Stats: 3,190,278 members, 7,940,091 topics. Date: Wednesday, 04 September 2024 at 04:48 PM |
Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Family / Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It (1443 Views)
How Much Freedom Is Ideal For Children? Let's Find Out / How Did You Achieve Financial Freedom This Year?? / Please Help, Want My Freedom (2) (3) (4)
Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 9:53pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October. The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like that before, so it's not new to me. But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her. It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water. I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me. She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, I know she's been talking about me for some time now, but this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again. Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one expires. She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well, I also noticed that her little girl whom she beats every now and then is enjoying some fresh air now She sent one of my neighbors to me yesterday begging me to forgive her 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 9:55pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Women will study you like a book and start to misbehave once they know your strength and weaknesses 11 Likes |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:00pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
its HUMAN NATURE...if you give men too much freedom, they will abuse it too. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Ynix(m): 10:04pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Fineman2:It's not a woman issue, but that you are married to a narcissist. Check youtube on how to handle narcissists 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by frozen70(f): 10:12pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Ynix: Fineman2: It takes madness to correct some people's nonsense That's the system I use when one is trying to take me for a fool In her own case, you have open the field for other tenants to reset her stupidity anytime she messes up 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 10:16pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
frozen70:seriously, she's so calm these days. This is someone that will not allow anybody to have rest of mind in the house anytime she's around, both night and daytime |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 10:16pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:you are right |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by frozen70(f): 10:18pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Fineman2: She is back to factory reset but it's for a while So be on guard to reset her anytime she starts 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 10:19pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
frozen70:thanks, I will Even though she has apologised through someone, but I know her too well |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by frozen70(f): 10:24pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Fineman2: Her apology is temporal she will start again A trouble maker has no remorse 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 10:26pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
frozen70:you are right, and I will show her shege as well. |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by frozen70(f): 10:36pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Fineman2:Lol 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Nobody: 10:43pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Just give them a notice to end their tenancy. Your peace of mind is important. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 10:49pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Exodus15v11:thanks 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Westerhoffe(m): 11:03pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Decide what you want. |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 11:08pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
Westerhoffe:I will, thanks |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by sisisioge: 11:12pm On Mar 31, 2023 |
![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I cant imagine living in that compound. I for don sublet move to another house tietie ![]() 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Kobojunkie: 1:54am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2:Are you here to report the woman to us ni? Or are you here telling us that all women you have ever met are exactly like this tenant of yours? Are we somehow to applaud you for the silly generalization that is the topic of this thread or what? ![]() 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by GodHimself(m): 3:12am On Apr 01, 2023 |
It’s called containment. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJxbiHBpSc4 Fineman2: 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:22am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Lol, this is not a generalisation but from my experience so far, I can tell you that so many of women are like this |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:23am On Apr 01, 2023 |
GodHimself:thanks |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:25am On Apr 01, 2023 |
sisisioge:hmm, it's really been hell, I don't know why some people are so toxic, insensitive and inconsiderate |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Kobojunkie: 5:25am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2:From my experience as well, I can equally tell you that so many men are like that too. You give them a yard and they pull the entire line from under you if you are not careful. Yet, I know enough to not generalize since I have also met men who are not at all that way and have some as friends. I am afraid what you have here is nothing short of a faulty generalization. ![]() 2 Likes |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:42am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:why are you so concerned about generalisation instead of addressing the issue itself? Are you also like my neighbor? |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by mrblessed(m): 5:43am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Just look at the western world and how women have used the freedom given to them. We know for a fact that total freedom destroys women. Please, when next you want to talk to her, it's better you talk to her husband. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Kobojunkie: 5:50am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2:1. Your thread assumes that all women are like your neighbor is why I feel you probably need to be less offensive to women. ![]() You mention that there is an issue, and I am afraid I do not see any at all. You made it clear in your OP that you seemed quite fine tolerating her apparent noise-making and rudeness until only recently. You didn't ask for advice as I would have stated you report her to the police the next time she and her husband disturbs the peace, and you seem only willing to boot her after keeping mum about it all for a while. ![]() |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:50am On Apr 01, 2023 |
mrblessed:thanks |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 5:54am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:At the bolded, I think you are a woman, and you are the only female here who don't see an issue, it says a lot about you. |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Kobojunkie: 5:58am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2:1. There are at least 16 identified personality types out there. You described a woman whose personality happens to be one of the 16, then you proceeded to describe your own personality as a type that is quiet and reserved and has high levels of tolerance for bullsheet. Where exactly is the problem here? ![]() |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Fineman2: 6:11am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:that's why you are gaslighting me, you are trying to discredit and invalidate my story because you are exactly the same 1 Like |
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Kobojunkie: 6:15am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2:ROFLMAO ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
|
Re: Why Is That If You Give Women Too Much Freedom, They Abuse It by Mindlog: 7:59am On Apr 01, 2023 |
Fineman2: Because generalization is a dangerous mindset. As rightly posted earlier, it is a Human thing not a Woman thing as personality disorders are not gender specific. |
Ex Gf Or Real Wife Abroad?advice Needed / Nigeria 'lesbian Wedding' Denied / Do You Approve Of Cohabitation?
(Go Up)
Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10) Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 58 |