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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Quaddafi29: 4:34pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
If you have never dated another woman's husband, come let me give u something to separate them immediately but if you have, then the chicken has come to roost. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Chopcy29: 4:42pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Just tell him that you know about his affair with the said side-hen, threaten him that in one months time if nothing is done about the stupid thing that he is doing you are going to kill the side-hen, then kill him and maybe kill yourself if you feel like but if you don’t feel like killing yourself you will stay alive and regret the pain for the rest of your life. And tell him that you have told one of your family member about his stupidity and your plan...come back and give me praises |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by IamMobisola(f): 4:50pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
ConfidentialDoc:And many don’t cheat on their boyfriends or girlfriends before they get married? 🤔 |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 5:03pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
WantsandMore:See as you twist my post to suit your narrative smh |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by WantsandMore: 5:18pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:what if i did? You better accept this compliment now before I change my mind |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Mboi: 5:19pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
pendragonbladgo:Do not follow the foot steps of your mother. She was the reason whynyour Dad was doing what he was doing. From.few lines you just dropped here, your mum was never caring to your father. If you live that kindnof life with your husband, he'll do exactly like your father. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 5:20pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
WantsandMore:Compliment? You just spite me and a novice will believe what you wrote |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by WantsandMore: 5:21pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:what do you mean I spite you? I'm a simple man, I don't even know how to spite. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 5:24pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
WantsandMore:All of you twisted my post just so you could bash me, it’s all because I’m an Asiwaju supporter |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by WantsandMore: 5:26pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:first of all, who's all of you? You go too like drama, damn |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Gloriagee(f): 5:27pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Oh puhlease Why yall are so preoccupied with encouraging woman to accept cheating spouses is beyond me. Her life, her choices... if she accept am, come kill am nko if he cheats, na double wahala for deadi body. Abeg a cheating spouse is no prize, take it or leave it. gfelo: |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 5:29pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
WantsandMore:All of you bashed me on that thread and not even a single person understood my post. They all told me how they’ll panel beat me and all that. Nairaland is really a haven for toxic men |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Perocom(m): 5:46pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
marlow1962: Pls stop this comparison, life in marriage is completely different from the outside world, allow the so called side chick to become a wife today and her case may be even worse. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Moneyline(m): 5:54pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Just be praying for him to change |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by imagrg(m): 6:01pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
My dear, some men are still responsible. Let her report the matter to the elders. Goodlady: |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Exceed15: 6:07pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
My sister, you know the whole story and how things have degenerated to this point. Trace it and amend. You can have him back. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Meself: 6:13pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Madam don't u have a job? Concentrate on your job and take good care of yourself. Eat what u want and b happy always. Do like u no send what he is doing. Wear better cloth have time for your girlfriend. Na let man treat u anyhow. Leave m that tin e dey find outside e go see the end even if he married her she will suffer the same tin. What goes around comes around na today |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by callthefred: 6:14pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I think this alone won't work. We might also need to understand that all men don't enjoy same fantasies but I'm yet to see a man who is okay with been cheated on. I'll never advice cheating because it gives the man the perfect excuse but giving him ideas that cheating is inevitable is going to seriously force him to do more. And you see respect, there's nothing a man craves more. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Kobojunkie: 6:20pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
callthefred:Women desire the same exact thing. Only they have instead learned to accept less than what they desire in a world and society that turns a deaf ear to their pain. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by pendragonbladgo(m): 6:25pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Mboi:hmmmm, I see sense sha. Is true. If my wife love and handle me well. I ll stay fully |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Chasito(m): 6:37pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:okay.. I get |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by callthefred: 6:43pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Well, I guess I'm guilty of this. Thanks for that. I'll seriously apply it better going forward. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by InfinityFabric: 6:52pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
advanceDNA:Violence all the way. No Peace! |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by InfinityFabric: 6:56pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Goodlady:This is why women can't help other women. The ones that are rich Linda still somehow found a man to knock them up. You can't remove a man from your life, sadly, that chances goes down as you age. Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man.There's nothing like: partner. There's a leader and follower. The moment this dynamics breaks, it's over. Like it or not, men are polygamous in nature. The problem is majority of them have been trained to lack confidence. What's the issue for the guy to declare he's taking a second a wife ? Absolute weaklings. If you like, train your son to be a SIMP, na u go suffer pass. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by WantsandMore: 6:56pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Oh yeah? Why would you say you want to raise your hands on your man without provocation & want him to go take the silent route? Are you for real? Has it occurred to you that you could be the toxic one ?😏 Strong men don't tolerate bullshit, you probably should get a weak ass nigga you can whip @ will, there's never a scenario where I'm supposed understand how you intend to raise your hands on a man. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by advanceDNA: 6:57pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
InfinityFabric: Baba.......peace is a crime on nairaland |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Gboom: 7:00pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:So, when you as a wife is suspecting your husband, the next thing is to divorce him. Stop destroying other people's marriage with your bad advise. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Kobojunkie: 7:06pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Gboom:1. OP is not suspecting. She is already aware that the man is not only cheating but going as far as to marry the woman he is cheating with if care if not taken. 2. You destroy your own marriage by your own dick the minute you commit adultery. The agreement is pretty violated at that point by you, and no one else. so Stop fooling yourself that others can be blamed for making the obvious known. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by chaloskyx: 7:13pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
First of all are you independent to survive on your own also do you have kids if your finances are heavily dependent on him stay put but start developing yourself to be an independent woman you can also take loans using your husband to assist once you are to big to fail dump his ass but for now play the waiting game and form ignorant also even if he ends his relationship with the girl still leave him don't give him a second chance to ruin and disgrace you 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Namigotalktru: 7:32pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
lummy247: Tell him about the girl so it is clear you know who she is. Tell his family. call the girls mother and swear for her and her daughter and any offspring. Call your mother and give all their names make them start the prayer for “anybody that will be the destroyer on your marriage to him to fall die” Before all that secure as many assets as possible locate all land documents and transfer to your children’s name. Some men are so stupid they work with a good wife to make money then try to destroy destinies with olosho. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by MightySparrow: 7:39pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Mboi:[xquote author=lummy247 post=121738645]Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick. In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her. They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other. My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her. This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App. Please I need advice, what can I do.[/quote]. You said he is your husband. Not our husband. Since he is your husband legally, culturally, and spirituality married fight for your home, fight for your children, fight for your family. If you are a christian I would recommend you watch Wat Room on YouTube. Take a decision in prayers. God answers prayers. If you do any stupid thing, you and your children would suffer it alone. The man will start another family. You can stop the nonsense on your knees. Polygamy is evil as well as being a single mother. It affects children's psychology and emotional well being. Anyway, why can't you brace up and use the right weapon to get your msn back? Why won't you sit together and be happy with your children and husband? Learn how to pray and get your man back. I look forward to hearing your testimony soon. |
Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Gboom: 7:43pm On Mar 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:So, if you are in her shoes, you will quickly divorce your husband? It is very easy to advise others when you have not experienced the kind of heat before. Judging by your no 2 point, I can tell you many homes would scatter if women were divorcing their husband based on adultery. |
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