I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.

The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed

I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like that before, so it's not new to me.

But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.

It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.

I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.

She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, I know she's been talking about me for some time now, but this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.

Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one expires.

She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well, I also noticed that her little girl whom she beats every now and then is enjoying some fresh air now

She sent one of my neighbors to me yesterday begging me to forgive her

Women will study you like a book and start to misbehave once they know your strength and weaknesses

its HUMAN NATURE...if you give men too much freedom, they will abuse it too.

Fineman2:
I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.

The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed

I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like her before, so it's not new to me.

But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.

It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.

I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.

She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.

Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one is due.

She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well.

It's not a woman issue, but that you are married to a narcissist.
Check youtube on how to handle narcissists

Ynix:

It's not a woman issue, but that you are married to a narcissist.
Check youtube on how to handle narcissists

Fineman2:
I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.

The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed

I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like her before, so it's not new to me.

But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.

It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.

I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.

She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.

Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one is due.

She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well.

It takes madness to correct some people's nonsense

That's the system I use when one is trying to take me for a fool

In her own case, you have open the field for other tenants to reset her stupidity anytime she messes up

frozen70:


It takes madness to correct some people's nonsense

That's the system I use when one is trying to take me for a fool

In her own case, you have open the field for other tenants to reset her stupidity anytime she messes up

seriously, she's so calm these days.

This is someone that will not allow anybody to have rest of mind in the house anytime she's around, both night and daytime

MrBrownJay1:
its HUMAN NATURE...if you give men too much freedom, they will abuse it too.

you are right

Fineman2:
seriously, she's so calm these days.

This is someone that will not allow anybody to have rest of mind in the house anytime she's around, both night and daytime

She is back to factory reset but it's for a while

So be on guard to reset her anytime she starts

frozen70:


She is back to factory reset but it's for a while

So be on guard to reset her anytime she starts

thanks, I will

Even though she has apologised through someone, but I know her too well

Fineman2:
thanks, I will

Even though she has apologised through someone, but I know her too well

Her apology is temporal she will start again

A trouble maker has no remorse

frozen70:


Her apology is temporary, she will start again

A trouble maker has no remorse

you are right, and I will show her shege as well.

Fineman2:
you are right, and I will show her shege as well.

Lol

Just give them a notice to end their tenancy. Your peace of mind is important.

Exodus15v11:
Just give them a notice to end their tenancy. Your peace of mind is important.

thanks

Decide what you want.

Westerhoffe:
Decide what you want.

I will, thanks

I cant imagine living in that compound. I for don sublet move to another house tietie

Fineman2:
seriously, she's so calm these days. This is someone that will not allow anybody to have rest of mind in the house anytime she's around, both night and daytime

Are you here to report the woman to us ni?
Or are you here telling us that all women you have ever met are exactly like this tenant of yours?
Are we somehow to applaud you for the silly generalization that is the topic of this thread or what?

It’s called containment.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJxbiHBpSc4

Fineman2:
I am the house caretaker where I live because our landlord doesn't live with us, being the oldest tenant, I have a married couple that moved in last year October.

The wife is a very troublesome person, she insults everybody in the house and engage in physical fight as well, I warned them not to cause trouble before collecting money from them and they agreed

I ignored her for almost six months because I've lived with people like that before, so it's not new to me.

But this woman is a very repulsive and bloody minded person, she doesn't want to change at all, she insults and controls her husband as well, I refused to report her to my landlord because they came to the house through me, so I should be able to handle her.

It wasn't up to two weeks that they came into our house and she broke the well where we fetch water.

I am a very quiet person, both at home and at work, I hardly talk, you won't hear my voice from morning till night, so she thought she knew everything about me.

She was talking about me last Sunday, saying every time I will tell them not to lock the well, I know she's been talking about me for some time now, but this got me angry and I went haywire, I lambasted her so much with serious warning never to try it again.

Since that day, I stop talking to her and I will not collect another money from them when this one expires.

She's afraid of me now, all the madness she's been showing in the house has stopped as well.

She sent one of my neighbors to me yesterday begging me to forgive her

Kobojunkie:
Are you here to report the woman to us ni?
Or are you here telling us that all women you have ever met are exactly like this tenant of yours?
Are we somehow to applaud you for the silly generalization that is the topic of this thread or what?

Lol, this is not a generalisation but from my experience so far, I can tell you that so many of women are like this

GodHimself:
It’s called containment.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MJxbiHBpSc4

thanks

sisisioge:


I cant imagine living in that compound. I for don sublet move to another house tietie

hmm, it's really been hell, I don't know why some people are so toxic, insensitive and inconsiderate

Fineman2:
Lol, this is not a generalization but from my experience so far, I can tell you that so many of women are like this

From my experience as well, I can equally tell you that so many men are like that too. You give them a yard and they pull the entire line from under you if you are not careful. Yet, I know enough to not generalize since I have also met men who are not at all that way and have some as friends. I am afraid what you have here is nothing short of a faulty generalization.

Kobojunkie:
From my experience as well, I can equally tell you that so many men are like that too. You give them a yard and they pull the entire line from under you if you are not careful. Yet, I know enough to not generalize since I have also met men who are not at all that way and have some as friends. I am afraid what you have here is nothing short of a faulty generalization.

why are you so concerned about generalisation instead of addressing the issue itself?

Are you also like my neighbor?

Just look at the western world and how women have used the freedom given to them. We know for a fact that total freedom destroys women.
Please, when next you want to talk to her, it's better you talk to her husband.

Fineman2:
■ why are you so concerned about generalisation instead of addressing the issue itself?
Are you also like my neighbor?

1. Your thread assumes that all women are like your neighbor is why I feel you probably need to be less offensive to women.

You mention that there is an issue, and I am afraid I do not see any at all. You made it clear in your OP that you seemed quite fine tolerating her apparent noise-making and rudeness until only recently. You didn't ask for advice as I would have stated you report her to the police the next time she and her husband disturbs the peace, and you seem only willing to boot her after keeping mum about it all for a while.

mrblessed:
Just look at the western world and how women have used the freedom given to them. We know for a facrt that total freedom destroys women.
Please, when next you want to talk to her, it's better you talk to her husband.

thanks

Kobojunkie:
1. Your thread assumes that all women are like your neighbor is why I feel you probably need to be less offensive to women.

You mention that there is an issue, and I am afraid I do not see any at all. You made it clear in your OP that you seemed quite fine tolerating her apparent noise-making and rudeness until only recently. You didn't ask for advice as I would have stated you report her to the police the next time she and her husband disturbs the peace, and you seem only willing to boot her after keeping mum about it all for a while.

At the bolded, I think you are a woman, and you are the only female here who don't see an issue, it says a lot about you.

Fineman2:
■ At the bolded, I think you are a woman, and you are the only female here who don't see an issue, it says a lot about you.

1. There are at least 16 identified personality types out there. You described a woman whose personality happens to be one of the 16, then you proceeded to describe your own personality as a type that is quiet and reserved and has high levels of tolerance for bullsheet. Where exactly is the problem here?

Kobojunkie:
1. There are at least 16 identified personality types out there. You described a woman whose personality happens to be one of the 16, then you proceeded to describe your own personality as a type that is quiet and reserved and has high levels of tolerance for bullsheet. Where exactly is the problem here?

that's why you are gaslighting me, you are trying to discredit and invalidate my story because you are exactly the same

Fineman2:
that's why you are gaslighting me, you are trying to discredit and invalidate my story because you are exactly the same

ROFLMAO

Fineman2:
why are you so concerned about generalisation instead of addressing the issue itself?

Are you also like my neighbor?

Because generalization is a dangerous mindset.

As rightly posted earlier, it is a Human thing not a Woman thing as personality disorders are not gender specific.