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Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 6:53pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
PDJT: Marrying a new wife wont address his issue, the same 18-25 yr old will mature and find him unromantic Women from 33 and above tend to be more self aware and confident of who they have became hence this guy's wife have come out open to tell hubby of his shortcomings 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Goldmaxx(f): 7:02pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
virginprincess:Sometimes comments here are the truth |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by 00FFT00(m): 7:02pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: If she's not doing so already, which I highly doubt, she's receiving a generous dose of outside gbola, plus an overdose of sweet praises and presents. My brother, brace your heart for what is to come. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by sparko1(m): 7:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
virginprincess: The marriage has scattered madam, she wants leg chain, and other crap like she just got to lagos, she wants to flex now. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Advancedman(m): 7:11pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: She is done serving you, now want to do graduation and open a sophisticated Olosho Arena. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by harmony75: 7:12pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Wawu after 3 kids she now want to be stupid you better talk to her and invite her family to talk sense into her. When as an adult you should be getting more maturity!? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Kobojunkie: 7:14pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:She didn't wake up one morning with a head filled with what she said. I bet you it has been on her mind probably for months, even years, but felt it is now or never. ![]() 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by rickleye: 7:26pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
just2endowed: She's the mother of his kids. They built a life together. If done frequently, it should not be seen as chore . Is this easier than dealing with the alternative ? |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:26pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
harmony75: Really, do you really need to invite her family for a simple thing like this ? 1 why always call family when you can directly talk to hubby or wife? lets be wise to be able to sort problems before anyone 2 the maturity is that she has talk directly of areas hubby next to improve 3 lets not be biased by gender hubby can say the same eg wife wearing those fully covering dress that hides the curves of a woman, wife can nolonget look sexy in those clothes hubby can say the same to wife to dress better |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by PDJT: 7:27pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: -I don't care what women over 33 years do with their lives. I care about my fellow man's dignity and respect. He must protect himself going forward. His supposed wife has being made too comfortable as all her needs have been meant by OP and now she is unto her "I want this, I want that state. So OP should let her enter street as soon as possible. She must collect from the street. -There are loads of younger women (18 - 25 years) out there whose needs OP can meet at this difficult time. And OP will be better off for it. When a woman is done, she is done. You must let her fly the nest to go explore the other side of the divide and taste the street waters. -So, I say Mr. OP; please take this opportunity with both hands and run with it. Go and marry another woman for your mental and physical health. Because if you fall for the gimmick of that your so-called wife, then you are gone forever. Bring back order to your life and don't let feminine chaos rule over you. Like I said earlier, if you need further assistance my DM is always open. |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 7:33pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
But what made her to move on mentally in the first place? Let's start from there. Olu1000: |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:34pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
PDJT: remember we are just sharing our point of views as individual, to you that how you solve that issue, to me i got a different approach like i said getting a new wife, wont solve hiis issue if he is really unromantic He needs a self reflection eg by asking wife the specific thats the wife view as not being romantic and he reflects on it and see if he willing to change in simple terms both can chat on things that each other think are lacking each other's sife |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by JustcallmeFavou(f): 7:35pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Gamesmart: And who told you is all women who has given birth that have unhealthy weight gain? She might also be doing anything else asides adding unnecessary weight. Moreover, don't most Nigerian men like women who are fleshy, rather than skin and bones? |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by friendl: 7:36pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
You get time ?you better focus on other important things ,....leave woman with their funny ways of reasoning |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 7:44pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
rickleye: Rokiat: Good advice and long stories at the same time. But the truth is that, if she is determined to explore and see what is outside her marriage, no romantic gestures from her husband can stop her. Telling her husband that he's not romantic is just an excuse to do what is on her mind. We can't ignore the fact that she married very early and we all know the possible outcome of this for women. At the same time, we can't ignore the effects of social media and the kinds of people and things she might be exposing to online. She wants piercings (could it be nose, ears or somewhere more private?), tattoos, leg chains, waist beads! Is all these new cravings is as a result of the husband not being romantic too? 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by polite2(m): 7:45pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:Congratulations |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 7:45pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis: To make it easier can you tell us what you have done to your wife which is romantic in your own world of being romantic Lets take away dates that are on the calendar becoz you can be easily forced to remember them and do something i want something you did with your own will, love, affection, and appretition of your wife |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by PDJT: 7:48pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: -You think you can satisfy a woman like that? Good luck. Abeg, there is someone for everyone. Assuming OP is not romantic, there are many women out there who are not looking for a romantic man. OP should go for them and save himself from future mental and physical health challenges. After 10 years of marriage, the supposed-wife suddenly realised her hubby is not romantic. Smh. -Please, Mr. OP this is your golden opportunity to avoid untimely death. No man deserve a whinging woman at home. Your home should be a place of refuge and peace for yourself. Please, let that woman go as soon as possible. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 7:49pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: Telling her husband that he's not romantic after 10 years of marriage! As if that's not enough, now she wants to pierce, get ankle chains, get tattoos and so on. How does these things related to her husband not being romantic? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Gamesmart: 7:50pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
JustcallmeFavou: Is there anywhere I said all women who has given birth that have unhealthy weight gain? The reality is that most Nigerian women do. Romantic gestures are mostly subconscious, spontaneous and spurred from a man being in lust. So, if he has stopped doing it and it is because she is not looking good enough to lust after her anymore, should he be telling her that? And would you be telling her that she needs to ask him what weight loss level he wants? Or you would be hissing under your breath and saying he is a bastard that does not appreciate his wife. Secondly, don't present me with false binary. Please qualify "flesh". Nigerian men like women with flesh, does not mean Nigerian men like women with fat or flab. Nigerian men like women with reasonable flesh that are highly shapely. That is why many Nigerian girls are doing surgery to attain these. Nigerian men don't want obese and wobbly. Nigerian men tend to get slimmer girls as side chics when theirs wives have "flesh" that is obese, shapeless and wobbly. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 7:54pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: The way this issue is going, it is not simple anymore. The relationship might be heading towards the rock going by what want the wife is saying and wants 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Goldmaxx(f): 7:59pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
snthesis:Please do it asap 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by kelspinall(m): 8:03pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
check her friends, someone is misleading her.. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:04pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
GetMeRight: why worry about things that havent happened, than focus on things thats have been said Time doesnt matter 10 years or not, definately she has been either putting up with it or may be busy making hubby happy than also focusing on her own needs Have every heard of women pretending, eg faking orgasm ? its becoz they put up with it Do you realise that the first 5 years of marriage, is run by what one really wished (dream marriage) for before they got married than actually understanding your wife/hubby You would be wanting your wife/hubby to be the perfect hubby/wife you have in your heard as time goes by to start to learn who your wife/hubby is really is Thats the reason sometime husbands fight with wives, or vice versa each partner is saying my wife should be like this/my hubby should be like this, we tend to like to change them for the person we have in our minds than accepting who they really are |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 8:04pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: The last time I checked, that's the only language many Nigerian ladies understand. We have seen how you guys responded to men who try to date you but lack money. Go and ask random dudes out there who don't have money how their relationship life with their girlfriends is? It is rejection after rejection. You too would have seen it on Facebook week in, week out how your gender see relationship with men. 1 Like |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 8:10pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: Three kids in this Nigerian economy with two adults to feed and cater for, but the issue is the husband not being romantic? Lol. Must we kill ourselves to make someone happy? Someone who is just looking for a flimsy excuse to do what she's determined to do! BTW: why ignoring? Something is fueling that cravings, right? But we must pretend like it is not there? Okay. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:12pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
GetMeRight: The wife wants him to be romantic period and nothing more, of cause i understand that our brothers ego might have been bruised, but this is were he needs his own reflection on how he has been really romantic both in his own defination and wife's If i was him i would ask wife how she wants him to be romantic very simple in my own world |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Kobojunkie: 8:14pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
GetMeRight:1. Whether you have kids or not, you still need to work on your marriage which is an agreement between the husband and the wife. Having kids does not give you a free pass as far as working on your marriage relationship. This we all know to be the truth whether it is the man complaining or the woman complaining. ![]() |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by Nobody: 8:19pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Ah ah!!! Don't say you guys because where I'm from our men encourage us to make our own legit money. You guys are the ones who corrupted your women by making them believe that there's no love without money, and you still try to do the same thing when you travel to other countries. You Nigerian men are your own problem, but your ego won't let you see it. I've seen a good number of unemployed men or men with low paying jobs building families with women who have good paying jobs. GetMeRight: 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by ZIMDRILL(m): 8:19pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
GetMeRight: why are rushing to say "must we kill ourseves to make someone happy" in this case, one should reflect on what they have done or tried in their own capacity and if questioned they point at what they have done Hubby didnt disclose what he has dobe romatically for past 10 years so we can not full say hubby is wrong what if done what he thinks is being romantic while wife doesnt see it that way Eg hubby buys flowers, while wife wants spend a night in a hotel with a good meal |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 8:24pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Ayopercent: Geovanni412: But I dey fear you guys on Nairaland o. Most comments would make you laugh because it look like jokes or comedies but there is always elements of truth in it. 2 Likes |
Re: My Wife Says I Am Not Romantic After 10years Of Marriage by GetMeRight: 8:32pm On Mar 30, 2023 |
Samantha124: Okay, you're not in Nigeria. But wherever you are, it is not your men encouraging you to make your own money, it is the culture and mentality. You don't have options than to work for your own money. Here in Nigeria, the culture and mentality of our ladies is totally different. I've seen a good number of unemployed men or men with low paying jobs building families with women who have good paying jobs . I'm not sure you are referring to Nigeria situation. But if you are, there are few exceptions to every rule. An average Nigerian guy without loaded pockets is prone to a series of rejection. We have all been there. 1 Like |
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