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Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 11:07pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: They aren't wailing They are saying you yourself shouldnt be useless U want them to take ur advise but you do t want to take theirs why. Also, this tread is for both men and women, stop excluding where you should take responsibility 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by wolebest: 11:07pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Dumb assertions In this age and time you are looking for a man to take care of your needs? Very irresponsible low life reasoning and expectations. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:08pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
ednut1: And men? See how frustrated a lot of young men have become, because they can't maintain a wife material the brothel has now become their second home cos that's where they can get cheap dirty sex. Many of them already in their late 30s and 40 s still unmarried and instead of working hard, they become complacent and comfortable leading indecent lifestyles and consoling their bruised ego by shaming single ladies. Carry on o. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by udeh3(m): 11:09pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
franchasofficia: As a young guy trying in my field of endeavor, you think I need a lady who won't inspire me? You think I need a lady whom I can't rely on at some point? Relationship is companionship... When it comes to marriage, most men are real. No man in his right senses marries a liability Ladies who have visions and are go getter are easier to deal with, especially when there's love unlike a lady who depends on you for everything. Most ladies today are looking for something in a man they can't give Iron sharpens iron. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by pusapou(m): 11:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Nairalanders no dey play at all. SHE has learnt her lessons in a harsh way! See response everywhere WITH plenty LIKES. check the meaning of e .r. inma in ibo language.... Chopping/ eating with the wealthy. " Kind of twisted her mindset growing up! 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:11pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
sunbreaker: Cant you men be by yourselves? Must you go after a woman you know clearly you cant afford? Sure, I can meet my needs by His grace and Ive decided to stay on my own and not bother anyone who can't take care of me so you men should do same! Haba! 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:15pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
shantti: Is that what the post says? Was Regina Daniels in poverty? Why did she dump her fellow actor and go for Ned. Be wise. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by mysticwarrior(m): 11:17pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:well spoken Kobojonkie, where have you been all this while? |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:18pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Viltron: LoL... You amuse me. Go and ask how many women are happy in their marriage? See the one on front page already crying and seeking divorce. Is that the happiness you're talking about? My friend wake up! Train don leave you go.. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by liquidmetall: 11:19pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: Your father should start being useful first then your brothers before you castigate men Cause if your dad and brothers were like Ned nwoko and tinubu you wouldn't be here showing you're from a poverty stricken home 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by obowunmi(m): 11:19pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: You’re probably based abroad. Nigerian women marry pe.n.is but find a *real man outside who can meet their true needs. More than half of women in Nigeria are cheating on their men. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:21pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
ObosiUkwalla: It won't make sense to you because it's your reality so you don't even know what makes sense anymore. but you'll get to understand when train leave you go. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by zanshi: 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
As a well to do man, i am not marrying a poor girl who dosen't know how to manage money, has zero enterprenual spirit and has the spirit to spend spend spend without caution. The rise of folks like Andre Tate and redpill coaches has emboldned men to be better informed on the intricacies and how men can better protect themselves to an advantegous point. There is so much emphasis on the man's money but what really does he woman's money do? To chase vain and materialistic things you say? 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:23pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:What if adversity (we don't pray for that, God forbid) befalls the wealthy man you married, is that how you will jump ship abandoning your husband and the children? So you want people to now be referring to you as that wife/mother that fled deserting her family. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:24pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
juman: That's the point but how many of them are willing to work hard? They just want a woman that will clean their mess. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:25pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Sleekfingers: Life will teach her. Don't worry. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by okenikpoto(m): 11:27pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
So because you have boobs and a behind it is beholden on you that a man must be your benefactor? Doesn't this show the indolent laziness that is in your DNA and clearly being exhibited in such a disgusting entitlement stance. It is because you are insecure, lazy, empty upstairs and cannot even believe in yourself that you are here ranting stupidly. Must your success be hinged on a man? Have you not read or heard about women that made a mark in their respective careers? Why are you so different that you must have a man be your escape to whatever life you cannot afford yourself but want to live? You did not have money and ate suya and when you had "food poisoning" you are blaming the man. You also showed how broke you are because you could not even afford to take yourself to the hospital. You were depending on a man to save your life, isn't that very pathetic of you. And saying broke men will block ways for you to get other men shows how disgusting you are. You should be ashamed of yourself. Golf digger. quote author=EriMma1 post=121634822]No no no... You tell me? A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you. I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown. A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point. As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman. I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth. I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations. He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following. You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him. So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs. If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey. Enjoy.[/quote] 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:29pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
juman: Abeg loud am make Dem hear. Body dey pepper all of them and they fail to see the truth in this simple post. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by ednut1(m): 11:30pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:men and women are built differently. Men without money can manage brothel and still be happy. Women once they reach a certain age cant do same. Its hard to see a 50 years old single man frustrated at not being married vs a 50 years old woman. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Gamusgamus: 11:31pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
CLAP CLAP, BUT COME TO THINK OF IT FROM ANOTHER ANGLE, WHAT IF YOU CAME ACROSS A HANDSOME, LOADED AND GOD FEARING GUY, DATED,. ENGAGED AND EVENTUALLY GOT MARRIED, BUT SOMEHOW THINGS TURNED AROUND THAT THE GUY BECAME BROKE AND SHISHI NO DEY AGAIN, WILL YOU JAKPA FROM HIM? Enjoy.[/quote] 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by THEMORALMEN: 11:33pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman. Presently everybody is struggling one way or the other in this country. Even the rich.....I can attest to it. The Present economy ain't producing millionaires. It only producing average ok guyz and average ok guyz are not and will not cater for a girl need. Except she is a wife or fiancée. They may cater for one night stand girls for a moment just to chop and clean mouth for that day. And that is dat Most girl needs are basically things dat gravitate their sense. The belief of being provided for has cloud many of them reasoning. (entitlement mentality) Forgetting that the only man that is meant to cater for your need is your father and once you turn adult then you cater for urself till you see a partner that will cater for you as you in turn will cater for him. Most girls that really walk on the path of their needs being meet by men. End up at the hand of Bleep boiz. And Bleep boiz will giv a girl all she ever want as far as he can Provide. But mind you the abuse, the physical beaten, the emotional damage she wil witness will make her understand that there is always a 2 SIDE OF A COIN. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Isabi4lov: 11:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1: They won't remember that verse in the Bible , it's really affecting most women, some men will still collect money from their wives to feed their yeye side chicks. The mistakes our mothers made during their own time won't repeat itself again . How can you not cater for your own household? When they see other ladies that are well taken care of , you'll see them awwnning like an ambulance . You as a man if you're not ready to take care of somebody's daughter and the children she will birth for you ,abeg dey your dey . 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:34pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Karleb: Go and ask the lady on front page seeking divorce. She's financially independent but married to a struggling guy who later lost his job and refused to get another one just because the wife is working. Now, tell me, will sh still e have a completely different view after her experience or rather agree with my post? |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 11:35pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
wolebest:Culture in Nigeria, even in this age, allows and even encourages it, so why is it irresponsible of her to flow with culture? 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by moralex(m): 11:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
DaddyFreeze2020:Don't mind am jare, na this kind of women go marry "Mr he can meet my needs " when the man loses his job or died unexpectedly , she go turn to begging . 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:36pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:Just pray you are not taught a bitter lesson in this life in the most deceptive manner. Have you not heard of so-called rich man who allegedly rode in fleet of cars, usually open gate and enters a mansion that was later discovered by a lady to be just a common driver to the his original rich oga, after the deed has been done? 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:37pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
franchasofficia: . Abeg, make e no burst o. We still need you around. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shegoon: 11:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
African mentality u have. Reason live expectancy for white men is higher than the Africa counterparts. In western world, bills are shared between the man and woman, hence the man live longer. You wont mention gender equality when it comes to sharing responsibility EriMma1: 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by talk2hb1(m): 11:41pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
EriMma1:I am not placing any curse on anybody |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 11:42pm On Mar 11, 2023 |
Rayban25: You're the one sounding sorry. So take your own advice. |
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