5% that make it out of that bracket? What happens to the remaining 95% and more, still in the trenches as they continue to have children and regenerating poverty? 162 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by KilimanjaroKING: 8:40am On Mar 04, 2023 |
1: please wetin be the diff' btw selfcon & 1 bedroom?? 2: what's your GF financial status?? you can combine funds for a better apartment, if she's not okay wit ur present resident. if she noh gree, abeg tell her to calm down, marriage is about commitment and support abeg... 33 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Puss360(f): 10:55am On Mar 04, 2023 |
Yes na... She's right... But she can collect gbola in the same self-contained... Dunno why, I just believe that guys dat stays in self-contained, can knack well than those in mansion 🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 45 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Blessedpalms: 12:45pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
for a woman to intend getting married she is supposed to have a job. If she has a job, she will be willing to support you the man when the two of you combine funds, to get a 2 bed room flat will not be hard... 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Ndidi2: 1:07pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Puss360:funny you.. 5 Likes |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Solocoin: 3:01pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze:You wish to marry her but she's not wishing to marry you. Not because of the house you live but because she doesn't want to marry you and she's using that as a cover up. How about people living in face me I face you. How about those living in batcher people still marry them. Since she can't marry you then there's no need for you to continue with her. 112 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by spencekat(m): 3:02pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Freestyle her ngwa ngwa 6 Likes |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Afodot0022(m): 5:27pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
All this unserious ladies out there sha, what's bad in settling down in a sef contain for a start, he wants the guy to spend all this earnings on rent and if you find out now, that babe might be broke and don't have any financial strength to support the dude to get a better apartment or even in marriage.. guy marriage is all about responsibility and love is not enough, if that sefcon is what you can afford, pls dont strain yourself cos when the gbege happen, that woman no go look your side. she is not ready OP cos if she is, she wont mind marrying you in a kiosk let alone a sef contain. we have married family that live in a one room apartment and even have kids there and they are living happily which is the most important thing, You can live in mansion as a woman and never have peace of mind. 36 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by scholarshipbaze: 5:28pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
qwertyboss: Lol, m worth over 30m in cash and assets, still skeptical about staying in the country or leaving thats why am still in a selfcon... She doesn't know But i wana marry befor either leaving or settling, and am wondering if you can't now, where is the love?? 34 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by scholarshipbaze: 5:30pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Solocoin: Thanks for this 3 Likes |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Connected1: 7:20pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
What's the difference between Self Con and 1 bedroom? I think she doesn't want to marry you, people get married in face me I face you houses sef. If she's serious with you like you are with her then this wouldn't be a question. All the same, it's good to move to a 2 bedroom flat, I suspect she's thinking how comfy the house will be when children start coming in but then again that's not a valid reason to reject a marriage proposal, it's either she's a gold digger or doesn't fancy you. 17 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Sharonstone7719: 7:41pm On Mar 04, 2023 |
Marriage sounds very important to you. She sounds like she wants financial security to feel safe enough to get married. Love is not always enough. She doesn't think you're ready to take care of her and a family .She has no confidence that if she finds herself pregnant with you that you can take care of her, a house and children. If you love her, you need to meet these goals. I think they're reasonable goals of hers and should be your goals, too. 19 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by qwertyboss(m): 7:06am On Mar 05, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze:Well don't let her know, Because she will later change her mind bcoz of the money. Better break up with her and find a better mother for your children 65 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Kobojunkie: 7:18am On Mar 05, 2023 |
scholarshipbaze:It means she is wiser and more sensible than you are being at the moment. Why is the world would you, seeing reality as it is, expect anyone who tie the knot when not financially ready for what comes next or follows? No be crazy be that? ![]() 11 Likes |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Richy4(m): 8:54am On Mar 05, 2023 |
Some of u can be really annoying. During your conversation, She said that she can't marry you instead of asking her there and then what she meant, so that she can clarify herself, you postponed it just to ask Nairalanders... So how are we gonna know what is on her mind now... Communication skills is really important in every relationship. If u don't have it, then learn it because it's the key thing....🗝️ 61 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by adecz: 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
She get standard be dat... You are below her spec.. 😁😁😁 Better thank and appreciate her for her honesty. She is just in the relationship to enjoy your big cucumber 🥒🥒, not to get tied down In marriage to a struggling citizen. Go look for your level and have your peace of mind. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Xclusive77: 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by inoki247: 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
Lol Wahala... So you sef wan marry for Self Contain.... You wan marry inside Studio apartments if kids show how do you plan to arrange things.... 12 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by omoadeleye(m): 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
What's ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by meum: 10:06pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
The question should have been will you marry me? Simple. Why did you add self con to the question? You gave her options and she made her choice. Now ask her to borrow you money to rent her dream apartment. 12 Likes |
Re: My Girl Said She Can't Marry Me Yet While I Stay In Selfcon, Anything Wrong With by Stevenson20: 10:07pm On Mar 05, 2023 |
This type of girls can't manage a home, when the cash is no longer flowing. Marrying a girl that is contented is very important. Leave her and move on, unless your name is SIMPlus 16 Likes 1 Share |
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