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Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 9:33am On Apr 03, 2023
I have seen on several occasions people mistaking Narcissism for being an Alpha male, hence I will like to write a little on Alpha male, Narcissism and simp.
Pls you can add your own opinion for more insight.


ALPHA MALE
An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you. He's in absolute charge of his emotions and actions. He loves with his brain not heart, he is logical, calculative and domineering. An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. He has self-validation and therefore needs no one to validate him, he doesn't feel inferior. He is strong, intelligent and in control. Can't be swindled with any form of emotional blackmail.
Don't mistake a Narcissist for an Alpha male, they are not the same.

NARCISSIST
A Narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of himself or herself.
Narcissism is a mental health disorder. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. Excessive love for ones self hence, treats others as secondary and immaterial. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them at all cost. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. They only care about themselves.
The following are the behaviors of Narcissists
*Sense of self-importance
*Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success
*Entitlement mentality
*Can only be around people who are important or special
*Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain
*Arrogant
*Lack empathy
*Must be admired
*Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

SIMP
While a simp is a guy who treats ladies nicely situations not withstanding... Yes a Simp is one who treats ladies nicely and they don't reciprocate his nice gestures yet he is never bothered. He is gullible, and in dire crave for attention, hence, he can do anything to have it. The word Simp simply means fool, simpleton.
A man who foolishly overvalues and defers to a woman, putting her on a pedestal.
He loves deeply with his heart while his brain is on transit. A simp can be emotionally black-mailed and taken advantage of by the other party.

It is essential that we know how to differentiate between the three so we can understand who really we are friends or in a relationship with. So Narcissists should stop claiming Alpha male please.

So guys which category do you fall?

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Hezzyluv: 9:39am On Apr 03, 2023
Of the three you mentioned, I hate the last one, A SIMP.

Some of them can even beat their parents because of woman.

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Newdawn30: 9:41am On Apr 03, 2023
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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 9:46am On Apr 03, 2023
Hezzyluv:
Of the three you mentioned, I hate the last one, A SIMP.

Some of them can even beat their parents because of woman.

Ahahhahaha. Yes even ladies hate them. Hence they take advantage of them.

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Flora2Sweet: 10:03am On Apr 03, 2023
Women see Alpha males as Being proud/Rude....
But I love it..... cus they still end up wanting them last last.. as husbands..

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Fahvvy: 10:18am On Apr 03, 2023
"An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you"

The bolded is EXACTLY why females mistake Alpha for Narcissist undecided...

You don't have any value as a woman and you're expecting men to value you, is that not witchcraft? undecided...

You treat men like trash and you're expecting an Alpha to worship the ground you work on, isn't that a proof that you're possessed with serpentine spirit? undecided...

Any lady who hates men who treat men the way she is being treated is VALUE-LESS undecided...

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by SkengRay: 10:34am On Apr 03, 2023
My own advice for you guys is don't be a Alpha male online while you a Beta, or simp offline.

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 10:43am On Apr 03, 2023
SkengRay:
My own advice for you guys is don't be a Alpha male online while you a Beta, or simp offline.



Ahahahhahahaha
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 10:44am On Apr 03, 2023
Fahvvy:
"An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you"

The bolded is EXACTLY why females mistake Alpha for Narcissist undecided...

You don't have any value as a woman and you're expecting men to value you, is that not witchcraft? undecided...

You treat men like trash and you're expecting an Alpha to worship the ground you work on, isn't that a proof that you're possessed with serpentine spirit? undecided...

Any lady who hates men who treat men the way she is being treated is VALUE-LESS undecided...


Well that's another angle to it. But Alpha males are not bad though.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Fahvvy: 10:49am On Apr 03, 2023
kurlz:



Well that's another angle to it. But Alpha males are not bad though.

Yes...
Alphas are not bad people, they only treat trash as trash and value as valuable undecided...

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by SkengRay: 10:54am On Apr 03, 2023
kurlz:




Ahahahhahahaha
it's not funny at all. I have this one friend that post all these toxic masculinity post online regarding every other guy as a simp because they've got a girl while he's lonely and self-services every night. His life is nothing to write home about

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by abba09: 10:56am On Apr 03, 2023
Hezzyluv:
Of the three you mentioned, I hate the last one, A SIMP.

Some of them can even beat their parents because of woman.
I AM A SIMP
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by abba09: 10:56am On Apr 03, 2023
SkengRay:
it's not funny at all. I have this one friend that post all these toxic masculinity post online regarding every other guy as a simp because they've got a girl while he's lonely and self-services every night. His life is nothing to write home about
thats how they are
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 11:34am On Apr 03, 2023
Fahvvy:


Yes...
Alphas are not bad people, they only treat trash as trash and value as valuable undecided...

Exactly. But many mistake this for being a Narcissist. I mean some Narcissists claim Alpha males.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 11:35am On Apr 03, 2023
abba09:
I AM A SIMP


Ahahhahahahahhaha. Why na?
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 11:36am On Apr 03, 2023
Flora2Sweet:
Women see Alpha males as Being proud/Rude....
But I love it..... cus they still end up wanting them last last.. as husbands..

Well this depends on individual differences. Some Alpha males can be egoistic you know.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Hezzyluv: 11:37am On Apr 03, 2023
abba09:
I AM A SIMP

Be it on to you according to your words!

It is sealed in the name of SIMPle emotional display in you and the ladies that makes you behave such way. grin

One love! There's cap in the initial comment I made! kiss
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 11:38am On Apr 03, 2023
SkengRay:
it's not funny at all. I have this one friend that post all these toxic masculinity post online regarding every other guy as a simp because they've got a girl while he's lonely and self-services every night. His life is nothing to write home about

I bet depression is taking it's toll on him.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by abba09: 12:23pm On Apr 03, 2023
kurlz:



Ahahhahahahahhaha. Why na?
simps are best humans

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 3:17pm On Apr 03, 2023
abba09:
simps are best humans


Hnmm. Best?
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by 2ndchildhood(m): 5:49pm On Apr 03, 2023
abba09:
simps are best humans
people wey fit poison you because of woman.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by DonroxyII: 8:29pm On Apr 07, 2023
kurlz:
I have seen on several occasions people mistaking Narcissism for being an Alpha male, hence I will like to write a little on Alpha male, Narcissism and simp.
Pls you can add your own opinion for more insight.


ALPHA MALE
An alpha male is not a guy who treats ladies anyhow. He is a guy who treats ladies based on their values.
He is not an heartless individual but he's someone who treats you based on your person and actions. So if you are good, he is good to you, if you are nice he is nice to you. He's in absolute charge of his emotions and actions. He loves with his brain not heart, he is logical, calculative and domineering. An alpha male is a man who takes charge, one who imposes his will on others, not the other way round. He has self-validation and therefore needs no one to validate him, he doesn't feel inferior. He is strong, intelligent and in control. Can't be swindled with any form of emotional blackmail.
Don't mistake a Narcissist for an Alpha male, they are not the same.

NARCISSIST
A Narcissist is a person who has an excessive interest in or admiration of himself or herself.
Narcissism is a mental health disorder. Narcissistic personality disorder is a mental health condition in which people have an unreasonably high sense of their own importance. Excessive love for ones self hence, treats others as secondary and immaterial. They need and seek too much attention and want people to admire them at all cost. People with this disorder may lack the ability to understand or care about the feelings of others. They only care about themselves.
The following are the behaviors of Narcissists
*Sense of self-importance
*Preoccupation with power, beauty, or success
*Entitlement mentality
*Can only be around people who are important or special
*Interpersonally exploitative for their own gain
*Arrogant
*Lack empathy
*Must be admired
*Envious of others or believe that others are envious of them

SIMP
While a simp is a guy who treats ladies nicely situations not withstanding... Yes a Simp is one who treats ladies nicely and they don't reciprocate his nice gestures yet he is never bothered. He is gullible, and in dire crave for attention, hence, he can do anything to have it. The word Simp simply means fool, simpleton.
A man who foolishly overvalues and defers to a woman, putting her on a pedestal.
He loves deeply with his heart while his brain is on transit. A simp can be emotionally black-mailed and taken advantage of by the other party.

It is essential that we know how to differentiate between the three so we can understand who really we are friends or in a relationship with. So Narcissists should stop claiming Alpha male please.

So guys which category do you fall?


An Important Attributes of Alpha Male is Arrogance and Courting the Entire Aura of an Environment to Themselves without leaving no room for even one head not turning at them while also Striving internally to gain Attentions of all the ladies ....

I'm a Sigma-Masculinity ... We Cleared the Doubt of Alpha-Male Because We are the Humble Alpha-Male:

Check Putin That's Sigma Right There .... Sigma are the real Dudes away from the Fanfare ...

They just do what needs to be done No Trumpets!

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Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by Lucifyre: 10:13pm On Apr 07, 2023
Not bad... Your peice is kind of apt. Kind off cause there are some major things off about it. First of it's presented like all three are categories of the same thing which they're obviously not. It's like presenting red, circle and blue like they're all colours, which they are obviously not. You could have a red circle just as you could have a blue circle, but u can't say they're all colours.

Narcissm is a personality disorder which affects people's behavioral patterns in their general relationship and interactions with everyone else in all spheres of their lives. It's a mental disease diagnosed, researched, studied and proven by science. The other two on the other hand are basically male behavioral patterns in a relationship with the opposite sex and its psuedo science at best and like astrology not backed by actual science. So they are very different where its not a situation of one or the other.

Let's say the psuedo science of alpha, sigma, beta and all that is valid. An alpha could be narcissistic, just as a simp could be narcissistic as well. They both could have the mental disease that is narcissism, even though one of em are more likely to be narcissists than the other(you know which). So they are not all in the same category where its one or the other. Narcissm is an illness, the others are behaviours. Totally different things. The whole alpha shit theory is really flawed but that's discussion for another date.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 1:02am On Apr 08, 2023
DonroxyII:
An Important Attributes of Alpha Male is Arrogance and Courting the Entire Aura of an Environment to Themselves without leaving no room for even one head not turning at them while also Striving internally to gain Attentions of all the ladies ....

I'm a Sigma-Masculinity ... We Cleared the Doubt of Alpha-Male Because We are the Humble Alpha-Male:

Check Putin That's Sigma Right There .... Sigma are the real Dudes away from the Fanfare ...

They just do what needs to be done No Trumpets!


That's near selfishness though.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by kurlz(f): 1:10am On Apr 08, 2023
Lucifyre:
Not bad... Your peice is kind of apt. Kind off cause there are some major things off about it. First of it's presented like all three are categories of the same thing which they're obviously not. It's like presenting red, circle and blue like they're all colours, which they are obviously not. You could have a red circle just as you could have a blue circle, but u can't say they're all colours.

Narcissm is a personality disorder which affects people's behavioral patterns in their general relationship and interactions with everyone else in all spheres of their lives. It's a mental disease diagnosed, researched, studied and proven by science. The other two on the other hand are basically male behavioral patterns in a relationship with the opposite sex and its psuedo science at best and like astrology not backed by actual science. So they are very different where its not a situation of one or the other.

Let's say the psuedo science of alpha, sigma, beta and all that is valid. An alpha could be narcissistic, just as a simp could be narcissistic as well. They both could have the mental disease that is narcissism, even though one of em are more likely to be narcissists than the other(you know which). So they are not all in the same category where its one or the other. Narcissm is an illness, the others are behaviours. Totally different things. The whole alpha shit theory is really flawed but that's discussion for another date.


I'm not trying to point at what's valid or in the same category of assertion or context. I'm only trying to differentiate between these 3 words, especially due to the fact that these words are commonly used on this page and also because some are Narcissists but claim Alpha males. And just to buttress on the word Simp as it's almost the opposite of Alpha male according to the "science" of nairaland. This is my point. Thanks for your additions and elaboration.
Re: Real Meaning Of Alpha Male, Simp & Narcissist! by DonroxyII: 9:44am On Apr 09, 2023
kurlz:


That's near selfishness though.
It's More of Pride Not Selfishness Nor Arrogance!

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