There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.

First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?

Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?

Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.

In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

Tomiwasamuel:
There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.
First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?
Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?
Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.
In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

Supported.

I really hate people who demand for things on their birthdays and it's always ladies and their entitlement mindset.

But unless you are a sadist, I don't see what is wrong with you wishing a friend or colleague a happy birthday, doesn't matter if you don't care about your own birthday.

I'm not a sadist... I wish you well on your birthday just that I can decide not to show it to your face

Karleb:
I really hate people who demand for things on their birthdays and it's always ladies and their entitlement mindset.

But unless you are a sadist, I don't see what is wrong with you wishing a friend or colleague a happy birthday, doesn't matter if don't care about your own birthday.

Unpopular opinion

Tomiwasamuel:
I'm not a sadist... I wish you well on your birthday just that I can decide not to show it to your face

But if we are friends and you care about me, you'd do things that make me feel good even if you don't like it as long as it doesn't hurt you in any way.

This is like claiming you are in love with someone but you are not telling them.

Tomiwasamuel:
I'm not a sadist... I wish you well on your birthday just that I can decide not to show it to your face

People are not mind readers to know you wish them well "in your mind". You will be judged based on your actions and inactions, and not on your internalised "good wishes"

Why must you expect me to wish you in the first place... I can send you a thousand good will message and still not wish you well

Ishilove:

People are not mind readers to know you wish them well "in your mind". You will be judged based on your actions and inactions, and not on your internalised "good wishes"

Tomiwasamuel:
Why must you expect me to wish you in the first place... I can send you a thousand good will message and still not wish you well

Hm, good point. However, it is a part of good social etiquette. It is expected of you

Some go to the extent that they will message u that you can't even wish dem Happy birthday I look at dem like what's so special Abt the day is just a normal day if trailer jam u dat day u go still die so what's all the stress for...


I no dey even remember my birthday so Wu birthday help....

Tomiwasamuel:
There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.

First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?

Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?

Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.

In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

I see the comrade that wrote all this is on sapa level.😅😂🤣🤣😭Well we all know that sapa level can't be conceal for long it must show by the beholder boldly like rainbow 🌈

Hdzd

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It's mostly ladies that do this...two weeks to their birthday they will start bombarding you with reminders that their birthday is coming up and at the same time using style to beg for money

Facts

If cannot afford to send me a gift worth at least 50K then do not bother wishing me happy birthday!



#TeamBossLady#

Desperation, they have to be among and intimidated others, shows you how silly this people(girls) are

op they have wounded you tire abi or abi not?

Factos: 90% of people that wish you do not love you.

Cc: Tomiwasamuel

I also don't like birthday celebrations and the idea of people posting me on their statuses because I may not even view them.

I feel like going into hiding whenever that day approaches because I really hate being the center of attention..🤦🤦🤦

Ishilove:

Hm, good point. However, it is a part of good social etiquette. It is expected of you

So Ish, please set me straight. Wishing someone birthday wishes falls under good social etiquette?

Lots of people taking birthday celebration wishes personal like their lives depends on it nigga, I dont even wish / post myself on my birthdays why should yours matter.

Tomiwasamuel:
There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.

First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?

Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?

Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.

In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

God bless you Sir 🙏🏾

Your opinion shaaa

Daniel Regha Finally on NAIRALAND



what you said is true sha. 100%

Almost had issues with a female collegue because of [ by~day ] celebration.. We got talking though,she intentionally told me hers which was forth coming,i told her mine[which she still remembers till now]. Her D~day came,i acted as though i forgot,babe took offence, saying bla-bla-bla,. I told her i forgot that i got other important things troubling my mind.. I just dropped something for her though,.. Maybe she felt something for me and wanted to use her b.day celebration to see how romantic i am or maybe she just wanted a gift from me. I don't even celebrate mine,few persons know my Birthday,. As the "OnlySmartHustler" making money is ONE OF THE THINGS i celebrate each day..

Birthday and others like it are western culture.

You claim you are giving thanks to the Lord but it's business plan to you. Same as wedding these days

Where is it that the Lord gave u instructions to give thanks to him on your birthday?
Na so they invent Christmas and others

Nonsense

I swear it's so really annoying
Today is even my birthday
But no body on my contact list
Knows its my day
I see my birthday as a normal ordinary day
There's nothing so special about it
If any one decides not congratulate me on my birthday I won't see anything wrong with it
The few ones that even knew where asking me for pictures
But as a local man that I am I don't take pictures

Not everyone that wishes you good on your birthday
Means well for you

Tomiwasamuel:
There is an evil which the daughters and sons of men have put into practice this days that ought not to be so. I know birthdays are days of celebration to many but there are some of us who either see birthdays as insignificant or as equal as the other days of the year.

First of, know that no body owe you the responsibility of putting your birthday before other things in their life, if I can't even remember mine why should I remember yours?

Secondly, if I don't send you a message or give you a call on your birthday it doesn't mean I don't wish you well, how important is my good will message to you being alive next year?

Thirdly, with emphasis on the ladies, stop demanding anyone to get you a birthday gift, if you need something start contributing the money and buy it for yourself. Also you can gift us some snacks on your birthday if gifts are so important.

In conclusion, please stop flooding our DM with your pictures a day before your birthday, if we want to post you we know where to get it. Sending me your pictures doesn't mean I will post you or even send you a happy birthday message. I mean no problem, this is the bitter truth and I just said it. TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT

My wife sef don de get used to the fact that I don't really care about birthdays

Ok
I don't even remember my own birthday not to talk of another person. It's what everyone around me knows,so no one feels bad if I don't send greetings
They are now doing unrequested birthday for me

Guy stop thinking and witting rubbish. Go and look for money, wishes will come by fire by force