Broker men have suffered on NL..

Yusufisraelj:
■ Says who? Wealth is created my brother. If the economy is shit, that tells you to a large extent the kind of people in such economy. Okay let me come open and say it. A bad economy shows you that most people in that country are not productive, being productive means bringing needed solutions that's relevant globally, in this context.
■ So in essence telling a guy or lady not to settle for less is not demanding what doesn't exist, rather we're saying create your own fortune, which is a possibility any day one decides and is willing to do what it takes properly.

1. Ding! Ding! Ding!

2.

Yusufisraelj:


Says who? Wealth is created my brother. If the economy is shit, that tells you to a large extent the kind of people in such economy. Okay let me come open and say it. A bad economy shows you that most people in that country are not productive, being productive means bringing needed solutions that's relevant globally, in this context.

So in essence telling a guy or lady not to settle for less is not demanding what doesn't exist, rather we're saying create your own fortune, which is a possibility any day one decides and is willing to do what it takes properly.

Honestly I get your submission, but with accordance to my argument, until the economy gets better broke men and women are stuck with each other and that is the reality as at 2023 in Nigeria . So if a woman insist on what is not there especially because behind the keypad show of options, they go back to the supposed broke men when reality sets in except the lucky few

pansophist:
If women are looking for average men with who they can work hard together and make something for themselves, they can always find it. Suitors are not their problem, but a rich wealthy suitor.

Because the number of wealthy men cannot go around, it is mathematically impossible, except for polygamy. in a country where 90 percent of the citizens don't have 500k in their account. Will you be a third wife?

There is this false notion that polygamy was forced on women, and men oppressed them and all those nonsense. It's a lie. In most cases, the women want it, because, for lots of women, security has more value than monogamy.

They will rather share the commitment of a top-tier man than have the undivided attention of a broke modafuka. Commitment from a broke man is not a commitment at all.

Now look at me honestly and tell me that if Davido or wizkid, who already has multiple baby mamas, announces that they want a new wife, they will not get one the next minute. The girls will gladly marry these guys even if they will be the 10th wife.

Of course, some women will reject it, just as some women won't marry a short man, but the point remains that in any society this man goes, they will get women. abi you wan de whine my nipple?

Finally someone gets it!
The number of wealthy men cannot go round!
It's means the remaining people outside the wealthy ones are stuck with each other, how difficult is it to understand

Kobojunkie:
1. Does a woman dating a broke man change the facts of his broked-ness? If she were herself broke, chances are over 83% that they will both end up broken together for life. Why would any sane individual do that?

You didn't answer my question.

Mekuseh11:
■ Honestly I get your submission, but with accordance to my argument, until the economy gets better broke men and women are stuck with each other and that is the reality as at 2023 in Nigeria . So if a woman insist on what is not there especially because behind the keypad show of options, they go back to the supposed broke men when reality sets in except the lucky few

1. You don't seem to get it at all. The reason the economy is where it is at today has to do with broke men and women getting together to multiply poverty rather than reduce it. Prescribing that the same trend should continue is counterintuitive as that means that broke men and women will continue to remain broke and in poverty for the rest of their lives even —so also their children.

Mekuseh11:
You didn't answer my question.

1. What exactly is the relevance of that question of yours? Or better yet, why would anyone engage in that which defines commonsense for the heck of it?

Mekuseh11:



Finally someone gets it!
The number of wealthy men cannot go round!
It's means the remaining people outside the wealthy ones are stuck with each other, how difficult is it to understand

Your typical lady has a mindset of exceptionalism. She doesn't see herself as the ones that won't marry a wealthy dude. She is special, and it's other women that will marry the average guy lol. Until reality sets in

Kobojunkie:
1. You don't seem to get it at all. The reason the economy is where it is at today has to do with broke men and women getting together to multiply poverty rather than reduce it. Prescribing that the same trend should continue is counterintuitive as that means that broke men and women will continue to remain broke and in poverty for the rest of their lives even —so also their children.

What are you even saying! I'm not prescribing anything. I only said the reality is broke men and women are stuck and will be together until the economy is favorable.

My issue is women hiding under the guise of wanting only rich men, then in turn go back to the supposed broke men when reality sets it.

The only way forward is two broke people coming together to build wealth

Kobojunkie:
1. What exactly is the relevance of that question of yours? Or better yet, why would anyone engage in that which defines commonsense for the heck of it?

If you have ever dated a broke guy it means that is your reality even though sentiment wise you want a rich guy.
The fact that a Davido doesn't want you means are an hypocrite if you have ever dated a broke guy

pansophist:


Your typical lady has a mindset of exceptionalism. She doesn't see herself as the ones that won't marry a wealthy dude. She is special, and it's other women that will marry the average guy lol. Until reality sets in

My brother until reality sets it..
Almost every okada rider, civil servants and the supposed broke men are getting married every Saturday. ( No b d same girls wey want rich men dey marry dem? Smh)

Mekuseh11:



Honestly I get your submission, but with accordance to my argument, until the economy gets better broke men and women are stuck with each other and that is the reality as at 2023 in Nigeria . So if a woman insist on what is not there especially because behind the keypad show of options, they go back to the supposed broke men when reality sets in except the lucky few

In my mind, my hands are on my head right now, if you ever think and hope on the economy to get better, my guy you're on a longgggg thing. What! Take time to study someone who was genuinely rich, through integrity.

Mekuseh11:
■ What are you even saying! I'm not prescribing anything. I only said the reality is broke men and women are stuck and will be together until the economy is favorable. My issue is women hiding under the guise of wanting only rich men, then in turn go back to the supposed broke men when reality sets it.
■ The only way forward is two broke people coming together to build wealth

1. I see you are just here to do exactly what you said in your OP you aren't here for.

2. As explained several times already, that cannot be the way forward as instead, it is what got Nigeria into the hole that it is currently in today — the bad Nigerian economy. You cannot suggest that we continue doing the same things we did to create the problem only expecting the results to be different... that is the definition of insanity.

Mekuseh11:


My brother until reality sets it..
Almost every okada rider, civil servants and the supposed broke men are getting married every Saturday. ( No b d same girls wey want rich men dey marry dem? Smh)

Until reality sets in

Mekuseh11:
■ If you have ever dated a broke guy it means that is your reality even though sentiment wise you want a rich guy.
■ The fact that a Davido doesn't want you means are an hypocrite if you have ever dated a broke guy

1. That makes no sense to me.

2. ugh! Please stop with these nonsensical ....

Kobojunkie:
1. I see you are just here to do exactly what you said in your OP you aren't here for.

2. As explained several times already, that cannot be the way forward as instead, it is what got Nigeria into the hole that it is currently in today — the bad Nigerian economy. You cannot suggest that we continue doing the same things we did to create the problem only expecting the results to be different... that is the definition of insanity.

Very simple, it's shouldn't be hard to see between the lines.

Yusufisraelj:


In my mind, my hands are on my head right now, if you ever think and hope on the economy to get better, my guy you're on a longgggg thing. What! Take time to study someone who was genuinely rich, through integrity.

May I recommend this book, start with why by Simon Sinek. Also a talk from broke to billion by Matthew Ashimolowo.

So if I get your point.
You are talking about an individual breaking poverty chain and carving wealth for himself?
If so that has always been the standard in Nigeria, some people hustle and luckily gets to the top.
What happens to the rest who didn't make it.
Aren't they stuck with their fellow broke associates?

Kobojunkie:
1. I see you are just here to do exactly what you said in your OP you aren't here for.

2. As explained several times already, that cannot be the way forward as instead, it is what got Nigeria into the hole that it is currently in today — the bad Nigerian economy. You cannot suggest that we continue doing the same things we did to create the problem only expecting the results to be different... that is the definition of insanity.

We are saying the same thing albeit understanding differs.
Until there is a change in fortunes broke will be stuck with broke and that is reality.

Way forward is an assumption/ opinion which is not reality as at 2023 in Nigeria.
Broke men and women will always be with each including me if I don't make it to the upper echelon. No need to sugarcoat anything

Banilla:
Again, this romanticising of poverty! This is abnormal behaviour. You mustn't be successful for a woman but don't you ever think, "I deserve much better"?

Is yahoo a decent job? Kidnapping too? Men who do them aren't hustlers but criminals who deserve to be locked up! Nigerian men will never contribute anything good to society, so they make up excuses, blaming everyone but themselves. Smh!

Women can wait for you to get rich. Isn't that an option? Or you aren't certain you'll make it? Just to be sure, you want her now?

Sweetheart, stop trying to manipulate women into settling for less (you). It's pathetic. You mentioned that women do in fact get married to the poor men around, so why create this thread? It's unnecessary.

the bitter truth is that most of you will end up with an average jo. Sorry ladies there arent enough high value men to go around.

Mekuseh11:



So if I get your point.
You are talking about an individual breaking poverty chain and carving wealth for himself?
If so that has always been the standard in Nigeria, some people hustle and luckily gets to the top.
What happens to the rest who didn't make it.
Aren't they stuck with their fellow broke associates?

That's their choice, it comes with consequence. That's why my first comment on your trend depicts that, that certain levels of poverty is by choice and so, when someone isn't interested in becoming better, they shouldn't ask for better (rich), rather let them enjoy the nasty place they intentionally or not even knowing choose to be.

Banilla:
Wrong!

There's acute poverty in countries like Nigeria, where poor people's only concern is getting married and breeding like rats.

I would strerilize half the population if I could. Most of you don't even deserve to pass on your genes.

If you are poor, don't get married! If you insist, use a damn condom everytime you have sex. We don't need any more poor children of poor parents!

then majority of you all should prepare to die single.

[quote author=Yusufisraelj post=121668537]

That's their choice, it comes with consequence. That's why my first comment on your trend depicts that, that certain levels of poverty is by choice and so, when someone isn't interested in becoming better, they shouldn't ask for better (rich), rather let them enjoy the nasty place they intentionally or not even knowing choose to be.[/quote

I disagree,
It's not a choice thing.
For example a lot of men wants virgin women but reality is there is not enough to go round, so it means most men will marry non virgins.
Same with women even though they want rich men only few will get it, majority is stuck with broke men .
Why is it difficult to accept reality?

Oscarhakx:
the bitter truth is that most of you will end up with an average jo. Sorry ladies there arent enough high value men to go around.

Bitter truth my guy. I don't understand why they keep lying to themselves.
No b dis naija we dey.

Mekuseh11:
■ We are saying the same thing albeit understanding differs. Until there is a change in fortunes broke will be stuck with broke and that is reality.
■ Way forward is an assumption/ opinion which is not reality as at 2023 in Nigeria. Broke men and women will always be with each including me if I don't make it to the upper echelon. No need to sugarcoat anything

1. Again, that change in fortunes will only happen when many more single persons work towards first freeing themselves as individuals from what is essentially slavery to poverty. Otherwise, the chances are over 83% that the individuals will be stuck in poverty for life.

2. Davido should be the standard the average Nigerian should aim for. Instead, individuals should aim to rise above poverty, at least to middle-class levels.

Kobojunkie:
1. Again, that change in fortunes will only happen when many more single persons work towards first freeing themselves as individuals from what is essentially slavery to poverty. Otherwise, the chances are over 83% that the individuals will be stuck in poverty for life.

2. Davido should be the standard the average Nigerian should aim for. Instead, individuals should aim to rise above poverty, at least to middle-class levels.

Hahaha pikin wey dem carry for back no know say road far...
A lot of people in Nigeria will be broke( despite working hard)
Attaining davido's wealth is not feasible for the average Nigerian man, don't deceive anybody.

Obviously you are free to your choices, it's okay to want only rich men. But please don't ever associate with any broke man romantically as that would make be you going back to your vomit.

Nigeria is referred to as poverty capital of the world. Goodluck finding rich men in poverty capital.

Truth Is, what you see is what you likely end up with, cos there aren't plenty to go around.

Mekuseh11:
■ Hahaha pikin wey dem carry for back no know say road far... A lot of people in Nigeria will be broke( despite working hard) Attaining davido's wealth is not feasible for the average Nigerian man, don't deceive anybody.
■ Obviously you are free to your choices, it's okay to want only rich men. But please don't ever associate with any broke man romantically as that would make be you going back to your vomit.

1. Why are you obsessed with Davido as the standard you must attain or bust though? I don't much about the person but my guess is that you only need to concern yourself with rather with rising above the poverty to no longer qualify as broke in Nigeria.

2. I have stated many times here that hypogamy is indicative of the absence of commonsense.

Mekuseh11:


Bitter truth my guy. I don't understand why they keep lying to themselves.
No b dis naija we dey.

every ladies thinks they are special. The truth is all of then are the same. They think they deserve high valued men. Those men have to work their socks off, just to get to that level. Their own is just sit there and be looking pretty, arrogant and with their stinking over used pussy, and yet be feeling entiltled to an high valued man. Lolz let them be decieving their selves. A good number of them will end up either with broke ass nigger, average jo, as single mothers or die single. Last last reality go set in. Thats when they will realise that men are the prize

Banilla:
■ Wrong! There's acute poverty in countries like Nigeria, where poor people's only concern is getting married and breeding like rats. I would strerilize half the population if I could. Most of you don't even deserve to pass on your genes.
■ If you are poor, don't get married! If you insist, use a damn condom everytime you have sex. We don't need any more poor children of poor parents!

1. Considering the reasoning of the OP, it may just be the best solution.

2. This is obviously too much for many to comprehend in a country where the poor man in more in a rush to procreate than he is in trying to dig himself out of poverty. And their children... the cycle seems never-ending.

Mekuseh11:
■ If you are poor don't get married. Really! I'm not in a context for superiority gender wise. Until the economy is better in Nigeria, a lot of men will be considered broke and they always end up getting married. If you are lucky to marry a rich man don't mislead others into thinking there is a rich man waiting out there for every broke woman

1. Again, the economy is bad because poor people are getting married and procreating like rats. If an accident of nature were to maybe hit and render over 60% of poor people in Nigeria impotent today— say chemicals in the water supply were to cause many poor men unable to procreate —, do you know that the economy of Nigeria will begin to bounce back in about 5 years or less?

The problem is there are too many poor people in the system making more poor people. And this problem will never end until poor people stop making more poor people by procreating.

Preek goes crazy after toto irrespective of financial status.

Banilla:
Again, this romanticising of poverty! This is abnormal behaviour. You mustn't be successful for a woman but don't you ever think, "I deserve much better"?

Is yahoo a decent job? Kidnapping too? Men who do them aren't hustlers but criminals who deserve to be locked up! Nigerian men will never contribute anything good to society, so they make up excuses, blaming everyone but themselves. Smh!

Women can wait for you to get rich. Isn't that an option? Or you aren't certain you'll make it? Just to be sure, you want her now?

Sweetheart, stop trying to manipulate women into settling for less (you). It's pathetic. You mentioned that women do in fact get married to the poor men around, so why create this thread? It's unnecessary.

Try post pix of ur marriage nd post pix of ur anniversary 20 later thats if it last with this ur olosho vibe cus e get waiting I wan check weda e go addup lol