Let’s cut to the chase, you like lash your sister in-law, and you are afraid, oga find where them de do short time,

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Be a man and tell your wife so you both look for a solution.

Get her an accommodation and let her move out, she's a grown up and can be by herself.

Don't thread the way of the serpent cause it will stink you really hard.

Do the right thing and be committed and faithful to your marriage.

Loose her and let her go and only then would you be free.

Rokiat:
So she’s wearing seductive clothing around you and her sister (your wife) have nothing to say?

She’s either really dumb or your story is fake.

And you also lack self control as a man what’s stopping you from letting your wife know how she’s seducing you and sending her packing?

What you encourage will continue plain blank period.

your body is giving me erection

I will share you a story.

Bro, The truth is that: 1. You and your wife are not supposed to sleep in different rooms.
2. Communication between you and your wife is crucial, what you brought to this platform would have been best discussed with your wife, let her know you are not comfortable with her kind of dressing within the house.
3. You can approach her(your sis-inlaw) to let her know that you are not comfortable with her dressing. it's your home and you are the head, you determine the direction of the house.
4. Bible says "Flee from the appearance" You might need to tell your wife, it's time for her sister to leave the house. and let your wife know is for the sanity of your family.

oga park one side , in fact you are the reason why a lot of men are inside bottles in Benin City,,

Make she come my way. I kukuma they find wife.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Oga sir, this coal fire you are trying to carry in your pucket, you will not like the scare it will leave in your body ooo.

Which is easier, to tell your wife and get loose or keep it secret and get burnt?

A word is enough for the wise.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

your wife leaves you two together because her blood sister is supposed to be the only one she can trust. The girl should get her own place since she has a nice job. She might even find her own man when she leaves your house. But I'm afraid moving out would make it easy for you to flex with her cos you'd surely go visit her or lodge in a hotel with you

Please don't try it I beg you else you destroy your young marriage. Ask your wife to talk her sister into getting her own apartment, she's of age and i believe financially buoyant for that. Moreover, she should start thinking of her own privacy to allow for a serious relationship, she's of age.

I do not think you are a discipline man like you have said. By the way, I have a question for you.

Why are you sleeping alone in a separate room and not together with your wife?

If you love your home and your life, I would advice you to have a serious discussion with your wife. Explain to her that you do not find it comfortable with the way her sister has been dressing lately. Go ahead and explain the effect this can have in your family and suggest that she find her own apartment. She is matured enough to leave her own life and since she is not jobless, it means she can take up responsibility.

Man, if you do not tell your wife and you continue this way and end up sleeping with that lady, I can bet it with you that you will regret your life. That lady you see is on a mission and the earlier you send her out of your house the better for you.

If she agree to be dressing politely, still do not succumb to that. She has already initiated her plan. sleeping with you is the only thing slept to validate her evil plan.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Dont make the mistake of telling your wife o. You will start a war you may not be able to finish.

Transfer the lust to your wife. I guess your wife might be starving you. If your wife is not available, find relief somewhere else.

If you are strong enough, caution your SIL on the way she dress or tell your wife to tell her.

Why are you allowing a full grown woman to stay in your house for so long?

Becareful o. Dont make the mistake of making a move on your SIL. You will not survive it.

She get big nyash? I dey look for babe wey i go dey kpansh

nicej2:

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

She will eventually leave one day. The earlier the better for everyone. Or, won't she get married?

fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw .

Can someone educate me before I offend the gods

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Boss no use your hand scatter your house o. Anytime u de feel tempted to touch please run to your wife. No use your hand start wetin u no go end well.

I once faced similar issue with my cook...

I didn't call my wife to inform her...

I didn't send the girl away for dressing inappropriately...

I handled it as a man...

Deal with the problem itself.

Stop assuming she is lusting after you especially when she didn't tell you directly...you don't live in her mind. Maybe she's just too comfortable and safe with you.

Invite her when your wife is not around...tell her that while her new dress code makes her look amazing, it's slightly improper for you...especially in your home...and you don't want wild thoughts going through your mind, or your wife. So she should adjust to a more appropriate dressing. Tell her you're a man and you have feelings, and you don't want her to be the reason you failed.

After subtly warning her and it persists, give her a more stern and final warning. After that if it persists, tell her to look for a house within 3 months.

Telling your wife will have some impacts that will potentially haunt you in your home and affect your inlaws perception of you...mind you.

Sleeping with her will lead you to a lot of spiritual reconciliation and restitution you will never be ready to face, especially when you must confess to your wife...sleeping with her sister is one sin you should never confess, so don't even try it...if you do, you'll lose the face of God permanently in your home UNTIL you confess.

Sharp guy no be for everything o, mind you...

Bye.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Brother the easiest way not to fall into temptation is to avoid it, as never get tempted in the first place, once the see is sold, omo e go hard. You have a wife, anytime you feel the urge, enter your wife room. Infact since you are always traveling drain your sexual desire with your wife and remove those thoughts from your mind.

Disciplined man wey dey lust after im sis in-law

Superstory

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

no mind am

Maybe children stays in d sitting room

STARGREEN:
Seems like you want to know how lack of respect is in your home?

Seems like you want to experience lack of peace of mind in your home?

Seems like you want to experience sisters fighting in your home mid night ?

Seems like you want to look like a boy in front of your in-laws?


Sometimes, simple casual food fails to digest and equally hard to be vomited hence such food has to be avoided.

Get her accommodation now. What if she gets married this month won't your wife and kids stays without her?

Will she stay with her husband and kids in the same apartment with you?

Your reason for keeping her is good, but will leads to had I known, look beyond now.
Be careful, respect is key

Matured advice.

Mumu talk...

Oga when u guys are alone press her breast then smooch her bare ass and let her be

It's well

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

men una get terrible problem no be small, tomorrow nahh una go Dey hala how useless women are, but una useless pass

Mindlog:
If you live in a 3 bedroom flat....you stay in one bedroom, your wife stays in the second, your sister-in-law stay in the third, where do the children stay?🤔

He reach to ask😜

SyrusdeHansome:
There is a reason why Joseph had to run out of the room when Potipha's wife seduced him. If he had stayed i bliv he wouldn't have been able to overcome the urge.

I'm telling you,Joseph is my favourite bible character
When pastor Adeboye said something about a female Secretary the other day,people were spewing trash on twitter, flee from every appearance of evil
I was in a public library the other day,I went downstairs to get sachet water,before I returned,a lady(someone I know,a junior colleague) was already sitting in my spot(which I think She did on purpose).She wore this black crop top and all the waist chains she had was showing,she had like 4 or 5 (I counted it),just looking at her,I was already having erections....immediately,I packed all my stuff from the library and ran away.This event happened 2 weeks ago or less

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Fake story...

She won't respect you again if you sleep with her,,
Kill the urge sir..

Better still get her connected to a well behaved bachelor.

amadil14:
Same issues also happened to me of recent.
I developed a very strong urge for my sister in-law that I also began to see her in my dream. Infact, to an extent when ever I'm around I I'll begin to emerging if my wife could just move out leaving us behind but my wife never did.
My wife never for ones leave the two of us and the children for even 5mins.

However, she has moved out of our home to theirs.
Lust is real bro, you might be very discipline but I think the best is for one not to be tempted at all. Because if one is tempted, it is either you fall for it or you overcome it.

So the best is for one not to be tempted at all.

The only solution is to let her leave ur home otherwise u I'll continue to lust after her.

I tell you. This shit happens everyday.

nicej2:
Dear Nairalanders, i am not really good posting my issues online. But this time i need your advise.

I have been married for 9 years now and my sister inlaw has been living with us( I, my wife and the kids) for the past 6 years now, although I am not always around.
I have never imagine any negative thoughts toward her. I always see her like my younger sister, i have been taken care of her. She is 28 years old and I can't really says if she have a boyfriend cos I haven't see one around her. She is a boss in her working place but yet i foots all her bills in the house without bothering anyone, including my wife that is also a boss .Until of recent she started wearing seductive clothes around the house, Some how i started developing feelings for her As if she knows, she continues wearing those clothes and started showing more caring towards me.
I can't believed that i am having feelings for my sister inlaw cos i am a disciplined man to the core. Even during university days girls do come to my apartment passed a night without molesting them. I am well brought up. But is like that disciplined man in me started degenerating as i began to see this girl in my dreams.
There was a night i returned from travelled, i started feeling the urge to go to her room. My wife almost cought me that night cos we lives in 3 bedroom, I have my own room, my wife have her own and my sister inlaw have her own room. So we sleep in separate rooms except some occasions my wife decided to stay in my room. That night i was pimping through her door. I have been trying to control my feelings and I believed the reason why I have not sleep with her is because i am not always around and I also the fear of traditions implications of sleeping with sister inlaw . And my wife is not helping matters, she can leave both of us alone in d house and go to all night church program and the children will be sleeping.

I don't really know what to do. Should I tell my wife so that we can get her accommodation or just let the sleeping dog be. Though I don't really want her to leave cos is my wife and the children are alone in the compound. I just want to kill that urge before I return from travel.

Sorry for the long episode ..😀

Tell your wife that you are no longer comfortable her sister in your house and she has to leave if she asks why tell her to use her tongue to count her teeth and its for the good of her marriage and her home... Secondly have your wife move into your room and follow your wife to vigil if you must

IyaebeTheGreat:
His wife is busy doing her best, going to vigil to pray for her family and all others but unfortunately the horseband has not seen the efforts of his wife but having erection for the wife's sister who obviously has become too carefree with him and see him as a senior brother and a guidian. The countless divorce that uncontrolled penis has caused is uncountable. The breaking of this home is in sight, Yul Edochie is waiting to welcome you to their club with open hands.

Lol. Even when the misplacement of priority of the wife is staring you in the face, you still can't see it.
Going to vigils every night when she's supposed to stay in her home. Giving room for devil to operate. Nigerians believe too much in prayer that doesn't solve any problem but only take up their productive time

Khafsun:
This is super story...

Your children are probably in need of cousins anyways

Cousins cum step brothers and step sisters