Blupen969:
No make me vex report you ooh, no deh waste your emojis i no deh see am with this phone

Lol use your third eyes, I sure say u go see am well.
Go report me na

snthesis:

well noted, my point is how can she suddenly just say this and every other thing she's planning to do...

What do you mean by how can she suddenly just say this?

Maybe she didn’t want to hurt you before, or maybe she didn’t have the guts to say it before or maybe you was indeed romantic before but now you are not.

It’s been 10 years. After so many years many people in marriage stopped courting their partners, planning dates nights and stopped being romantic.
Life gets busy the kids comes and everything just becomes a routine everyone goes through it but this is when you put in extra effort. Start planning dates nights atleast twice a month. Have turns she can have one you can have one. When it is her turn she carry it out, when it is your turn plan it. This will bring you guys together even more.


Also I asked you what her love language was and you didn’t answer, this alone is a problem.

This is very important because if her love language is receiving gifts for example and you are spending quality time with her, and giving her words of affirmation but not getting her random thoughtful gifts or forgetting anniversaries and birthdays and not bringing in flowers once a while just because she will swear you are unromantic because you are not meeting her love language and because you don’t know it you think you are doing your best, but your best wouldn’t be enough. She needs to knows yours too.

I suggest you both read the the five love languages secrets to love that last by Gary Chapman if you haven’t already it is life changing.

snthesis:


hmmm, i'm thinking of going through her phone, something is not right

Do this remotely... I promise u will be shocked at what u will find. At 30 she wants to be piercing everywhere and having tats. Even with beads and chains on all curves. It's well bro. Be strong

Maybe you used money to woo her, isn't that how you Nigerian guys woo ladies? By using money?

She might've fallen for it hoping that you're this romantic guy, only to find out that you're not.
B

snthesis:
if i wasnt then how did i get to woo her, get her consent for marriage and stay married till now

Beebah321:
Lol use your third eyes, I sure say u go see am well.
Go report me na

My third eyes no be for emojis, na seun i go call for you now, so make you take time

Samantha124:
Maybe you used money to woo her, isn't that how you Nigerian guys woo ladies? By using money?

She might've fallen for it hoping that you're this romantic guy, only to find out that you're not.
B

Naah.. maybe SA guys do that but not the average original naija breed. We got skills

Blupen969:
My third eyes no be for emojis, na seun i go call for you now, so make you take time

if u like call Segun. Ground no go shake

Beebah321:
if u like call Segun. Ground no go shake

Lols fear fear girl

Blupen969:
Lols fear fear girl

Brave brave boy

snthesis:
got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

snthesis:
got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

is she lightskin like Wumi2017 sir?

Beebah321:
Brave brave boy

Go fast joor

SA guys want a woman who can provide for herself, they'll tell you straight to your face to go and look for a piece job..

They do 50/50 partnership.

But Nigerian guys are known everywhere to use money to buy a woman's love, you guys even say it that your women agree to marry you for money and not for love.

Killbillz:

Naah.. maybe SA guys do that but not the average original naija breed. We got skills

Blupen969:
Go fast joor

no worry, Christian fasting go come. U go dey like standing fan after them finish the fasting.

Beebah321:
no worry, Christian fasting go come. U go dey like standing fan after them finish the fasting.

Na pegan i be ooh

Your wife wan enter street be that.. marrying early is good, but also has its own disadvantages, and this her new doings is open of them. For the waist bead, I'd say u need not worry cos it's sexy (well, me I like am). But for the piercings, tattoos, and let chain, bros no gree ooooo...

snthesis:
got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Blupen969:
Na pegan i be ooh

even if na penguin you be, u must fast. Hehehe

1. She feels she married you too early
2. She is comparing you to other husbands in her vicinity or on social media
3. She feels she missed out on exploring alot when she was younger and she wants to start now

Check the type of friends she's keeping.

Beebah321:
even if na penguin you be, u must fast. Hehehe

I no go school abeg wetin be penguin

Blupen969:
I no go school abeg wetin be penguin

Go check Google joor

Beebah321:
Go check Google joor

I no go check come force me nah

..
Early 30s....3 children and 10yrs of marriage .....abeg how old she dey wen u marry her


She wants to start enjoying the things early marriage deprived her off.....na u find trouble

Are you a SIMP? You can't control your wife?

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

You married too young and she missed her hoeing phase because you rushed her into marriage and now she thinks she can recover the period she lost.
Be gentle with her and start learning how to be romantic, make her feel young, date her all over again

Hmm. .

She now wants to start tasting many fishes she missed while at young age. .

Most likely you married her a virgin and or at an early age.

Bro, there are some men out there confusing and deceiving ya wife.

Pray to God to salvage ur transforming wife and marriage.

Some women are looking for who go be slave. That's what they call romantic.

Never take it to heart, women are loyal to their feelings

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

u r thinking of feeding them so romance will die.I also lost my own romantic side.Just let ur wife know say no be romance own e Dey u now.d

Mother of three, leg chains? Piercings? ....she's looking for divorce, he should send her packing

virginprincess:
Instead of you to look for a way to pls her by being romantic you are here complaining to bitter nairaland men that will gladly help you scatter your marriage with their negative comments.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

There's nothing to be worried about.
Just up your game.
You should be glad she told you.

snthesis:

her message and yours feels like a threat to me, i dont do threats

Be fooling yourself

please don't tell him , haba! , you can't keep simple secret... you want to ruin his home ?

advanceDNA:
Should we tell him?