Kobojunkie:
1. Yes, you can leave. You can simply pick up your bags and head back to your parents to start over. You can file the divorce papers and whatever else that needs to be done from there.

Mikagrace:
thank you so much for this, I appreciate you.

deekseen:
The number one person you need in your life right now is God. Form the habit of taking your problems to Him, He will either give you the wisdom to solve your marital issues or bring you in contact with someone who will help you.

wunmi590:


I understand where you are driving to, but castigating all men just because of 1 man mistake doesn't sound nice to we men who do all we can to please our woman irrespective of any situation.. .

After all, nobody forced us to marry them, we saw them and we decided to walk them down the isle and promise to give them what they want...

I courted my wife for almost 17years and we have been married for 3years now....

My marriage still looks fresh, just like when we were courting...

wunmi590:
Please OP find a way to mend and work the things out, I pray God will make a way for your marriage.

woginid967:

If only you know what remote work means, Mr monitoring spirit.

Persephone1:
Oh! I don't, it sounds so strange, does it involve talking all day?

Kobojunkie:
LOL... Denial is terrible thing!God is not going to come down to save you from whatever you are attempting to do to yourself, so praying to Him is next to futile. I mean He did inform all that marriage is not of the Kingdom of God, in addition to openly declaring that divorce ain't a sin for those who belong to Him, this from over 2000 years ago. So, if you think you can hide behind God, you simply set yourself as the root of your own problem in this.

Kobojunkie:
Stop using the name of God to lie to her abeg!

deekseen:
■ Kobo is just going up and down Nairaland seeking whom to destroy. Praying to God is now a lie?

Kobojunkie:
1. From 2000 years ago, God announced to you that He is not against divorce, and He also does not have a hand in your marriages as they are instead of the world of men. God also said that His blessings are instead on those who choose to live as Eunuchs for the sake of His Kingdom.

So, question: Does that sound to you like a God that is motivated in any way to save anyone's marriage? So, why would you lie to anyone that God wants to save their broken marriage? Why would you seek to destroy this person with such a lie?

deekseen:
■ Yes I remember. He stood in the clouds holding a microphone and announced it. But I also remember that only you and people like you were around. That's why you've been going up and down giving another version of Matthew 19:3-12. God that instituted marriage is now cancelling marriage?
■ And what's that lie about Eunuchs? Chai!

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

BABEELOVE:
Cheat like once every 6 months!!!!!

Mikagrace:
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EriMma1:
When we dey talk next time una go dey hear.

Men of these days don't really have anything to offer than pains, stress, headache.

Reason I advise any single lady who cares to listen not to be in haste to jump into marriage especially with men of this generation. They will strip you of the good life and freedom you once had and not add value to your life. So, maximize and enjoy your singlehood as long as it last and don't let any one pressure you into the wrong union.

If you can't stand him any longer, please separate from him for sometime for your sanity.

EriMma1:


Ok, with exceptions to the good men though .

Please continue being good to her o. It is well.

EriMma1:
When we dey talk next time una go dey hear.

Men of these days don't really have anything to offer than pains, stress, headache.

Reason I advise any single lady who cares to listen not to be in haste to jump into marriage especially with men of this generation. They will strip you of the good life and freedom you once had and not add value to your life. So, maximize and enjoy your singlehood as long as it last and don't let any one pressure you into the wrong union.

If you can't stand him any longer, please separate from him for sometime for your sanity.

Mikagrace:
my parents don’t like him, but they have told me to bear it for the sake of whatever. I need a male friend to distract my mind. I don’t see a lasting solution because he is set in his ways, I don’t think he can change. His issues are generational curses that I don’t have the power to break.

Kobojunkie:
1. Some of you think that you are the only ones on the planet who have ever encountered problems of even this magnitude in life.

As a matter of fact, I know well about divorce and how easy it can be to start the process toward freedom from what robs you of your peace of mind.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Mikagrace:
I really don’t want to go into depth. Just tired of him, just need a male friend who can take my mind elsewhere. I’m just fed up.

Samantha124:
What's the problem?

Is he not romantic enough, abusive, not taking care of the family, or is he boring in bed?

Mille:


I'd be willing to bet his finances are no longer in order. That's how they behave when their husbands have financial difficulties.

She should just save the man some headache and leave if she wants to. Marriage shouldn't be by force. Before she decides to poison the innocent man.

Samantha124:
What if he no longer gives it to her like he used to in the other room?

Kobojunkie:
You are tired of your husband yet you need a male friend? If you are fed up what happened to divorce?

Mille:


Those kind of women handle it separately and in a coded manner. Sexual frustrations don't come up that way.

" I don’t see a lasting solution because he is set in his ways, I don’t think he can change. His issues are generational curses that I don’t have the power to break. "

After the comment above, do you still believe it's matters of the inner rooms?