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Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by rippa(m): 10:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Can u do the works our mothers did then? Can u farm? Can u do cassava work? Men duty those days are just to clear the farmlands nd bushes, the women do the plantings and harvesting. Our mothers then contributed a whole lot. Not all these entitled girls we have this days 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by themanderon: 10:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
The Op is one of these new generation people that have shallow thinking. A man that must meet your needs but you never spoke about what you are going to be bringing to the table. Another thing is what if the said man that can meet your needs today runs into stormy waters especially in a turbulent economy like ours and is no longer able to meet your needs, do you run off to another one that can meet your needs? The op should get off her ass and get working instead of looking to leech off a man. The world has no place for ladies who are liabilities anymore. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by imagrg(m): 10:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
You may not leave daddy's house pretty soon. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Karleb(m): 10:12pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
I don't blame you guys, I blame your parents that can't provide or set you up financially. I'm not upset at this content a bit, a financially stable girl will have a completely different view. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by franchasofficia: 10:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Erimma oh, my stomach don burst oh 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: When you're done shedding tears go and kill yyourself 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by RPG2020(m): 10:14pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Instead of you to be begging us for the bad apple you gave to us you are here shining shit 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by juman(m): 10:14pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
OP choice is a wealthy man as husband. That is her choice. She has right to that. But wealthy persons are not many. There is not enough of them for ladies looking for husband. She should be prepared to go as second or third, or fourth, or fifth wife. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by MemoriesAndMe: 10:16pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Not everyone here is a struggling guy. Someone paid for your Suya and you expect him to pay to treat you in case you fall sick from eating it. Please what do you ever pay for biko? What does anyone need a liability for? So if it was the guy that fell sick after eating the Suya, you would have abandoned him because you don't even have shishi to take care of yourself, let alone take care of him? Wetin sane man dey find around such hungry girl? Your type should just shut up sometimes - I never chop mofos, opportunists all over town. 7 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by QQIA: 10:17pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:So why do you people now fight for gender equality... Confused creatures. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by peoplewww: 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
cococandy: Lele. See, traditional what. Stay there and be doing traditional nah. Feminist Gini. See, if your a feminist and you pay half of all the bills, you are a good feminist. My problem is that they want you to pay all the bills and still claim feminism. I think that's having a mental problem. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by AYNL: 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Someone is struggling doesn't mean they won't make it The wealthy people out there, started somewhere, stop being insensitive with your liability mentality If the stomach cramp had happened in your own house, with nobody with you, what would you have done? It's even clear you're broke too, because if you weren't, you wouldn't wait on a guy to save your own life As he no get money, why you no fit buy drugs with your own money to save your life first of all Y'all will be preaching Independence, but wants to survive on men at the same time 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by udeh3(m): 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: What happened to our forefathers? We had Dorcas in the Bible, we had Abigail... There was a woman who stood and led war... You speak out of your experience and ignorance... You clearly don't understand when the Bible talks about "HELP MEET". Please, check the meaning of help meet as it relates to a lady in a relationship. You're actually looking for a helper and not a companion Then back to Nigeria, we had Margaret Ekpo, we had Dora, the NAFDAC DG, today, we're talking about Okonji Iweaka. A woman has been a president in Africa country, many of them are prime ministers all over the continent You talk about the olden days where women are limited and not given equal opportunities, but today, women attends same school, same courses, even gets lucrative jobs more than the men, yet, you want the man to be responsible for all your needs while doing nothing Let me say, you're confused, lazy and timid. I'm a guy of vision, so, when I see a woman of vision, I know one. I'm still single, but in a relationship, my girl is a BM already at age 26.... We compliment each other Peace 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by franchasofficia: 10:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Karleb:But she made a good point. Going into marriage without having a certain level of financial stability or having a sustainable means of income is a recipe for disaster. That mantra of building together with a girl doesn't always end well. If truly couples do become financially better after marriage as a result of some mythological belief that marriage brings blessing, then we shouldn't have more than 150 million Nigerians living in poverty with over 50million married couple struggling to feed today. So you see? Every single man should strive to achieve a certain level of financial stability before venturing into marriage, or have a sustainable means of earning income, be it through business, trade, craft, handiwork or paid job, it is important. You are not doing it for the girl but for your own safety and mental being oh because the world of today is becoming more and more difficult to survive if you are from a poor family and it will be more difficult to maneuver through our current difficult economy with the burden of innocent kids 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by drdeath: 10:19pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:You must be from a poverty-stricken home. Don't go to school and get a good job.Be waiting for a man to take care of you as a housewife. Pig! 6 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Ubdavis(m): 10:19pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
He should meet ur needs. Wetting come be ur papa work? U have a very perverted mentality. U can't even meet ur needs, I pity ur future. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kpboy1: 10:21pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Hello young lady, I don't know why there are fight and banters over your position on this topic. You're entitled to your opinion and choice of partner. A question - You know that your financial spec is hustled by other girls. You may win. Congrats. But since he has money, hope you won't nag if other girls are sharing him as side chick's, correct? May the best hustler win. Again be mindful on other qualities once the basic needs are met. Even female beauty is subjective and not so fine girl's are still chosen by men. Remain blessed. Contentment and gratitude are not always common qualities. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Benjamin4388(m): 10:21pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
All this na shinanigans..once you are lucky to find someone who you love and equally loves you back then everything just falls in place...God bless my harly...taught me the spirit of giving...way back then she was barely 18 but was xo thoughtful in her gifts and prefers i gift her something i own already...even only 100 Naira overcharge when we want to transport..she no gree enter...am a sucker 4 her for life 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by boxypane(m): 10:25pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
I couldn't meet the needs of my fiance, it was in the process of dating I got a good job. I think we need to slow down a little. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by ismodiwa(m): 10:25pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Shut up, you aren't making any sense... Don't you have a Father? |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shineeye1: 10:31pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Unrated900: You can do better. This is an age of gender EQUALITY. TEAM50-50 |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EnterpriseMan(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Written by an Olosho that has nothing to offer. What needs can you render a guy in life except puxxy Say i'm a multimillionaire, Name 5 things you can offer me that i don't already have useless gender always making a fool of themselves. Guys are the most hardworking, They get depressed but don't start crying about it, They fall and rise again. They do all this only for a useless broke clown to be saying don't be with a guy who can't meet your needs. NEEDS KILL YOUR USELESS HEAD THERE. Guys keep up the Hustle, make yourself better and ignore girls, don't spend your future on them until you're ready to get married. If a girl ask you for money, ask them to go ask their fathers, If he can't meet your needs that you have to depend on a guy, then he should have never birthed you. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by specialmati(m): 10:32pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:say an angel on earth.well anyone can think whatever they want,it still doesnt change anything no be your ideology the creator use create the world.the world have moved pass those stone ages.that you dont eat fish shouldnt make you to say no one should eat it.mind your business in this world |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by clydecarson(m): 10:33pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: This girl wey dey run hookup for instamessage come here dey yarn Bants,abeg shift go one side poor girls full this nairaland You can never see a girl write a post about how to make money,how to drive a car,how to save properly na so so so my man wants to leave me,my man can't buy me a car,my man can't last in bed Go and work and stop stressing someones child,na people like you dem dey use and dump All Nigerian girls are useless 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Nfora: 10:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Lazy women A man is financially responsible to only his legally married wife. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Nobody: 10:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
franchasofficia: Stop behaving like you dont know what she is doing...nobody is arguing that men shouldn't be financially stable before marriage everybody knows that...but why is she attacking men for not carrying her baggage is the problem..and that's why we have a lot of unmarried women that will remain single because majority of you have bad and entitled attitudes towards mens resources...shame has departed from these generation of women 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by franchasofficia: 10:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
udeh3:My brother, the op have a good point, let single men learn from her write up instead of getting worked up. There is a difference between our forefathers and father's time and our present time. During our forefathers' or father's time, the population of the world was very small, in fact sizable and opportunities were enough for willing men ready to exploit them unlike now that overpopulation is fast depleting available opportunities and making things highly competitive. Some decades ago, Europe had so many opportunities such that once you find your way and enter Europe, your life will become better but the case is different today. US DV lottery existed for Nigerians and many countries some years back which helped a lot of Nigerian families to escape generational poverty, is that opportunity available today again? There were several scholarships for intelligent students in Nigeria back then, today such scholarships are highly competitive. In our forefathers' time, women were mostly housewives and helped their husbands in the farm, but today we have even more educated and qualified women than men who have taken up jobs that men once had exclusively. Where do I even start and stop? So don't expect the dynamics of marriage to remain the same brother, marriage must change, husbands and wives must change as life and situation changes too. We are humans born to adapt to changes in order to survive 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by flokii: 10:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Nl mods should stop pushing stvpid threads as this to frontpage.. na bad market for the independent working class ladies in need of serious relationships. A girl that can't work or go into a business to sustain herself and support her bf doesn't deserve a relationship. That kind of girl is nothing but a liability in this present day and time. Asides overused pvssy, what else do you have to offer? You have been with this, been with that.. oju o ti e. you no go check yourself. 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Proudlyomonna: 10:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
You have a very poor mental health dear Let's see how I can help you psychologically. 1)What are your Personalities and temperaments. 2)Do you hold on to any Psychological Ideologies or thoughts to Life? 3)How do you classify success? 4)Is it to you a PROCESS or a STATE OF BEING?. 5) What is your philosophy of hard work? I always tell people this,you somehow attract the kinda man you meet as a woman and as a Man. You can't live your life with the mindset of it's cool to play with a guys feelings and meet a good man,it happens but quite very rarely when you are just plainly the material minded person, which ofcus you should not be judged for nature and psychology agrees that we all percieve and view life and it's elements differently. Just as you think the guy must be well to do, some other gurl feels as long as the guy has a Job. A Plan for a better tomorrow. A map to achieve His plans for tomorrow,then they are good to go. Life is more than you think of it dear. Ask your elderly sisters they'd let you know that it's safer to classify a man by what He has in Him than what they see outwards. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Unseen(m): 10:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
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