achimendy:





You're very foolish for allowing that nonsense at first.


I can't even allow my brother to be staying in thesame house with my wife talk more of friend.

Epa, which nonsense did I allow? Una go just dey insult person without provocation.

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now

u dey get burden on your chest for wetin no concern you?

burp18:
How do you know they're sleeping on thesame bed?🤔

Maybe the writer is the friend of the husband living in the US.

Akalia:
Like how old r u, 12? Your name sef.

Nenemosha

Eazzii:
Iyaebe, what would I gain from lieing? If you are in Benin, I can show them to you sef.

I'm in Benin, which area?

The only thing constant in this life of unbalance is change. I have seen wives bringing female friends to their husbands for unscripted threesomes. I have equally seen husbands paying bouncers & gym instructors extras for extracurricular activities on behalf of their wives. Nothing wen Musa never see for dis gate! But in all, it’s nobody’s business if it works for you. Relationship is hard marriage even harder, just do you and make sure it doesn’t affect the kids negatively!

Creamypussy:


Nenemosha

What does the name even mean?

Iykenuwa:

I'm in Benin, which area?

Oko central. Where you dey?

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

I have seen it happen where the man is impotent but needs kids.

It's either his brither or friends the impregnated the wife

The only logical reason for such is that the said husband abroad is also cohabiting if not married to another woman..

@OP Leave church talk.. I'm sure the said friend fvcks.her up to 10 times a day. Bloody church goers cum hypocrites.

Akalia:
What does the name even mean?

Find out

Creamypussy:


Find out

You tell me lil' girl?

They will soon kill the man when next he comes ..that is the truth

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

which kind of man leaves abroad and his wife and kid stays in one room in Nigeria?.

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

Nice script, keep it up

Na pregnancy remain ooo.

Dogalmighty17:
You say the husband is aware of the arrangement? That means the husband knows your friend. This is my take. The husband is in the US and ofcourse knows that the wife has sexual needs that have to be met. They may have mutually consented to allowing someone they both know to help the husband water the wife's garden whenever it needs watering. Your friend and that woman are sleeping together and her husband knows.

Reminds me of what my Man Bompy told his wife when he was going away, he said "as I go away I know you have sexual needs but don't embarrass me" and she didn't.

1. Are they fokking each other?
2. Possible the husband is knowingly allowing that so the woman won't go astray

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

Lies

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

"Paddle your own canoe"🛶

I guess they are from Tiv nation, I trust dem with silly friendship

Why should the husband leave his wife in nigeria for some years ...why can't he arrange to bring his wife and child to USA.... when you leave your wife for some years alone in nigeria...you know body no be firewood...she must look for a guy to satisfy her sexual urge... body no be firewood..so I blame the husband

Eazzii:
Epa, which nonsense did I allow? Una go just dey insult person without provocation.

Your write-up is provoking. How can you allow your wife to stay with a friend while you're far away. Don't you know your wife has sexual needs, what will happen when it shows up?? You no dey fear temptation.


If you're around is a different thing but you're not.

Eazzii:
Okay. I've this burden on my chest for over a year now and they say a problem shared is a problem half solved (or multiplied)

So, I've this friend who lives with a woman and her little son. He and the lady are of the same age group. The husband, who is in the US is fully aware of this situation. Note: they stay in the same room and even sleep on the same bed. Also this guy's family house is just a stone's throw from the lady's house but he hardly ever visits there and hasn't passed a night there in over 4 years. If you're new to the area, you'll be forgiven if you address them as man and wife.


My main purpose of creating this thread is not to pass judgement on anybody but to seek your opinions. As a married man, will you be comfortable with your unmarried friend staying with your wife while you're overseas. As an unmarried guy, will you be comfortable living with your friend's wife.

Lao, masculinists and feminists, kindly keep off.



PS: They are both active members of their church.

Hmmh Good evening.
Like you said the husband is fully aware of the situation so why is it a burden on your chest.

You have now gone as far as counting how many times he has gone to his family house and know they sleep on the same bed .

You should search your soul as to why you have so much time on your hands to be monitoring a fellow human being.

I also fail to see the relevance of them being active members of their church to this story.

Be at peace and put all this energy into something productive.

colizee:


Bro which formula you take arrive at this value.

World formula

izubext007:
I guess they are from Tiv nation, I trust dem with silly friendship

That is a very rude thing to say and a faulty generalisation.
“Silly friendships” are not what Tiv people hold and you should research into that analogy which historically meant The Tiv man is very generous and will treat a visitor well.It did not actually mean he would offer his wife.

Roger3D:
This made me laugh

I am laughing with you.

The friend is getting paid for active service in proxy

Dogalmighty17:
You say the husband is aware of the arrangement? That means the husband knows your friend. This is my take. The husband is in the US and ofcourse knows that the wife has sexual needs that have to be met. They may have mutually consented to allowing someone they both know to help the husband water the wife's garden whenever it needs watering. Your friend and that woman are sleeping together and her husband knows.

My thoughts too.

Though unconventional, but a pragmatic approach like this is better than hypocrisy. This way, it is safer and there’s prace of mind on both sides than playing cat and mouse with each other

achimendy:



Your write-up is provoking. How can you allow your wife to stay with a friend while you're far away. Don't you know your wife has sexual needs, what will happen when it shows up?? You no dey fear temptation.


If you're around is a different thing but you're not.

Work on your comprehension skills. Doh osheri.

Eazzii:
Interesting. But 3 of them are churchlings.

I'm afraid those even one of the weakest excuses I've heard, have you not hear of stranger things happening in the house of God.

We are talking about flesh here,I mean mortals and not some larger than life characters, if we are to put self-discipline nature of both into perspectives, they need to avoid staying together but that's not even the case.

Ask any of the church members what they think of that union and you'll be she'll shocked.

If the man is ok with that then there is no problem. This is called an open relationship. But how did you know they sleep in same bed??