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Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:26am On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Stop mentioning me. Argue with them on their take. You think say you get bad mouth, if I start with you, you go run. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:44am On Mar 11, 2023 |
fortyishcouga: I think you should ask yourself that question because I never envisaged such. I don't entertain negative thoughts so the issue of misfortune is overruled here but since you believe in such, what will you do? Now back to the matter. When I say a man that can take care of you, I mean... a very rich man. I'm talking about a man with landed properties and companies or businesses that can keep him financially afloat for as long he lives and of course with such, he can establish the wife to a point where she can conviniently chest any financial responsibilities in his absence. However my sis, if you choose to go with a struggling man because of that mentality of yours, your choice. please do. Since it's better to be with a struggling man than being with one you fear will have misfortune. Being with a struggling man is kukuma natural misfortune and disaster. so be with him. I don't know why people always foresee evil around good things. Always trying to pamper and romance poverty na wa o! Since that's how you perceive life, Biko, hold the struggling one tight to avoid misfortune according to you. Your methodology really suits you o. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Raalsalghul: 6:56am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: I find it interesting that you've mentioned ancient times, our forefathers and whatnots. But I'll have to ask if you are a virgin. Yes, I'm asking you that question. Because while men were expected to be providers through and through, the women had to be sexually pure, virginal, soft, supple, feminine with no rubbish past. So I ask again, are you a virgin? You can't be referencing ancient times with regards to a man's responsibility and ignore that of a woman. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Jacobx007: 7:07am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Whatever rocks your boat madam, I didn't intend to insult you in any way. You have every right to pursue your dreams and live the life you want. I know you are educated from the way you presented your write up, very sweet ENGLISH Enjoy your weekend 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by SenatePresdo(m): 8:03am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: So what's the meaning of Gender equality? I believe in Gender equality, so I can't take the responsibility of paying the bills of my equal. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Philosopher1979: 9:31am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Will u settle for polygamy because such men are allready taken. I mean a man thatvrich will have too many ladies and will probably be married by the time u meet him. Oko won no igboro. Husband is scarce to get. Most men under 30 are not that successful. Life is not that straightforward 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by UnOrdinary07(m): 9:42am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: and vice versa. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by talk2hb1(m): 10:23am On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Hmmm, I won’t want my Daughter or Baby Sister to get Married to a Guy Who Can’t take care of Himself Financially and Mentally! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 12:02pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Jacobx007: I didn't insult you either. Na you bring ashawo enter the matter. Enjoy. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Jacobx007: 12:08pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Sincere apologies please 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 12:20pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Philosopher1979: I wouldn't settle for a married man because of wealth. But I also don't agree that there are no rich or comfortable single men out there from where I can make my choose. Life is not some times straighforward I Know but all I'm saying is let's guard against unecessary pressure. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 12:21pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Jacobx007: You don't need it. I'm not crossed with you. We just talking. Normal . |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 12:24pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
talk2hb1: Be careful what you wish for. There's power in the tongue. Don't place a curse on your unborn daughter. Please. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Nobody: 12:25pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Honestly can't fathom the wailing on your post. Since when the poverty/struggling become a virtue? A low value man can never be virtous. If poor men can be virtuous,why are nairaland men(who are mostly poor/struggling) vile? The men crying want good life for their sisters and daughters. When it's their sisters enjoying monetary benefits from men they are happy. When it's other ladies they become resentful or accuse them of hookup. Misery loves company. People that go to Maldives for vacation,do they have two heads? Which do you prefer? That your neighbor child in a duplex comes to flaunt the fancy toy their parents bought for them to your child in a boy quarters and when your child asks you to buy such for them also,you can't afford to because of the man you married? Do you like a situation where you can't attend parties because you can't afford aso ebi because of the man you are with? Women please consider before commiting to a man that can't provide all your needs. You are a woman,the most beautiful creature on this planet. Men are savages without you,you are the one that lighten up a man's world,so the least they can do is sustain their source of joy by providing her need. Men are very brutal in vetting. They will never settle for a woman that falls short of the society standards.So never drop your hypergamy. Hypergamy is our compensation for their polygamous nature .it is fair enough. Ignore broke, frustrated men trying to sham you for wanting a provider man. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 12:52pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Bullythebully: Lol . This one na total annihilation. Shey me i was still using a corner of my mouth to say it. You just kukuma shatter the table hahaha 🤣🤣🤣. True o, those people who are living out the life of their head don't have two heads o. Why should I now let my own be different. Mbanu. The truth is.. most ladies like to be reactive than proactive. They will turn deaf ears to this warnings and go ahead with it. When reality strikes, that's when they'll want to opt out by what time it's already too late to gather the shattered pieces of their lifes The men are not doing themselves any good by commiting to such Union where you can't have a plan b in case of an emergency. Just like what happened to me in that lawyers house, what if it had gotten worse than that and the yeye garlic didn't work?... Hmmm ... Any time I remember that incidence, I shudder. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Gerrard59(m): 6:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Raalsalghul: Erimma1, You have not answered this young man's curiosity. But then, I recall well-to-do Nigerian men who still married ladies who fvcked around when they were younger or in school. Sha, I don talk am, the average Nigerian man has no standard when it comes to marriage. Na to dey shout alfa meil for road while dangling the smelly preek. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 6:39pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:The ancient landmarks set by your forefathers is what brought you a lot to where you are today where reality finally crashes down that delusion revealing it for the foolishness that it always was. Are you certain you want to continue to live such a foolish reality? 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Raalsalghul: 7:29pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Everything we complain about in women are caused by men changing themselves. And most men are wrongly seeking for the solution by expecting women to change when it is they (men) that should. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Regex: 7:38pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Gerrard59: I know of a man who married a girl that it was obvious to everyone in the department she was sleeping with her lecturer. I saw one of her post where she was adoring the husband on Facebook on his birthday, I was pretty disgusted. I used to be friends with guys who organised shows for models etc when I was in Nigeria, I happened to attend one of their shows and after show and after party, God! You needed to see how they were sharing the female models around and what they're doing to them... I mean the organisers. Needless to say, the male models are not left out, most of them have become homosexuals. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 7:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Which one are you living? |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 7:47pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Gerrard59: Answer him what exactly? His question does not aligned with the post cos I'm not talking about body count here. Let him read the post again and come up with a more correlative question. Then will I be obliged to answer him. You guys have deviated from the original context of this post. As if the men are saints themselves. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 7:57pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:I ply the path of commonsense in all my dealings. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by purehustle101(m): 8:02pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Poverty can make you believe that some write up are normal. I encourage guys to forget anything that concerns love in a country where love is been paid for. Move out to develop countries if you really want to experience love. Please not with a Nigeria girl. Don't date women that can't stand on there own. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by purehustle101(m): 8:12pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
As a man your only responsibility is to take care of your kids . Once they reach 18 in most develop countries they are on there own. The only fulfilment you get in these life is always let your happiness comes first.. Dey no put you for these world to work and Carter for people till you die, Enjoy your life. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 8:38pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: O han Lara yin. Eku orire. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 8:40pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
purehustle101: Then stay by yourself now. Why go and bring somebodys daughter to come be looking like lucozade in your house? See me o 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 8:49pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
purehustle101: Whos talking about love? Abeg snap out of your delusions. We are talking nitty-gritty, you're talking indian film. You think marriage is all about fairytale or zeeworld? Let responsibilities hit you left front and right, even with your woman working and supporting your struggles, you'll know what's up. The so called developed countries that you can't even talk to their women anyhow and you'll lose all that makes you a man. God help you, you are the type expecting what she will bring to the table, youll land in naija with the next available flight if you try one inch of the rubbish you do with naija girls. How you men glorify slavery in a relationship with a white girl all because of selfish gains ( which in most cases doesn't last) is what baffles me. Atenu 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 9:06pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
nlfpmod |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by mario2k(m): 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Why should a woman be the one to meet your needs? Are women meant to til the ground? That's the man's duty from creation and even though women are now doing it. It still doesn't give a man the right to her money. RUN AWAY FROM THIS TYPE OF CREATURE,THEY HAVE NOTHING PHYSICALLY, SPIRITUALLY,MENTALLY. ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO OFFER A MAN 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Isabi4lov: 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Tell them o , some women will be forming super woman but deep down in their hearts they're dying . You better don't start what you cannot finish. If your man don't spend on you , definitely he's spending on someone else . To look good and healthy it entails money . Make nobody bobo you . 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Nobody: 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Erinmma, As a guy, i wholeheartedly agree with you. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by UAObi: 9:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
She should go, so that the man can have his peace and manage his life. Simple Don't beg anybody to stay with you. Let her go 3 Likes |
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