snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Bros you have eyes but you are not using them to see. The reasons why you are not romantic are all looking at you

How? ......... she now wants to get a tattoo, waist beads, leg chains, fine jewelry, etc. Go ahead and tell her she must get dem ooo.

N/B. make the waist beads half a dozen of nice colours. They turn me on real baaaad. Gerrit

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

No need to worry yet
Step up your love game
Spice up your romantic life
Try new things
Eg. If you nor de give her head before, try to de do am.
Allow her wear her beads. Its nothing spiritual, it will only make her more sexy and desirable to you

If you are used to only missionary, try new positions

Sit her down and ask her to suggest ways you could be more romantic

Marriage is all about communication and compromise

Good.luck

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

she’s obviously getting attention from men who love those things she wants to start doing

]Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain [/quote]


The Sad truth is that marriage in the 21st century is all about pleasing and worshipping the woman. The man has sadly found himself in a tight corner wher need to work hard to satisfy the woman sexually, emotionally, socially, economically and several other areas

Lovilla:
That is too bad of her

Just give her time, she will change

she will change? who is supposed to change ?
Hubby is the one who is supposed to change to be romantic

You sef have to be improving yourself and those around you. I know stress of life can change your desires, but na why you be person.


So, hear her out, some variables of romance are listening, touching, cuddling, sexual exploration, managing your time between work and family, time with the family, time with just yourselves - walking eatery, traveling if you can; stressing less even in the midst of all the financial katakata, etc.


Remember, just because you have worked somewhere for 100 years, don't mean that you can't improve yourself and still add value to the work. In sports, we don't hold on to old glory. In America, they say what have you done lately. So, adjust to your new gear. Dem no dey drive car with one gear only.

Ur lies no dey sweet to read.. E no follow at all.. Come again another day omo guy

Alaye
Another guy don de Bleep ur wife

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Your wife has started following badt gang...smh

First advice for you...

Protect your mental health and be ready for a shocker.

2.

Protect your heart to avoid HBP

3.

Protect your children.

Waist bead and tattoo I can take but...

Tht leg chain still dey wonder me. Wetin e dey help dem accomplish for the leg.

Some will have walking stick leg and still put leg chain.

Samantha124:
SA guys want a woman who can provide for herself, they'll tell you straight to your face to go and look for a piece job..

They do 50/50 partnership.

But Nigerian guys are known everywhere to use money to buy a woman's love , you guys even say it that your women agree to marry you for money and not for love.

Every where u a say? We love to spoil and provide for her when she's already ours and it's very different from buying her love with money. And yes we aren't as stingy as ur average SA guy. There's a very big difference between buying a woman's affection and taking care of her needs when u know she loves u way before the money. It doesn't mean there aren't guys who buy a woman's affection. Most them in that category only want the women for pleasure and the good times they might be providing at the time. It's just chop and clean mouth they have their real women elsewhere. Na mumu dey use money catch woman and mumu can be found anywhere.

She's telling you that street is calling,so up your game . After the results, you will hear you aren't giving her attention. You can check her friend cliques , you might call and inform her nothing dey for street . Na games full am ooo

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Madam don dey practice many things behind your back already, don't be surprised if she wakes up and suggest to you about your idea of adult house party one day.

Remember when you buy a woman's love with money, immediately your financials start to struggle or go down south, so as your lovelife.

Or maybe when he married her she was still naive and didn't know what she really wanted in a relationship or marriage and she just discovered herself when she turned 30.

joeeee240:


You're talking nonsense
In 10 years she "fell for it" lmao

Op just focus on your children more from now on, and also try to know the kind of people she hangs out with cos it may be possible that she's hanging out with the wrong set of people.

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

Women get bored in marriage easily, Marriage don't and can't work in Africa anymore especially Nigeria

She is already cheating on you.
Take heart

Bros please don’t stop her. Buy her the waist beads please fine once’s. Make she get tattoos too for lowkey place way cloths go de cover na for only you. The leg chains i no really like that one but if you want still buy it for her. Let her flex her beauty for you. Make the love enter Pro max abeg. Let her showcase her beauty.

If you know you know 😆

MR OP, lemme give you my own sincere advice,if I were you,I would just marry another wife that will give birth to better children for me because I'm damn sure that the children that came out from a womb of a woman that behave like your wife might likely end up irresponsible, please save your old self

Check well, She has another Guy.

NA SO ONE OF MY GEL BEEN TELL ME SAY I AM NOT ROMANTIC.
THAT WE SHOULD BREAKUP. NOW AM WATCHING ROMANTIC MOVIES

snthesis:
Got a shocker recently, my wife suddenly says i am not romantic after 10years of marriage and having 3 children... should i be worried
we got married young and she now in her early 30s

p.s
she now wants to get a tattoo, piercing. waistbeads and wear leg chain

The bolded is the problem. This stage shall pass

You too tell her she s not romantic. No be only she dey inside marriage.

Your wife is already dating someone she met on Facebook. Ask her who is Chidi?

My brother you should be worried... Like very worried

ItisWell22:


Guyyyyy… 😂

Even me wey be woman begin laugh as I read the heading… 🤣😂

After 10 years!!

How?? 😫

From a lady point of view what do you think Sha has experience or come in contact with that prompt that statement?

She want to explore what she thought she missed by marrying early.

Gonna be a lil tough.

10 years after, she's gonna get tired.

The leg chain tho'

Oga stop coming to nairaland.it is certain something is fishy options are either you become germantic or russiantic simple if you know you know

advanceDNA:
Should we tell him?

Wait ooo


Abeg let just mind our business on this mata

rickleye:


Haha, it’s called midlife crisis.

Just tell her she is right and start the dating process again.
Many of us think our wives are like our mothers . Marry and keep for home. The game is changing bro. I am sure she has a friend on WhatsApp with whom she has discussed this with already.

1. Plan a date nite every week . Go catch a flick and have someone watch the kids.
2. Do something together with the family once a month. Go to Olumo Rock and Beach . A family outing .
3. Don’t forget her birthday make it exciting ( get her flowers or money - depending on her love language)
4. Make an effort to show PDA infront of the kids. Steal a kiss 💋, slap her buttocks , call her sexy mamacita or siren.
5. Make sex impromptu. After coitus , ask would like a glass of water or wine to relax ( she will laugh and say , thank you yes or no )
6. If you are just Spooning dude , change into missionary or doggy . ( now sex and love are not the same) . Massage and ask her where she may want to be touched to excite her …

Make the effort !!! You might not be comfortable doing any of the above but as you mentioned it appears she never “ lived “ done anything she wanted to do . Her first born is 10.
And it’s been mummy this , mummy that !

I would give her the leg chain *

Don’t ignore her warnings or else someone else will fill the void.

[color=#770077][/color]God bless you for this some men after marrying a woman they forget those things