Mikagrace:
■ my parents don’t like him, but they have told me to bear it for the sake of whatever. I need a male friend to distract my mind. I don’t see a lasting solution because he is set in his ways, I don’t think he can change. His issues are generational curses that I don’t have the power to break.

Kobojunkie:
You are tired of your husband yet you need a male friend? If you are fed up what happened to divorce?

woginid967:


Errm i am interested in being friends with you .. not FWB, but gist partner, kindly send me a mail from my profile or drop your mail. Then we can talk all day.

Mikagrace:
■ Both, but for now I can’t leave so an outlet is the best option for me.

Kobojunkie:
1. Are these parents of yours also aware that you are seeking this outlet from your marriage? Or are you conveniently hiding that bit from them?

Mikagrace:
my parents don’t like him, but they have told me to bear it for the sake of whatever. I need a male friend to distract my mind. I don’t see a lasting solution because he is set in his ways, I don’t think he can change. His issues are generational curses that I don’t have the power to break.

Mikagrace:
■ some of you think a divorce is like walking down the street. Do you know what a divorce entails?

Kobojunkie:
1. Yes, you can leave. You can simply pick up your bags and head back to your parents to start over. You can file the divorce papers and whatever else that needs to be done from there.

Mikagrace:
■ I can’t go back to my parents house, the house does not soley belong to him. If only life was so simple and easy.

Mikagrace:
■ not aware.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Mikagrace:
I need some type of distraction.

Persephone1:
[url][/url] Don't you have a job?

MrBrownJay1:


why does it have to be a "male" friend to take your mind away?
why dont you just divorce him (and be free), if indeed fed up?



how is this gonna change the type of husband you are married to? why waste time still stay married to this man?

woginid967:


I work remotely..... And i own online businesses sor

With that, you can't talk all day

Mikagrace:
is it easy to wake up and divorce someone?

Mikagrace:
we are stuck in this house together unfortunately. I don’t know if a therapist can help but okay maybe? Yeah…

Kobojunkie:
https://www.thecable.ng/divorce-process-in-nigeria
https://www.nairaland.com/7525524/aisha-yesufu-should-learn-comfortable
Litigator

IyaebeTheGreat:
Now this is deep and I understand you to some extent. Let me tell you this as an old woman, that male friend you seek will be your destruction ( God forbids) . Before I go further, do you work? Are you financially independent and can take care of yourself? Because you don't just leave a marriage, you plan your exit.

Mikagrace:
■ you’re obviously not married so you don’t understand. Thanks though for trying to help.

Mikagrace:
is it easy to wake up and divorce someone?

EriMma1:
When we dey talk next time una go dey hear.

Men of these days don't really have anything to offer than pains, stress, headache.

Reason I advise any single lady who cares to listen not to be in haste to jump into marriage especially with men of this generation. They will strip you of the good life and freedom you once had and not add value to your life. So, maximize and enjoy your singlehood as long as it last and don't let any one pressure you into the wrong union.

If you can't stand him any longer, please separate from him for sometime for your sanity.

Persephone1:
With that, you can't talk all day

Twoclans:


Truer words have never been spoken.

The percentage of men that has anything to offer this days is almost abysmal.

@OP just love yourself.No one can do it better than you.That male friend you are looking for will not work if you don't love yourself first

EriMma1:
When we dey talk next time una go dey hear.

Men of these days don't really have anything to offer than pains, stress, headache.

Reason I advise any single lady who cares to listen not to be in haste to jump into marriage especially with men of this generation. They will strip you of the good life and freedom you once had and not add value to your life. So, maximize and enjoy your singlehood as long as it last and don't let any one pressure you into the wrong union.

If you can't stand him any longer, please separate from him for sometime for your sanity.

Mikagrace:
you’re obviously not married so you don’t understand. Thanks though for trying to help.

Persephone1:
You are tired of your husband,you want a male friend. LoL..

My dear you are not tired yet, you just need variety. I hope you won't get into more problems 🐱

wunmi590:




Eri, why did you say this?

Twoclans:


Truer words have never been spoken.

The percentage of men that has anything to offer this days is almost abysmal.

@OP just love yourself.No one can do it better than you.That male friend you are looking for will not work if you don't love yourself first

EriMma1:


That's the hard and bitter truth and me i don't know how to sugarcoat words. I say it as it is.

You need to see what a lot of women are going through in the name of marriage. Many have become a shadow of themselves but for what society would say, they remain in the marriage; dying in silence. Sad.

deekseen:

See how some people are preaching divorce to you and cajoling you into ending your marriage. Check their previous posts, they will never help anyone with information to peacefully resolve their marital issues, but will always be very fast to show them how to end it, no matter how light the matter is.

The number one person you need in your life right now is God. Form the habit of taking your problems to Him, He will either give you the wisdom to solve your marital issues or bring you in contact with someone who will help you.