Sam119:
OP You are 100% correct
One was introduced to me by a friend for possible dating, but nothing to write home about character wise.

She is always looking for a man that is handsome with money, more money and plenty money irrespective of the fact that she earns well.

Saintinoo:


She had this sense of self importance, i am better than you type of mentality. This is a girl i vowed to support her reach her ambitions.

I think she felt she was more superior, because i could see signs of supremacy battle in the relationship.

Mehn, i japa, i know it will hurt me because i really loved her and made so many plans with her, but dating her means becoming her slave.

Nice2023:



Now let me tell u this.

When I was single,I dated ladies not for sex or romance ok.

What do u do for a living was basically what encompasses our discussions then. Life,money career and a little outing and as u can see,many of us still keep in touch till date because it was all about competition amongst us.

And today,I was also lucky to marry my wife, who is a great competitor to me...she earns more salary than me,but as a smart guy,I make more from my side business than her. Our gross earning per month is roughly 3.2million.

Now,she is planning on setting up a side business like me and I have told her that I will support her.

Lesson: the fulcrum of the matter is that,the family is at the core of this whole competition and that does not remove the love we had at the beginning,in fact we are waxing strong.

Everyone with his own reality.

Before u still doubt me,my wife is a group head of operations of a financial institution in Abuja and I was once a banker before I left to a government job.

Note: i don't want u to believe me ok.

Nice2023:



We have settled these cases for both of them more than 9 occasions.

I don't say what I am not part of...I didn't say,them say. I said it emphatically.

blacksam01:
...jeez! this category is full of trouble

its either they are dragging my right, playing the silence game when iritated, never apologetic when wrong, weaponize sex,blame shifting, talking back in arguments, wealthy but very reluctant to assist u wen in need,stuborn and always making u feel they pitied u to be with u...

God! av never seen such awful lot like these people..

i wonder why men wont simply let these entitled ladies alone to marry themselves....

dont think its from who i dated...mind u i have dated 5 of them..same character especially gradaute good earning ladies....

i guees that why they marry late!

placeofallure:


Well you could be right but not certainly all of us are like that.

I do caution my big sis at times when she's having little altercation with her hubby.

When I got married, I got to see first-hand how impossible you men can be at times.

We, hubby and I, don't run into problem often because naturally I'm your typical introvert.

Then the words of one of my pastors always reverberate - respect and submit to your husband, his stupidity or egocentrism regardless, the Bible didn't attach any clause or condition to it. I am very "churchy"

Many times, Men are not the wisest or the most tactful creatures, the woman's innate abilities must be expressed here to keep things sane.

Sometimes, I let things go awry so he can see my point without me necessarily engaging in an argument or scuffle. He'll make a detour with an apology.

Possibly, you could do a thorough self evaluation too. The problem may not be the girls.

🙏

Saintinoo:


The OP said he has dated 5, i was dating one some weeks ago, understand what OP mean by educated, not just being a graduate, these are career ladies we are talking about.

Polynek:

Bcox He dated 5 dat means all educated ladies hv thesame attributes?
Is what u are insinuating bro?

ifihearam:

Keep fooling yourself..so 5 is not a good number to make your personal opinion?

If you buy 5 rotten mangoes at a shop 5 different times would you still go there?

Polynek:
I don't like when someone generalize a behaviour simply bcox of his/her experience,
There are good educated ladies and there are bad one's.
That you met few bad ones doesn't mean they are all the same.

ifihearam:

Keep fooling yourself..so 5 is not a good number to make your personal opinion?

If you buy 5 rotten mangoes at a shop 5 different times would you still go there?

Fiscus105:


I know several illiterate or jobless educated ladies that are extreme difficult to control by man, at least I have dated two and by God grace married to employed educated,who she is not only humble, I also have access to all of her passwords,..... social media, bank app etc.

Though I hadly spend her money o

Saintinoo:


Wait, i'm i dreaming? Same character my own is exibiting, OP everything you listed here is same shit she does, to crown it all, she is a first class graduate.

She actually gave me a silent treatment for two weeks now, thinking i will come out and beg, she doesn't know that i have taken it as an opportunity to japa.

I just pity her, because i doubt if she can stay up yo one month with another man.

The last word i told her was this '' continue giving the silent treatment until you reach 30.

Saintinoo:


It worked for you bro, just as it worked for a friend of mine, his wife, a nurse with a federal teaching hospital bought him a car, this guy earn 30k as a principal on a private secondary school but she submits to him like a house wife.

In all bad, there are still few good ones, but the truth is that majority of em career women are just like the OP stated.

Mind you, any man that condones a disrepectful wife is no longer a man, i don't know how you were brought up though.

Nice2023:



My wife's friends who earns more than the husband till date has not had peace of mind. Despite the fact that the lady is humble.

Her husband is already intimidated,troubled and even want her to stop work for no obvious reason.

In fact,most men need to adjust seriously

henndukwe18:
Sometimes I feel like I don't want my wife to work, I just want to make money and marry ha so DT she will b a house wife, take care of d kids and the house, let me b doing d spending as d man of d house. house wives are very humble and submissive as long as d husband is a good, hardworking, trust worthy, God fearing and caring man. I know dt wives are supposed to assist their husbands financially in terms of d family, BT I would really love to get married one day, come back from work to see my wife and kids welcome me, my wife will now bring out d delicious food she prepared and I WL eat, then before going to bed, party after party

SPAMBOX7:
There was really no need for this. Just ghost the werey and find another replacement asap. It's not only the working class. All women are like that when they know they can't be replaced easily.
Get a replacement and see how easy you will forget about her. In two months max you will see her coming back to you. They usually come back with blame tactics.

Saintinoo:


She has started it already, bringing up many tactics to reach out to be, blame tactics.

henndukwe18:
Sometimes I feel like I don't want my wife to work, I just want to make money and marry ha so DT she will b a house wife, take care of d kids and the house, let me b doing d spending as d man of d house. house wives are very humble and submissive as long as d husband is a good, hardworking, trust worthy, God fearing and caring man. I know dt wives are supposed to assist their husbands financially in terms of d family, BT I would really love to get married one day, come back from work to see my wife and kids welcome me, my wife will now bring out d delicious food she prepared and I WL eat, then before going to bed, party after party

ifihearam:


You are a bitch ass nigga..I can tell from all your write up

You will regret it in future.
You are taking side with our wife's friend because she does too..

You are saying the man is 100% wring?

What else does she do that initiated his recent actions?

I fear for you .

karkinase:

This is how Alpha role…coming home to meet ur Queen clean n neat

GreatAchiever1:


Don't worry brother, you're not alone on this boat, I dey with you.

Jeferious:
Oga, na working class we dey find abeg. Wetin concern me and jobless girl? I no want person wey go use my own money buy me gifts on my birthday

As for the witch-like behavior,that one no be wahala. Me sef na emotional terrorist. Just tap the drums of war, and I'll hurriedly draw the battle line.

Boss, make I tell you...Dem dey use madness cure madness. Abeg give me working class girl anytime anyday