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Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Titilayo4life: 1:45pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Ok |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by easyz(m): 1:46pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Your Carrier should be most important |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Shokoloko(f): 1:48pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
4-7 days 4-7 days 4-7 days As in we actually have to debate over a matter that will be over in one week. If they are in PH, kuku send them over to my parents for the week. They will be so happy that they will not even want to return. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by pocohantas(f): 1:50pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
tosinhtml: E go surprise you. Best believe I have seen someone at my place of work whose husband stormed the office because of two days training. 2 days, not two weeks! 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by BigMamaNaija: 1:52pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Let the man help madam get paid help to take care of the children for that week simple. Op, if it's you, this is not the time to insist on not wanting external caregivers in your home. It's not best but the system works over there so things will most likely not go (too) wrong in JUST ONE WEEK. 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Streetmovement(m): 1:55pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Wotoporiously ![]() No comments, cuz if there was understanding between both parties this wouldn't have been an issue at all to begin with. Couples who don't have understanding tend to have issues the most especially on small issues like this 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kennyquestt: 1:55pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
vuxelle:A woman can not be good and very stubborn at the same time, bottom line is that she is not a good person, and always wanting things her own way makes her a terrible person.A man will not endure nonsense forever. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:01pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
kozmicity:1. If they are that kind of couple, them the man is the problem in this case. ![]() 2. Well, like I said, not all marriages function as a partnership so in this case, the man refusing to extend the same commonsense courtesy to his wife means his idea of marriage isn't that of a partnership and in such a situation, the partner who is left shortchanged in such a union does not need be paralyzed by that at all. The woman should rightly consider leaving the kids with a nanny for the week that she will be away and move on with her course and other things in like manner. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Reinamaria(f): 2:06pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
The husband should not be selfish. Rather, he should be considerate and supportive of his wife's ambition. I doubt the husband is "cool" as stated in the post, because if he were, he'd try to work things out with his wife, instead of having his way at all cost. He's probably one of those silent slow poison . 5 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Nobody: 2:10pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Seriously, women's career matter more than children. She can dump the kids somewhere while she go wherever she wants to go 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:12pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Dinny002:For no commonsense reason. ![]() |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by baralatie(m): 2:15pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
The husband of a lady is against his wife attending a 4-7 days school course from Germany to the Netherlands . Participants can leave on the 5th day if they want, participants will also get 800 euros as participating fee. can you expansiate property on this two odd statements |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Ishilove: 2:17pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
What circumstances cannot be resolved that makes it impossible for the husband to travel? Let's start from there 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:19pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Manydays01:1. She is only going for a week's course, not a career life trip. Even oyinbo dey use nannies daily. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Reinamaria(f): 2:20pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Manydays01: If you like, use the word dump to it make seem terrible, that is your business! Career or whatever aside, a woman needs a break (to herself) from time to time to recharge. 7 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by baralatie(m): 2:21pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Story is virtually incomplete and shrewed |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by baralatie(m): 2:22pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:A trip from Germany to Netherlands from Nigeria And after day 5 participants will €800 |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:23pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
baralatie:A man refusing to babysit his kids while his wife is away for a one-week course that takes place 2 months from now is incomplete, how? ![]() 4 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:24pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
baralatie:From Nigeria ke? ![]() 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Reference(m): 2:25pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Planning and communication is everything. The man appears a bit insecure in this case however and that is not a good sign. The wife should have a career and make as much progress in life as the husband. In a proper marriage this makes for better security for all. 2 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by baralatie(m): 2:26pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:That is what the one of the details op has left out |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by descarado: 2:26pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
How did it get to this point? Is this supposed to be a problem if taking care of the kids is shared responsibility. Oh, their church always tell them to be submissive. So she should carry it over. Smh 2 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Miyachi: 2:27pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:I agree with kozmicity on this. The post stated that she had already registered for the course long before she intimated the husband about it. If she had told him earlier, would they not have had ample time to prepare towards it? I think there are deeper issues as someone had earlier said, but what I can say from the story is that the woman is manipulative. 1 Like |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Nobody: 2:27pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Reinamaria: I'm sorry, maybe that word wasn't necessary. I think they can kill those children. More reasons I used to advised women to focus on their careers rather than getting married as it's a waste of their precious time |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:27pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Reference:That na commonsense now! Na why dem say two heads are better than one. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Isabi4lov: 2:30pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
This man is an enemy of progress , some men are on this table they don't want their wives to have progress in their lives , same men will still complain if their wives refuses to do anything. ![]() Some people are so self centered and selfish, they don't want their partners progress . Open business for your wife problem, allow her to work wahala. They go about complaining how jobless their wives are . God will save us from all forms of enemies of progress. 4 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by abobote: 2:31pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Madam husband wife, husband wife madam . This your right up doesn't flow well |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Kobojunkie: 2:33pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Miyachi:1. Does the man also ask his wife before deciding to register or go for everything he does in his life? Does the story tell you that? ![]() 2. The story says the course takes place in 2 months. Isn't that early enough by your assessment? As for deeper issues, we don't need to try to resolve all of our life issues everytime a concern comes up. According to Op, this is simply a trip to go do her course. I get the sense that if she has said she was headed over to see her family in the village or something for a week in 2 months time, that wouldn't have been made an issue of. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Wife vs Husband : Family vs Career. Help Needed please by Reinamaria(f): 2:34pm On Mar 16, 2023 |
Manydays01: To begin with, who are you to "advise" women on what they can and cannot have? And who says a woman can't have a career and be married? (So, men can and women can't?) All they need to do is avoid your likes, and go for good, considerate and supportive partners. 3 Likes |
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