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Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Taigaban: 5:48am On Mar 12, 2023 |
And you wish to remain a liability only looking out to what a man can do for you? Lazy woman mentality. Olosho way of thinking. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Thomasankara(m): 5:51am On Mar 12, 2023 |
[/color]this one go call herself woman now or house dog [color=#770077] 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Thomasankara(m): 5:56am On Mar 12, 2023 |
[/color]no single thing in the Bible they follow,in short any spiritual guy is a major turn off for most ladies of this generation.[color=#770077] Kobojunkie: 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 5:57am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Socrates At least Regina Daniel was earning a lot as a spinster before her mum pushed her to marry ned. Now, what r u earning as a spinster? U couldn't afford to take urself to the clinic. Remember Back to Regina. Do u think ned really loves and values her, it's all Abt sex dear. She had to endure being a third wife. Ned can bring in a side chick or prostitute into his house and smash, and nothing will happen. When he is tired of regina, he will marry a fourth wife and she dares not question him cos she is just one of his properties. Is that what u really want. U can't eat ur cake and have it. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 6:03am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Thomasankara:Same goes for your men folk. You all like to invoke the name of God when you desperately need justification for a lie you are not ready to reasonably process against reality even. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 6:17am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1:. U r d emotional ones. Men are currently going for women who are contributing to the society. A leech is only used for sex and not marriage. Ask urself why u aren't married yet when girls younger than u are getting married. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Iamzik: 6:24am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: I see you are still.stuck in the stone age. Wake up baby this is 2023! Men also do not want liabilities. You should be comfortable enough to meet your own needs. Marriage and relationship is no longer a means for women to escape from paying bills or being responsible. Wake up and smell the coffee 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:24am On Mar 12, 2023 |
shantti: Mr man, stop sounding pained and taking this thing personal. It's very simple. Learn to cater for your woman otherwise she'll cheat on you under your nose with a more financially capable man. That's what you men don't know. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by sigiyaya(m): 6:27am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1:I hardly comment on Nairaland but this ur trend got me nne. I just want to tell you that I seriously pity any man that comes around you. You sound empty and frustrated plus u are rude and a complete burden with ur mindset. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by MrBroke(m): 6:27am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Nothing on earth or in heaven will make me marry a broke, no talent, no career woman. A broke lady deserves a broke guy, a rich working hard lady deserves a guy with the same qualities. I'm working hard for myself and my family not a bitch 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:31am On Mar 12, 2023 |
shantti: That's her choice and she's enjoying every bit of it. Jo regrets so far. It doesn't matter what Ned does afterwards as long as her needs are being met, she got nothing to worry about. She's better than many who end up with men like you, enduring the hardship and still get cheated on with dirty prostitutes outside. At least Ned has class and goes for the clean ones, wife's them and brings them home. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:34am On Mar 12, 2023 |
sigiyaya: Don't get emotional. Pick one or two lessons from my post and run with it. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 6:34am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Men like me are thousands of miles better than women like you. Women like u end up in Shiloh yr after yr while till they reach menopause. I can cater for my medical bills, can u? 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 6:37am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Olosho And yet u r crying. Can u even imagine what you are advocating for. So it's okay for a wife to leave her husband cos things turned out soar. Your mum did a horrible job in raising u. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 6:38am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Na today I know say broke women have a deranged mentality. Cos wetin be this. 2 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by naturefellow(m): 6:40am On Mar 12, 2023 |
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Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Teymanhenry(f): 6:41am On Mar 12, 2023 |
When you do the math ratio on the number of women to men in Nigeria or the world at large, you'll realize what you are saying is bollocks. The girl goes to same school, take same lectures, learn same skill and earn the same salary as the boy child. So why should she depend on him to take care of her?? Please stop advising young ladies to be lazy. Nowadays it's about complimenting each other not one partner clinging on the other for support 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by noonejustme: 6:44am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Guys, from an Evolutionary and scientific standpoint, this lady is right. But EriMma, these men responding to you are simply justifying feminism. Now this... You sound like someone who upholds the traditional ways... Who wants a traditional man. A traditional man is someone who will provide for you most ( if not all) of your needs, protect you from the elements and danger, while in return you give him your youth, femininity, fertility, respect, and most important of all, LOYALTY. Another thing you need to give is your virginity to him( kind of goes together with Loyalty). Where that is not possible, AT least come into the union with a body count of not more than 3. The thing is... Do you qualify as a traditional woman ? This is why I always say that the bible ehn, na over complete dey worry am. The same bible that talk about a man being an infidel who cannot provide for his family is the one who said that a woman who is not married as a virgin( and the husband gets to find out and reports this) should be stoned to death 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:44am On Mar 12, 2023 |
shantti: Oya sorry, no cry. Today na Sunday abeg. I don't want anyone to shed a tear because of my harmless post. It's only an advice especially for the women folk. Take it or leave it. E never reach crying matter. O? Bye. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Iamzik: 6:47am On Mar 12, 2023 |
abbey621: Your polygamous grandfather did not have to buy iPhone for all his wives, education was free, no need to pay rent in the village or maintain several cars, the wives were totally submissive etc so of course divorce was rare. Polygamy favoured the man...more children to work on the farm or handle his business. That has changed unles you want to decieve yourself |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by airprinz(m): 6:48am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Had it been along my life journey I haven't come across good ladies; Ones that are the CEO of their lives, I would have conclude that you all are the same with this post of yours. Let me shock you a little, I once took a job that could not meet my needs, it was a woman that cartered for me till I got a job with good pay, The phone that I'm currently using which is quite expensive, it was a woman that got it for me. Numerous good stuffs they've done for me, just to mention but a few. That don't mean I once didn't helped them in my little own way, they purposely choose not to shift their whole responsibilities on me. Demarcate from there: In this modern era we all have found ourselves, there is equality in responsibilities with no gender consideration or effect. Now that you are still young, I would advise you change that mentality of yours, else you will end up an evening newspaper that'll hang around Shiloh hoping on God to change your story. 3 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by okerekingsley90: 6:48am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Pls for your sanity ignore that guy he is reallly jobless and useless |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by labi1977(m): 6:49am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Waking up at 5 a.m. to start quarreling on nairaland ? good luck finding mugu Jobless & single u 4 Likes |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by EriMma1: 6:50am On Mar 12, 2023 |
noonejustme: You have spoken wisely and maturely my brother and I think I agree with you 100% on this one. Yes every woman should keep her chastity and be loyal to her man to the letter. God bless you. Have a happy Sunday, dear. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by shantti(m): 6:51am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: Lol Bye too |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Iamzik: 6:52am On Mar 12, 2023 |
EriMma1: A sensible woman should work to create value, have a vision and be able to meet her own needs. Looking for a man that can meet your need is a wrong strategy. Of course any man will take pride in meeting his woman's need but no man wants a permanent liability. There is nothing wrong is you going on business trip abroad and buying your man a good wristwatch on your way back. Everyone deserves gifts both men and women. Add value to yourself so you can contribute to a man's greatness. You are too talented to only take care of children and clean the house. If that is your mentality please change! No man will appreciate a liability who contributes nothing 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by baranzy(m): 7:02am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Poster just trying to find reasons to justify hook up/ prostitution..Men are not your problem. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kujo(m): 7:02am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Op What if you get a man that can take care of your needs and later something goes south and he can't provide anymore... are you then going to abandon him and look for the next available man that can carter for your insatiable needs? If you answer this question correctly then I'll accept your theory... |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 7:08am On Mar 12, 2023 |
MrBroke:So, you will not come tomorrow to introduce us to a woman who you plan to open business for as your wife? That na una way. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Kobojunkie: 7:11am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Kujo:1. Look around you to see what typically ends up happening when the sole bread winner of the home is no longer able to provide for the family he took on as his burden to get the most likely answer to your question. 2. Theory? What she expressed is what is culture and tradition in much of Nigeria today and the reason why the vast majority of your brothers and sons embrace hypogamy as their lot in life, a life sentence in poverty for the majority of them. |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by Facidio: 7:14am On Mar 12, 2023 |
You are not just from a lazy poor background, background, but you are now lazy mentally and poor physically. And you might be living in penury soon if you continue with this ur thinking. Men of nowadays don't marry out of pity or excitement. If you don't have anything to offer, you will just end up being a Bleep girl in your early youthful age. And later be an old hag harlot turned evening news paper Becos with this ur thinking, no sensible man will wife u. You are even a liability to ur self before other people. 1 Like |
Re: What Are You Doing With A Man That Can't Meet Your Needs? by abbey621(m): 7:15am On Mar 12, 2023 |
Iamzik: Now you're making up shit.....lol. My grandfather was a magistrate court judge, don't know which village you're talking about but the only village we've ever known is Lagos. If you think it is a must to buy iPhone for any woman then my friend you've got bigger problems than just the physical 1 Like |
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