victooman:
l am the first child of my family ,due to some family issues, the age gap between me and my siblings is quiet far, l am 10 yrs older than my immediate brother, and 19 yrs older than our last born,
The major issue now is that since l was born,the major challenge in our family is finance, l have to battle my way through University, after my service in 2021 ,no job,l started a small business that is helping me with minor upkeep,,, now financial challenges keep creeping up here and there, l have to carter for my father mother and siblings, is like everyday the challenges for money keep spranging up,,
l have a wonderful girlfriend l intended getting married to, but with this family challenges l dont even know when l will settle down, seriously my head is full,, first born in this forum how do yo handle this challenges ?

Sanguine:
Start paying the tithe of all your income and watch God rebuke all the devourers for your sake, especially in your finances.

victooman:
l didn't bro,

Sacrosanct12:
then who did. Let's all go through another rough years in APC hand

victooman:
lol, do you know how old l will be in 20yrs time? l am not too young my brother,,

ufotty2001:

Stop complaining you voted for APC

victooman:
l am the first child of my family ,due to some family issues, the age gap between me and my siblings is quiet far, l am 10 yrs older than my immediate brother, and 19 yrs older than our last born,
The major issue now is that since l was born,the major challenge in our family is finance, l have to battle my way through University, after my service in 2021 ,no job,l started a small business that is helping me with minor upkeep,,, now financial challenges keep creeping up here and there, l have to carter for my father mother and siblings, is like everyday the challenges for money keep spranging up,,
l have a wonderful girlfriend l intended getting married to, but with this family challenges l dont even know when l will settle down, seriously my head is full,, first born in this forum how do yo handle this challenges ?

MrBrownJay1:
you have to get your priorities in life...
FIRST take care of your own self at all times. make sure you prioritize your own life over anyone else.
SECOND when your own priorities are met and secured, you can possibly think of helping others.
THIRD if push come to shove, your own life priorities should always be the 1st thing to solve over anything/anyone else's issues.

victooman:
l am the first child of my family ,due to some family issues, the age gap between me and my siblings is quiet far, l am 10 yrs older than my immediate brother, and 19 yrs older than our last born,
The major issue now is that since l was born,the major challenge in our family is finance, l have to battle my way through University, after my service in 2021 ,no job,l started a small business that is helping me with minor upkeep,,, now financial challenges keep creeping up here and there, l have to carter for my father mother and siblings, is like everyday the challenges for money keep spranging up,,
l have a wonderful girlfriend l intended getting married to, but with this family challenges l dont even know when l will settle down, seriously my head is full,, first born in this forum how do yo handle this challenges ?

Raalsalghul:
Op, unfortunately there is nothing you can do.

You're not the only one experiencing this same issue.
Do the ones you can and allow your parents handle the consequences of their irresponsibility.

Remember if you die, they'll still continue to live life.
.

EmiDon11:
omo see yansh ooo

U gather no be lie

EmiDon11:
i dey pray make i jam this type wey be my mate...

Aswear na marriage straight...

Ah no go ever cheat on her....

Nevaaaaaaa!!!

Bcuz;

She has all i want in a woman.

God really blessed u jare...

Golibe n' inwere ya

Golibe n' chukwu enyego gi yaa

candygist:


Suffer your suffer alone. Your destiny is in your hands.

victooman:
my brother even if l become a priest l wont finish this family issues,,,

PapaHadum:

Evil advise up there!
Listen and listen good!👇👇👇👇
If you want to go fastly, walk alone. But if you want to go far, do not walk alone. Carry your family along.
Empower your siblings so your load will be lighter cos if not, your load will never be relieved cos you can never run away from your shadow/responsibilities.
God will help you.
Tough times do not last, but tough people do!

EmiDon11:
i dey pray make i jam this type wey be my mate...

Aswear na marriage straight...

Ah no go ever cheat on her....

Nevaaaaaaa!!!

Bcuz;

She has all i want in a woman.

God really blessed u jare...

Golibe n' inwere ya

Golibe n' chukwu enyego gi yaa

Blupen969:
Emidon11 see as you deh mumu yourself for something weh you no fit smell talk more of touching, i swear before push comes to shove i go like push you make you fall ode

EmiDon11:
lol
The girl i am dating now has a bigga azz than her self.

Blupen969:
Good for you Emidon11 use the bigga ass to pay all your karmic debts

victooman:
l am the first child of my family ,due to some family issues, the age gap between me and my siblings is quiet far, l am 10 yrs older than my immediate brother, and 19 yrs older than our last born,
The major issue now is that since l was born,the major challenge in our family is finance, l have to battle my way through University, after my service in 2021 ,no job,l started a small business that is helping me with minor upkeep,,, now financial challenges keep creeping up here and there, l have to carter for my father mother and siblings, is like everyday the challenges for money keep spranging up,,
l have a wonderful girlfriend l intended getting married to, but with this family challenges l dont even know when l will settle down, seriously my head is full,, first born in this forum how do yo handle this challenges ?

CallmeTrinity:


You are a very useless and selfish idiot
You are looking for people to justify your stupid idiotic selfish decisions.

Useless BASTARD! You think life gave you money so you can marry and forget others ? Fool forgetting tomorrow that same woman can leave you for another man but this same family you neglected for her are stuck with pyou.
Useless fool. It's your time you later becomes poor in life only to watch his sibblings become richer than him.
See if you marry instead of building up your sibblings first you will wreck and loose everything within a short time because you will be cursed.

Useless ungrateful BASTARD

Samantha124:
So you want to add another burden by getting married and having kids, which would mean more responsibilities for you.

Forget about marriage for now.

You men are lucky because even in your 50s, you can still marry a young woman and have kids, so put the marriage thing aside for now.

victooman:
l dont and wont marry in my 50s,,, so u mean if l don't get married l will automatically have the money to take care of my siblings? what if it backfired? what if at 50 the money does not come and the wife is not there

CallmeTrinity:


Look at this good for nothing idiot bastard who can't think straight.
I am a landlord already . Excellent career record and have fixed my younger ones in companies. 34 and not yet married , a masters degree holder and I speak 5 languages.

Look at this USELESS BASTARD whose only achievement 8s to own a road side pharmacy yet marriage is your life goal

Useless cursed based whose parents should be ashamed.

Don't fix up your family before getting married o. leave them in the poverty they are

Useless big for nothing BASTARD first born