EriMma1:


Go and ask the lady on front page seeking divorce. She's financially independent but married to a struggling guy who later lost his job and refused to get another one just because the wife is working. Now, tell me, will sh still e have a completely different view after her experience or rather agree with my post?

talk2hb1:
Hmmm, I won’t want my Daughter or Baby Sister to get Married to a Guy Who Can’t take care of Himself Financially and Mentally!

Raalsalghul:
■ Everything we complain about in women are caused by men changing themselves. And most men are wrongly seeking for the solution by expecting women to change when it is they (men) that should.

Kobojunkie:
But would you want your daughter or baby sister to put her fate in the hands of a man taking care of her?

author=EriMma1 post= That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

MemoriesAndMe:
Not everyone here is a struggling guy.

Someone paid for your Suya and you expect him to pay to treat you in case you fall sick from eating it. Please what do you ever pay for biko? What does anyone need a liability for?

So if it was the guy that fell sick after eating the Suya, you would have abandoned him because you don't even have shishi to take care of yourself, let alone take care of him? Wetin sane man dey find around such hungry girl?

Your type should just shut up sometimes - I never chop mofos, opportunists all over town.

EriMma1:
No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.

EriMma1:


That was why I said you have no business being with a woman if you can't cater for her needs. Period!

DaddyFreeze2020:
Don't come and start begging for husband to marry you like that woman in Paris looking for husband to marry her and pay after your youthfulness has passed and you're aging.

Go and work and get your own money too to contribute to your family. We're not more in the generation of full time house wives waiting for their husbands to come back from work to put food on the table. Women should be up and doing like the virtuous woman in Proverbs 31.

Only lazy men without vision and plans can be poor.
Lazy women are the ones who marry lazy men.

Poverty has dealt with ur generation. I can't blame U.... Ur gold digging is not from this planet. I am sorry to tell u this, u r a replica of ur mum!

EriMma1:



Why should a woman be the one to meet your needs? Are women meant to til thef ground? That's the man's duty from creation and even though women are now doing it. It still doesn't give a man the right to her money.

EriMma1:
No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.

Rayban25:


Stop behaving like you dont know what she is doing...nobody is arguing that men shouldn't be financially stable before marriage everybody knows that...but why is she attacking men for not carrying her baggage is the problem..and that's why we have a lot of unmarried women that will remain single because majority of you have bad and entitled attitudes towards mens resources...shame has departed from these generation of women

Business3600:
Its very simple, if you are a guy and your doing really well for yourself financially. Please look for a lady thats working and earning good salary or she got her own business. I support 50-50. No cheating. Bills should be split into two

Karleb:


No she didn't.

She started by say women should not be with a man that can't provide for her needs, then go on to make points for feminism.

That alone shows the type of woman she is.

Why should a man provide for the needs of another grown up adult that has parents.

She said she broke up with a man because he was so broke he couldn't buy her drugs for stomach ache, which she herself was too broke to do anything about.

Even in marriage, a man cannot provide your 100 percent needs.

What happens when the man loses his job or business collapse?

The broke guy isn't gonna be broke for life too.

Jay Z wasn't always the Jay Z we know but Beyoncé never left him because she saw the prospect, what of Barack Obama?

The repulsive attitude here is her leechy attitude which she's advertising. It takes away any work or perseverance from women, just wake and start running after the made and dumb your needs on them.

Anyway, let she and her type keep avoiding the broke with prospect, the future will decide which girl made the right choice.

achimendy:
This one na gold-digger o

Abarichi:
So what can you offer the guy in return? Sex right? U no serious..

Creamypussy:
Wrong perception.

EriMma1:
No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.

jeromestarks:

They have insulted you enough. Please deactivate your account. How could you bear this shame?

You should have waited for you to be married before making such post.

Now I curse you.
You won't find a man that will love you not to mention a man that will cater for you need.

Esoresor:
As a virtuous woman I’ll only build with a man that will be very richhhhhhh. Like transforming from a millionaire to a billionaire to a trillionaire and zillionaire

kevotek1000:
■I sense you're going to be a chronic liability, you want a guy to measure up and take financial responsibilities.
■ What are you going to be contributing to the man's life other than your body. Dating a Nigeria lady with this kind of thinking is risky. No suprise most men abandoned their wife here when they travel out of the country.

Bullythebully:


No curse is bigger than the one currently following you. You have no house,no car,no wife,no honor,no child and you are in your 30s!

You are an emblem of suffering and reproach. The reason you are poor is because you wish others bad. You curse people,and inadvertently you curse yourself. What did this woman do that you are cursing her?

Start praying for people and wishing then we'll and God will deliver you from the curse of non achievement that has overshadowed your life.

Plus you are malnourished.
@EriMma1 has more prospects than you in life.


For all women reading this post,don't marry a poor or struggling man. So you can pass legacy down. Imagine otedola son or dangote son doing this online? If your son is jeromestark,will you be happy?

EriMma1:


Sure, I'll get me one soonest.

EriMma1:


You're missing the point and that is why a lot of you men have become so complacent and have refused to rise up to your duties as a man; expecting what a woman will bring to the table to feed you.

Go back to ancient landmarks our forefathers set.

EriMma1:


You never talk wetin dey pain you. Where in my post did I attack men who could not take care of me? I only used my experience as a case study, nothing more.

Swallow the bitter truth and work with it

EriMma1:
No no no... You tell me?

A man who cannot meet your needs should not be anywhere around you because he'll only be a stumbling block to your progress and cause you to miss out on great opportunities that would have come your way through those who understand the assignment. Don't ever let such men around you.

I've never been an advocate for starting small with a man after my past experiences even before the economy got this bad not to talk of now that it has plunged deep into meltdown.

A lot of ladies who went into such mess in the early 2000s are still carrying the family till today while the men are struggling to meet up with no headways or hopes in sight. This takes me to the next point.

As a single man still struggling, don't ever brainwash or be brainwashed by any girl to go into marriage and manage with you until things get better. Y'all have seen that e go better has become the prayer of a poor man. So run away from such trap. Make it to a reasonable level first before going for a woman.

I don't want to begin to go into details of the eventualities that may likely occur and become very grave due to inability to tackle them financially. Use your tongue to count your teeth.

I remember a long time ago when I was dating one struggling guy. The aunty asked him a very good question I'll never forget in my life and that taught me a lesson I've been applying in life's situations.

He invited me to come spend the weekend with him that the aunt was around so I could feel relaxed. When I got there and the aunty saw me, she called him aside and asked him the following.
You know we are struggling to eat in this house. Your salary is not enough and you brought in a young girl. What if there's an emergency in the course of her stay, what will you do? How will you go about it? When he told me, I became scared and thought the aunt was right. I now remembered one certain time I visited a friend. So that night we strolled out to buy suya. I don't know if it was from the suya paper or the unhygienic environment it was prepared that gave me food poison. That night, I didn't know where I was. Serious stomach cramps and I was just coiling up in the room that day holding my stomach. Again this lawyer guy no get shishi to even take me to the nearest clinic. In his confusion he gave me garlic to chew. That seemed to help a little but omor, I broke up with him.

So, with this few points of mine, I believe iv been able to convince and not confuse you on the need to stay away from a man that cannot cater for your needs.

If you attack me, it shows you're a struggling guy or dating a struggling guy. Una eyes go soon clear. My own don clear tey tey.

Enjoy.