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Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by juocin: 9:44am On Mar 26, 2023 |
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Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by pongwa(m): 9:45am On Mar 26, 2023 |
tafabaloo:another angle 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by superCleanworks(m): 9:47am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo:your fellow human (in the disguise of a pastor) lied on the so called alter and called your husband a violent sadistic woman beater in public and you could not silence him on the spot to correct the impression. you even bowed down to him so he could lay his demonic hands on you for prayer that only glorifies his false story and you left in silence. Bloody sheep. 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 9:49am On Mar 26, 2023 |
superCleanworks: They removed the mic from my mouth when I started talking 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Nobody: 9:51am On Mar 26, 2023 |
phemmyfour:But you already know whose version the church would believe.It’s like a spell should we revisit the Coza scandal of a few years back?. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by seguno2: 9:53am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo: Did Paul not confront Peter about the Gentiles treatment 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by CodeTemplar: 9:53am On Mar 26, 2023 |
What a church! |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 9:54am On Mar 26, 2023 |
bakobenjamin198: I don't go close to him so I wouldn't know, its last night I started suspecting, I have learnt my lessons |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by dnawah(m): 9:55am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo:run from that church.u remain there u miss heaven. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 9:55am On Mar 26, 2023 |
tfelicityk: Thank you dear, I have forgiven him in my heart, let God be the judge 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by superCleanworks(m): 9:57am On Mar 26, 2023 |
dnawah: she is probably there right now with her jotter writing prayer points from the fancy suit lier. many thousands of them like that in church to the point it has become a deadly game of silence. first to speak will be publicly shamed and demonized. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 9:57am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Tutu82: Thank you dear, on the judgment day we shall answer to everything we have done 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by alizma: 9:57am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo:Save that energy, use the energy to go to your husband and discuss with him. I mean let him know that you love him and never expected you guys issue to be discussed outside the marriage, let both of you see how you can learn from this and 3nsure it never repeat itself again. Then if you have some energy left, get some elders in the church and tell express your displeasure. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by BigYash: 9:57am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Una go just dey fear anyhow. Na d same power God give the pasitor ,HE give you too. You people fear pastor more than you fear God. SMH 3 Likes |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by phemmyfour: 9:58am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Tutu82:Few members will still believe her. Not every Coza members stayed after the scandal. Let her change church after telling the congregation their side of the story. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by ArsenWinner: 9:59am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Your husband should be the one that confronts him. He should also demand that he put the record right before the congregation |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 10:01am On Mar 26, 2023 |
WantsandMore: Every one is scared of him, u know those kind of pastors that what they speaks comes to pass so nobody dare correct him or confronts him, he usually teaches us that confronting a man of God is a sin that comes with great punishment, but I don't believe it because I haven't seen it in the bible, the bible is my manual for life 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 10:02am On Mar 26, 2023 |
treatise: U know nobody is a graduate in the institution of marriage, sometimes counseling is needed, I speak to God directly because God is my father 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by jaxxy(m): 10:02am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Lol |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by gigabyte13: 10:03am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Pastors in what ever capacity hate being corrected.... It is like you are watering down their righteousness, they hate it. Wether politely or not, they hate being corrected..... Especially the ones wey carry title for head, na Dem worse pass. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by jenkini(m): 10:04am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo:Time to leave the church sis. He isn’t a man of God |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 10:04am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Kukutenla: That is what I know too, that whatever is being counseled or confessed stays within them...so u can imagine the shock, I refused to get up till he pointed me direct |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by lilmerhnuel(m): 10:06am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Yes but don’t judge |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Nobody: 10:07am On Mar 26, 2023 |
[quote author=Kukutenla post=122067827] This is obviously the effect of going to mushroom churches lacking strong doctrine and administration. I can bet you no Catholic, Baptist, Anglican, Methodist or doctrinal sound pentecostal Church pastor will do this. They are taught this kind of things in the seminary[/quote Do not bet too soon on some Catholic priests. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 10:09am On Mar 26, 2023 |
TOPMAN4LIFE: The trust keeps breaking and breaking, the church is supposed to be a place of solace, comfort, counsel, joy, a place of meat, and many more but now, no way they are ready to even expose that u are a beggar. God will help us |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Mummytoo: 10:11am On Mar 26, 2023 |
alizma: I discussed with my husband immediately I got home, i pray no serious issue comes again, we learn everyday, God help us Thank u dear 1 Like |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by magictonic(m): 10:12am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Many African Pastors assume the place of God these days. If you're not genuflecting before them, they see it as arrogance. They insult people and expect people to lick their arses. It has now become like a cult. Other pastors will condemn you, even when they know that their friend (your current pastor) is wrong. I say this from experience. I remember the 80s. Pastors were humane and gentle, filled with God's spirit. These days , they are very insulting, haughty and arrogant. My advice to this poster is to quietly leave that church and go somewhere else . As for me, I rarely attend church anymore these days. Today is even a Sunday and I'm at home. If this poster tries to accost that pastor, she will be lynched. |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Kukutenla: 10:14am On Mar 26, 2023 |
[quote author=Tutu82 post=122068727][/quote] Such person can be reported to the authorities and appropriately sanctioned The case of Fr Mbaka is a pointer |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by reservd(m): 10:15am On Mar 26, 2023 |
It depends on how you see them, to some they are untouchable, some even worship them, some leave their thinking faculty and accept whatever they say or tell them to do no matter how it may look, they are gods to some people. But if you know he's just human like you who isn't immune to human flaws, you will approach him just as you would do to other people, respect yourself and you will be respected, and try to clear what he might have said wrongly about your husband. As adults, when someone brings an issue to you, you don't need to be told what to divulge to others or not, not to talk of a spiritual head/leader, but instead he went public about it, even added sauce to make the gist sweeter, interesting |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Kukutenla: 10:16am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Mummytoo:You should look for a better church before you get misguided. The secret of the Lord are with those who fear him.... A pastor worth his salt is a secret keeper not a tale bearer |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Dirkcoyt: 10:17am On Mar 26, 2023 |
You’re a reckless woman, a naive woman, a stupid woman, you’re everything a man should never marry if he wants to go far in life and if he wants so sort of peace knowing fully well his wife can handle the home. You carried your marriage matter to pastor cause you worship pastor , now same pastor attacked you yet you said they removed the mic when you were about to speak can’t you see how you brought shame and disrespect to your family ? And you’re still saying you want to confront him politely , you’re saying no one can confront him cause what he says comes to pass , where do men find naive and dumb women like you Omo I rather stay single than marry someone like you Omo you’re not intelligent at all! Your mumu too much. You’re timid, lack self esteem, and not smart obviously. The best bet for you is to discover yourself, reinvent yourself and go wan aura of self respect so people can treat you highly . Omo I had to login in to comment after many months of not commenting on this platform. If you love yourself get out of that church, and stay off church for awhile till you reinvent yourself cause I’m sure you don’t even know who you are yet and this will affect you in every area of your life people will never respect you ! That’s why your husband don’t even respect you! And some people saying the husband should meet the pastor ?? The husband has no business with him. The stupid pastor can go Bleep himself 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Is It Wrong To Confront A Pastor Politely by Toneypen247(m): 10:21am On Mar 26, 2023 |
Onyiiobi7735: Well said brother 1 Like 1 Share |
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