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Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by emmyblow: 4:58pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
She has been seeing another man loooo. Sorry |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by BigDawsNet: 4:59pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Schedule a meet with a sex teraphist... I guess she's tired with the daddy and mummy style everything on bed... Try be creative with ur sex life.. intimacy is important.. You may watch some adult movie to give u some inspiration... some ladies are to shy to discuss this with their husband... and it made dem feel less romantic to dere husband... |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by snthesis(m): 5:08pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
bukatyne:is messing with my emotions a positive thing ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Komu1048(m): 5:10pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
vincenteger: SIMPson, u seems not to even care about parts she wants tattoo, piece body and leg chain all of a sudden. Ur type ur friend go yansh ur wife and you go on Gen for them |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by kingsceemark(m): 5:10pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: She don dey enter Olosho level ooo 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 5:12pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: Blah blah blah... Say what u know and stop stereotyping because of what u heard from a small group of naysayers. It's like me saying y'all are cheap hoes by default from what I have heard. Learn not to generalize. Have a nice day ✌️ |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by bukatyne(f): 5:15pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Interesting. So you are hurt that your wife said you are unromantic. Instead to prove her wrong, ask her how or improve in your romance, you join a bashfest of your wife on NL. A number of the guys bashing her don't even have toastees talk more of girlfriends; some others are reading materials to make them more romantic. This is an ample opportunity to bring your wife closer yet you are throwing it away. There is a way you would engage your wife romantically that she would discard all the ideas of extra fashion she has in mind. You have built something for ten years, build a little more, push a little more & you would see great dividends at the end. Good luck. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by iammolise(m): 5:20pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
You're probably too stiff and conventional with her and You've become too predictable, women get tired of predictable Men... Try to be spontaneous with your ways with her now, I see so many useful advice up there, follow them... If you take the wrongs ones you'll distroy your marriage for just something that could be settled with a date out and a fantastic sex session. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by mariahAngel(f): 5:30pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Munzy14: I hukwa gi ehn...😂 |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Jamie1000: 5:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
She didn't explore... Even though street been dey her eyes. Have a honest conversation with her. There's room for improvement but If she wan enter street back... Get a divorce make young boys use her catch cruise. Experience is the best teacher. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Munzy14(m): 5:41pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
mariahAngel:😊😊 1 Like
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Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Ladymillion(f): 5:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
advanceDNA:MBA O! 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by izubext007: 5:56pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
time to rock and roll |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by JustcallmeFavou(f): 5:58pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Don't overly worry yourself! We as humans have different love languages. Perhaps that of your wife is Act of Service. Like the little things you did for her during courtship, and the early stages of the marriage. That you have stopped doing. Maybe because you are carried away by work pressure, and other responsibilities that has made you loose the romantic side in your marriage. Please, don't listen to the bitter comments here asking you to divorce her, or that she might be cheating, or has gone loose. Do you have proof that she is cheating? Can you prove that she has gone rogue simply because she wants to start wearing leg chain, waist beads, pierce her nose, etc? So for the time being, ask your wife how you can improve and be better? And if there are things she's also doing you don't like, tell her as well. For the waist beads, leg chains, piercing, etc. that she mentioned. If you are comfortable with them, allow her. And if not, you can tell her that you are only comfortable with one of these things she mentioned. So that peace can reign. If after following this advice she still complains. Then you have to search deeper, there would surely be more to it. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:01pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:If you are a christian involve your pastor.Also pray for her by yourself . |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by PDJT: 6:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
-This is one of the dangers of marrying one wife. -OP, do yourself a favour; be a man and go for your second wife. There are loads of young girls (18 - 25) looking for comfort, protection, love and marriage. You have done enough for that wife of yours. 10 years of providing and marrying a woman. Please other younger women need you. Our society also need you too, so many young women on the streets need a home. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:07pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Berrityga: You missed the actual point, wife didnt not say she nolonger loves husband, she simply said he is not romantic, being romantic for example buying her gifts, like as simple as roses, even teady bear, or openly showing affection for his wife There are many ways of being romantic and being romantic differ from person to person but the goal is showing love affection towards the other person by doing things they love |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by just2endowed: 6:07pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
rickleye: All this for a woman? What marriage vows? |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Berrityga: 6:11pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL:oga mi. When your with someone for long you get used to the things they do, and you crave a new adventure. The lady just wants a new adventure. You can't tell me the man doesn't buy suya, and other things when coming home, you can't tell me he doesn't give her money or buy her new things. Fear Nigerian women. They are never contented. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 6:14pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
I'm not just saying based on hearsay, I also see your brothers here in SA using money to buy women's love. When our brothers are busy trying to show us the importance of making our own money, your brothers come here and try to corrupt SA ladies by using money to buy their love, making some of them lazy. Personally I've never seen or heard of a Nigerian man who doesn't use money to get a woman's attention, so my apologies if you may feel offended. Killbillz: |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Olu1000: 6:14pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: Chase that woman away immediately and accept it that you do not have a wife anymore.A lot has gone on in her Ming & her life that you are not privy to. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:18pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Berrityga: my respond was towards the words divorce, there is no need to even mention the word divorce |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Olu1000: 6:19pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: It has nothing to do with him.The woman has moved on mentally.He has to accept it and move on mentally too.If he tries to please her , that will be his biggest mistake. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Slynation(m): 6:24pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Ashawo dey her eyes...!! That marriage is currently sitting on gunpowder... |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gamesmart: 6:37pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
JustcallmeFavou: You want him to tell her she is putting on weight? How do you think that will go down with her? If he told her that, and she comes to NL to ask for advice, will majority of you women also be saying she needs to ask him what weight he would like her to be? Or you women would be telling her "he is a bastard" for commenting on her weight when she has given him 3 kids? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GorgeousAF(f): 6:40pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
rickleye: The most sensible comment thus far...u nailed it. No be small" marry keep for house" ![]() For d tattoos and d rest ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by PDJT: 6:44pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
bukatyne: -You think we are all kids here. ![]() -Mr. OP this is your chance to restore order in your home and life. Go and marry another younger wife (18 - 25 years) for your sanity and old age. DM me if you need any assistance. A woman of over 33 is already becoming a Mother Hen. Let her enter street, men of the street can't wait to welcome her. ![]() -Look after yourself man, and be very selfish about it. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by alobright17(m): 6:49pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:is time to paying closer attention to her phone without her knowing. I believe one dude is now deceiving her with sweet words . Again hit the gym, and start looking sexy if you’re not . |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Kobojunkie: 6:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:1. Seems your wife is not ready to let go of her youth. You have work to do. You don't need to look like the small boys out there but you need to begin working on yourself to show her you can still be impressive to her. Start working on yourself and your looks so you can continue to charm her. Lose the weight, get some muscles going, and a flat tummy, and clean up your look even when you are home with her. Also, get training to become more romantic as a man and a lover. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Kobojunkie: 6:51pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
alobright17:Exactly! ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Olukayodeaustyn: 6:51pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Sorry Bro, your wife is a gonner |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by alobright17(m): 6:52pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
vincenteger:lie lie women mean every word they tell you they don’t just say things without meaning it jus that they can easily backdown to avoid issues especially when they don’t want to lose you. 1 Like 1 Share |
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