Thomasankara:
[/color]wealth is not gender sensitive,there are so many women in the other parts of the world that are captains of industries and presidents. what are my even saying, Funso Alakija does not even disturb her husband about millions b4 forging through[color=#770077]

She tell you say her husband dey disturb her about pussee? Abi who born man wey wan turn woman of substance to ashewo o

Albertone:
If I help with house chores, will she help in paying house rent + all our kids' school fees?

There are prostitutes that have been in the business for over a decade. You mean they'll be taking drugs everyday for about 12 to 15 years or more?
Sleeping with men pays their bills, wives sleeping with their husbands satisfy their husbands. That's enough motivation.

The emboldened is very fallacious. It should never come out of the mouth of anyone that has a working thinking faculty.

You pretty much certify yourself an imbe_cile by taking on another adult such as your own self— a complete adult with a functioning body and mind, only without a penis — as a dependent.

sisisioge:


Regina Daniels complain for your ears? Abi you see gloom for her face? No close mind o even wife wey run commot return with her full chest. Na wetin money dey do be that

lol ....wen I don marry my 5th wive I go come add you as number 6..money no b the problem

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

House help and house madam get same thing to offer the only difference is dir titles

IamANigerianMan:
I have never seen a useless generation like this generation , aside from TOTO this generation has nothing to offer, this generation allow old men like Tinubu, Judge Akume, Wike, Silva, Oshomele to rig election and nothing happened, the next TOPIC is SEX, Satisfy your man , Nonsense useless worthless generation.

Shut up ,this generation is even purpose driven . They haven't been any generation that likes TOTO more than the generation of the people you mentioned...
If the men then would have resisted those people and elected better people, we wouldn't have been dealing with their mess.

U pple here are not feeling Naira scarcity at all at all.

EBMedia:
If 'Ashawo' Can Tackle 10 Men Daily, Then You Have No Excuse Not To Satisfy Your Husband - Nigerian Man

A Nigerian man, Aderoju Dave Adewuyi, has said that women who are not in the mood to have sex with their husbands should leave the marriage so their house girls can take over, IGBERETV reports.

Adewuyi stated this in his comment on a Facebook group post on Wednesday.

He said if a sex worker "can tackle 10 men in a day' then there is no reason a woman should not always be in a mood to have sex with her husband.

The creator of the post wrote;



Adewuyi replied;



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Mad Dog

Ebube Dike I 🙌

Buy her a car and … 🤭😊

olisaEze:
Although good advice can be gotten from unexpected places atimes, I’m not going to take marriage advice from someone with this much bad diction! Most Nigerian men make it sound like marriage is primarily about food and sex with no thought for the mental state of the one that has to change her name and bow to their wishes no matter how inconsiderate they might be. The only way a woman can get her man’s attention is by giving or withholding. Solve the matter and she’ll give in, abi you think you like sex pass your woman?? Buy her a car first and see if your manliness won’t be sore for a week!

starstaz:
U pple here are not feeling Naira scarcity at all at all.

Artificial scarcity wey dem create make dem take collect their vote rigging money back from una?

I would have said the man is foolish. But, I witnessed too many instances where women doing absolutely nothing at home besides cooking and sweeping a two bedroom house, deny their husbands sex. I've witnesses this even with childless couples. Why? why? why? why? Not one week, two week,... why?

Why? I don't really understand it. On reddit, i see a whole thread of men from different races(funny enough not muslims) saying the same thing. Their wives are starving them even though they provide for the family and are good men. I've witnessed it first hand. Good men turning to alcohol nd olosho because wife is not emotionally available. Why?

Excuses such as,
"libido changes after birth"
while on the extreme side this may be the case, but that's not entirely true as studies have shown. Libido and the sex arousal or desire are completely different things. So why?
Men are more sexual than women is utter crap scientifically speaking and a 21 century Christian crap...

And, it is particularly common with Christian women.. Why??


After all being said, you'd realize that the MAN is ro blame. It was He who demanded that women be virgins.
It was he who'd have women's clit cut out to curb hee libido..
Man na you do yourself....

Exactly how my wife normally does. She's this 'I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TYPE' and I don't disturb her, just once a week. So I got myself a very beautiful young girl as my girlfriend and she knows about it. She want me to quit my relationship with the girl which is impossible. We've been dating for almost a year now and she'll be traveling out of the country by next month.
I've not slept with my wife for more than six months though she has a baby of 3months now. She has begged me and I refused to have any intimacy with her. I am looking forward to divorcing her. That's what stupidity have caused her

olisaEze:
Although good advice can be gotten from unexpected places atimes, I’m not going to take marriage advice from someone with this much bad diction! Most Nigerian men make it sound like marriage is primarily about food and sex with no thought for the mental state of the one that has to change her name and bow to their wishes no matter how inconsiderate they might be. The only way a woman can get her man’s attention is by giving or withholding. Solve the matter and she’ll give in, abi you think you like sex pass your woman?? Buy her a car first and see if your manliness won’t be sore for a week!

Men shouldn't think life is about food amd sex but the women should think life os about cars and material things abi? Later when ur gf dump you for wealthier man you'd be crying in johndoe thread.. eyahh😂

OlawaleBammie:
How u wan take deal with me..

Alaye gbagbe, na u go taya, me wey be say a dey like to dey inflict if a dey para. SEBI u wan punish me ni, lol, things go dey spoil and a go dey happy say e dey spoil.


I even love it more when things get out of hand, and I like revenge more than anything, I don't forgive, I don't forget and I don't like it when I am unable to avenge..

I like to take vengeance by my sef cus God can be so forgiving...and that is not my nature.

Seeing my adversaries go tru agony give me joy, I like it when u re oppressed and I see the oppression in u..

Woman no try me, tho I don't use to cross woman boundaries, I don't disregard or disrespect anyone I call my woman or friends, every women in my life love and like me, they always want to see me. But they know my nature, so they don't do what will infuriate me to the point I will like to take revenge.

Not that u can't offend me, no, it's not possible..but don't do like u can offend me, cheat me and still want to punish me for taking necessary steps to get back at you, else I don't mind if both party kick the bucket and continue with the fight from the great beyond.

Olawale , u dey para oooo.

If you dey fight person and the person tries to overpower you, Wetin you go come do?

Na wa for u oooo

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

A problem many nigerian women unknowingly suffer from is low libido brought about by female circumcision. This makes her unevenly yoked together with her spouse.

I know a Christian brother who could count how many times he has slept with his wife simply by counting how many kids he has. She hates sex.

Sadly for him, adultery is taboo and he must keep his marraige vows to the end. He is a Jehovah's Witness.

tragergeorge:
lol ....wen I don marry my 5th wive I go come add you as number 6..money no b the problem

Loud the audio make we hear wella until your dream come true

Very possible, some is more than ten in a day if market come up well

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

IyaebeTheGreat:
No matter how you all try to paint it, it is very morally wrong to sleep with a housegirl, it is total disrespect to your wife even after divorce. Not justifiable at all. Any other lady but your housegirl. Haba

Thanks for clarifying this. Your opinions are very well respected on the subject.

But, it is a leap for you to conclude that your opinions are the moral compass.

Maiden, House Helps, House Girls, etc are also humans and have the same dignity as current wives, there is nothing wrong for them to get married to their former bosses, if the former boss is legally free to remarry.

The above scenario happens throughout the Bible and in modern history. It is easy to conclude why current House wives would disdain seeing their House maid getting married to their former husband because they hold their maids lowly and as second class and can fathom how their previous husband would see them worthy.

In my book, once you divorce a man or woman, free them in your mind and let them go, they are free to marry whoever they pleases lawfully, it is a sign of undealt-with baggages to be still be judging them on account of who they decide to have a legal relationship with afterwards,

OlawaleBammie:
How u wan take deal with me..

Alaye gbagbe, na u go taya, me wey be say a dey like to dey inflict if a dey para. SEBI u wan punish me ni, lol, things go dey spoil and a go dey happy say e dey spoil.


I even love it more when things get out of hand, and I like revenge more than anything, I don't forgive, I don't forget and I don't like it when I am unable to avenge..

I like to take vengeance by my sef cus God can be so forgiving...and that is not my nature.

Seeing my adversaries go tru agony give me joy, I like it when u re oppressed and I see the oppression in u..

Woman no try me, tho I don't use to cross woman boundaries, I don't disregard or disrespect anyone I call my woman or friends, every women in my life love and like me, they always want to see me. But they know my nature, so they don't do what will infuriate me to the point I will like to take revenge.

Not that u can't offend me, no, it's not possible..but don't do like u can offend me, cheat me and still want to punish me for taking necessary steps to get back at you, else I don't mind if both party kick the bucket and continue with the fight from the great beyond.

This Guy! You be real Ijogbon.
I been dey follow your convo...
If you are real with wat you said up there ..... Mhen i must say I love your spirit...

wizod:
Exactly how my wife normally does. She's this 'I'M NOT IN THE MOOD TYPE' and I don't disturb her, just once a week. So I got myself a very beautiful young girl as my girlfriend and she knows about it. She want me to quit my relationship with the girl which is impossible. We've been dating for almost a year now and she'll be traveling out of the country by next month.
I've not slept with my wife for more than six months though she has a baby of 3months now. She has begged me and I refused to have any intimacy with her. I am looking forward to divorcing her. That's what stupidity have caused her

Sometimes, you just have to know how to trigger that clit to rise.. Women weren't built to go about looking for sex..

A peck on the neck, while she's cooking can work wonders. You don't really need to spend the most, I've learned alot from observing Ghanaian guys. This guys know game...I've seen guys bring their babes to fanciful restaurants but would order just malt nd maybe meat for the babe.. Its not the food or the money, its the--whats it called? - - its the-- don't know d right vocab to use.. 😂 😂 😂

Naija guys don't know game.. Just money..
How many average men would take their wifes to the nearest mama put.. even if it is once in a while..
Thats why their babes are cheating on them with a much broker guy.. then they would be wondering "what happened"?

kkins25:
■ I would have said the man is foolish. But, I witnessed too many instances where women doing absolutely nothing at home besides cooking and sweeping a two bedroom house, deny their husbands sex. I've witnesses this even with childless couples. Why? why? why? why? Not one week, two week,... why? Why? I don't really understand it. On reddit, i see a whole thread of men from different races(funny enough not muslims) saying the same thing. Their wives are starving them even though they provide for the family and are good men. I've witnessed it first hand. Good men turning to alcohol nd olosho because wife is not emotionally available. Why?

Excuses such as, "libido changes after birth" while on the extreme side this may be the case, but that's not entirely true as studies have shown. Libido and the sex arousal or desire are completely different things. So why? Men are more sexual than women is utter crap scientifically speaking and a 21 century Christian crap...

■And, it is particularly common with Christian women.. Why?? After all being said, you'd realize that the MAN is ro blame. It was He who demanded that women be virgins. It was he who'd have women's clit cut out to curb hee libido..
Man na you do yourself....

1. Why do these men not opt to marry the Oloshos from the get-go? Why make the decision to marry a woman with a low sex drive only to complain later when their tickers begin to run lower? Just marry an Olosho from the go and they are set for life, sex-wise. Then they won't have to look outside of marriage in order to have their sexual needs met.

2. ROFLMAO!

1Sharon:


What does your gf need a house girl for?

After wedding

TheBillyonaire:


Hell no, I prefer reading and watching movies than going naked and stressing my muscle for a pleasure that crack cocaine that deliver with higher vibration for a longer duration and at a cheaper cost.

Nice one..
It's the way people make sex a big deal..if it's not sex then it's nothing.

MissOpe:


Olawale , u dey para oooo.

If you dey fight person and the person tries to overpower you, Wetin you go come do?

Na wa for u oooo

no na, surely there must be some people who are more powerful than u re. But that is when u wil activate wat we call hibernation.

Pretend like u re defeated, give the strike a break, then wen to s are calm strike him when he didn't expect.


And one rule I always follow, when u re fighting someone don't ever have it in mind that the fight is settled, always be on guiding mode cus he himself can spring out surprises when u least expected.

lieutenantprime:

This Guy! You be real Ijogbon.
I been dey follow your convo...
If you are real with wat you said up there ..... Mhen i must say I love your spirit...

I hate cheating bro, especially from women

Kobojunkie:
1. Why do these men not opt to marry the Oloshos from the get-go? Why make the decision to marry a woman with a low sex drive only to complain later when their tickers begin to run lower? Just marry an Olosho from the go and they are set for life, sex-wise. Then they won't have to look outside of marriage in order to have their sexual needs met.

2. ROFLMAO!

How would they know that they'd be starved? why don't women marry men who won't maltreat them from the get-go? I can play the card too.

id4sho:
Tell dem. I told my girlfriend, to Bleep ashawo cost 500 naira. You bring house girl , you've added me a wife. It's CHEAPER . Aunty started blowing hot You need to be serving Dem hot, make their mind de

Why not marry the ashawo for house then and who knows, when she is not having sex with 10 men, she can direct all that energy to do the job of house help, provided you take very good care of her. Isn't that even cheaper?

Kobojunkie:
Why not marry the ashawo for house then and who knows, when she is not having sex with 10 men, she can direct all that energy to do the job of house help, provided you take very good care of her. Isn't that even cheaper?

Oh please, women don't bend their biology when selecting spouse, why should men? play fair na.. 😅

OlawaleBammie:
no na, surely there must be some people who are more powerful than u re. But that is when u wil activate wat we call hibernation.

Pretend like u re defeated, give the strike a break, then wen to s are calm strike him when he didn't expect.


And one rule I always follow, when u re fighting someone don't ever have it in mind that the fight is settled, always be on guiding mode cus he himself can spring out surprises when u least expected.

He who fights and run always live to fight another day...

Thanks Olawale...

IyaebeTheGreat:
Only a very foolish, dirty and a lowlife man will shamelessly lay with a househelp. A woman should not deny her husband her body except for reasons beyond her which a sane man will understand and wait till she’s fully ok and ready. Is it possible for a prostitute to satisfy 10 men in a day? I don’t think it’s possible.

So house helps are dirty?

What I don't like in some wives is why they constantly deny their husbands sex, even if she's giving u the thing,she will squeeze her body and u will not enjoy it. But if u seek redress outside,they will cry wolf....!Some of Nigerian wives are hell to their hubbys..,quote me..gba ham
We move.

kkins25:
■ How would they know that they'd be starved?
■ why don't women marry men who won't maltreat them from the get-go? I can play the card too.

1. How would they not know? If a woman already experiences low sex-drive in her twenties, chances are even higher that by her 30's that drive is bound to plummet even further.

2. Abuse has nothing to do with this topic, so let's not deviate.

OlawaleBammie:
see this one?? U also not having any justification to tell me how to live my life, who I sleep with or not, so far they are not minors and married women.


U as a person, if I marry u and I put u in my house, but u re misbehaving like a Toyota Corolla with bad alignment, and there is a cultured housegirl who is old enough to be a wife...well, if u re not trying to adjust I will replace u with her, a go even do valedictory service for you the day u want to pack out.
U come Ur life I come my life, but u wan use stress kill me...madanwo!!!


See,. a go just replace u before another man hijack the good house girl from me. Dey play

If Abraham fit knack him house help? Who you come be