Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Sens8: 6:28pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
You’re a big ass disgrace to yourself and your family.…I’m ashamed that you’re a man. You go raise people children. Simp! Try get small self respect. Is this real life ![](/faces/huh.png) ![](/faces/huh.png) |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by almarthins(m): 6:34pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Pele! You have just be scammed by Olivia .j As u never die, pick Ur self up and run away. It shows that the family doesn't want you, no force Ur head put 1 Like |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Archie30: 6:39pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
KidDarkness:
You better pick yourself up, dust your shoes and run. Na who live to tell the story dey enjoy pass. You don't need her. You don't need her baggage weighing you down Her family members are just preying on you Move on with your life. Someone better always comes along Nicely said. For the fact she's accusing him for the same sin she's guilty of makes this women really horrible. And the prospective in-law has shown no respect either. Nobody's ever been successful without some principles and logic. Clearly this woman belongs to someone else. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by tete7000(m): 6:39pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
You deflowered her and introduced her to sex and she is now enjoying it unending, that should be enough reward for you. Console yourself with 'achievement'. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Obasempiree(m): 6:43pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Zonefree: A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.
A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh! Why such harsh words. Funny though |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Lordofalmajiri(f): 6:46pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
OriOko88: When I read of heartbreak threads like this one nairalad,I fear for my fiancee in far away owo,ondo state. Hehheeheh ![embarassed](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/embarassed.png) ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) there's 95% that another guy dey help her ministry that side... Except you visit her often |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by aloma007(m): 6:47pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
You're simply embarking on a suicide mission.
Opo oro ka'gbon, afefe lo nba lo meaning, much words doesn't fill up the buckets, the words rather faint off into the winds.
The girl & her family doesn't want you again, so stop forcing it & accept its reality. You're a man and surely someone else's top search. Quit her now and have a feel of new pvssies for the next 6 months without mercy. Avoid loving and be cautious of std. Dey your lane and you will find love if necessary when the time comes. Your happiness matters first.
Don't be a bargained fool |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by chubbyswit(m): 6:48pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Flee from formication to have peace of mind, focus on yourself and future. Sex will come in abundance when you get married. Causing yourselves unnecessary depression and anxiety all because of 5mins gratification. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Lordofalmajiri(f): 6:49pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Ronaldo723:
Person wey day collect long fat gbola steady day play 😂😂 Tell am o.. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Jpblessed(m): 6:51pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Zonefree: A girl and her wretched family are using you to play ludo and you're trying everything possible to forgive her ![undecided](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/undecided.png)
I love that you're losing weight and falling sick day by day. It's a good sign for others to learn not to be like you. You're a disgrace to humanity and a waste of space.
A bandit is valuable than you! Tueh! The maestro. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Lordofalmajiri(f): 6:52pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Newton2024: 1. What do do now is to free her. A cheat will always be a cheat and a leopard can never change its spot. Cheating once can never be a mistake let alone cheating more than once.
2. Even if you forgive her, you can never forget and you will never trust her again. You will remember her sexcapade everyday. You will suspect her move everyday.
3. I was once in your shoes. I forgive her but I regret taking her back up till today. Learn from my experience. She cheated again? |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Brushstrokes20: 6:54pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
The bitter pill you must force yourself to swallow asap is that her mind ain't with you! She's a good girl gone bad, FREE THE BITCH and improve yourself ![cool](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/cool.png) # YOU DESERVE BETTER |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by mrcrabs(m): 6:55pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Ode, you are a fool and you wil continue to be a fool.
Marry her o, open business for her, send her to school sef, better still be paying her monthly salary werey |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by abidem4real: 6:57pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Women are naturally unfaithful no matter what men do for them. We are even talking about a girl you disflowered yourself! What then becomes of the already public assets we men call girlfriends or fiancees?! Just take hold of yourself because women are not worth dying for. Look for another one if you cannot withstand the breach of trust you had in her because a fornicating woman never stops. If she begs and you forgive her, just bear it in mind that at one time or the other in your marital journey, she will cheat because it is in her DNA. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by bewla(m): 6:57pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Get 9:11 and it shall be well with your soul |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Mummyimbecile(m): 7:02pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
I hate reading all this trash, I hope all guys would be like me.
Once you cheat, you're out...be you girlfriend or wife.
Any Lady that cheats on you once has every tendency to cheat again and again and again!
Be a man and kick her ass. 2 Likes |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by mazizitonene(m): 7:03pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
dey dia oo.....dey dia till u daii.... |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by ajbiggie(m): 7:05pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Guy you say you don't know what to do, please just look for closest river and jump inside. May be you go get sense next life, na yash you take they reason. Let stop here before I vex more 1 Like |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by tiger2080: 7:12pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
STUPID BOY CRYING OVER A DAMAGE PUSSY,OLOSHO,HOE,ASHAWO,BITCH MEANT FOR THE STREET.AM NOT EVEN SURE U DEFLOWER HER.A BITCH THA AS BEEN FUCKING SINCE CHILDHOOD WASH DAMAGE TOTO GIVE U NOW U BLINDED BY A DAMAGE PUSSY U DONT NO WAT TO DO.IF U LIKE URSEF FORGET THE PROSTITUTE B4 U GO AN COMMIT SUICIDE 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Princessdainty(m): 7:12pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Imagine policing a woman's vagina...Are you saying you've never slept with other women?? Enh? China men are building tech and making their lives better. It's 2023 and A Blackman is still stuck in a woman's Vagina. and you wonder why y'all don't grow ![](/faces/huh.png) Abeg getat! Or grow up! Are you married to her? If not get busy with your life and fvvvck off!. Miscreant 1 Like |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Beautyprincess2: 7:16pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Ayiii am sorry, very sorry but let me ask u are u saying that all those while when she was away u didn't cheat on her? Anyways am very sorry I don't like hearing stories like this all the guys experiencing things like this I wish I can just love u all and date you. Am very sorry okay? If u would want to talk offline den let's talk. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Upworkwriter007(f): 7:18pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
Certain pills are hard to swallow, swallow it nevertheless. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Alonso91(m): 7:19pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Interesting to hear that you are loosing weight and falling sick day by day...........You might possibly learn in grave |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by georgeakins: 7:20pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat: just because you disvirgined her doesn’t mean she will belong to you forever.
Dust your self up and move on. I doubt if he met the girl a virgin. Two girls almost scammed me with non 'existent virginity', but thank God I was smarter than them. 1 Like |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by SunmibareARC: 7:22pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
God Bless your parents for bringing you into this life; God Bless you for not disappointing your parents; God Bless your offspring/ potential offspring who will tap from these your blessings... KidDarkness:
You better pick yourself up, dust your shoes and run. Na who live to tell the story dey enjoy pass. You don't need her. You don't need her baggage weighing you down Her family members are just preying on you Move on with your life. Someone better always comes along |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by lamanda(m): 7:23pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day .
I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
My brother...please, let her go, in a very short time you'll bounce back. A relation of mine fell into a similar situation and after marrying her after reconciliation the lady became a disaster to him in their marital home. |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by friendl: 7:24pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
You only kill yourself when you go through a lady's phone,...wetin person no know no go kill am |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by duduade: 7:27pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
concho: We started dating when she got admission in 2018. She was a novice and a church girl then . There was nothing like intimacy till 2021 and that was when I deflowered her ,
Since I promised my self that I must marry who ever I deflowered , I started taking care of some parts of her needs hoping that I will get financially stable and settle down with her .
She was the type of girl that everyone assumed to be an angel . I trusted her more than anything on earth .
She is too jealous that she suspects that I’m cheating even when I was not . She misinterprets everything an opposite sex sends to me
Fast forward to 2022 . She visited one day and got upset that another girl referred to me as “babe” on chat instead of saying “hi” . I insisted that she brings her own phone so I check if a guy has never called her babe
On getting to her chat , I noticed this guy that she saved as “my favorite” . They had no chats (she deletes everything) . I decided to dig deeper only to find out that this guy has been going to her house (family house ) to sleep with her . It’s not once , it’s not twice . And it was frequent the period she even said I should give her space that they were doing family prayers
The worst is that I told the mum and elder siblings out of anger. They did absolutely nothing . The mum only denied knowing that the guy comes around when everyone is out
A month later, I saw a chat of the mum asking her why she doesn’t pick the guy’s call again . I almost ran mad
She has promised and vouched that she won’t try such again and doesn’t know what came over her her .
I have tried everything possible to forgive her since no one treats me the way she does , but I keep loosing weight and falling sick by day . I’m currently depressed and don’t know what to do again
You never ready to move on with life, when you are ready you will move on.... E be like say you never clock 23 yet What the f.....k ... Depression kee you there... To add insult to injury, the mother doesn't actually acknowledge you... Obviously the other guy must have been settling her family money wise per se per se... You in your mind be grooming wife o.... Better forget all your so called investments on her and move on... You dey talk say nobody treats you the way she does . ... Guy you are been used and dumped Proper SIMP you be walahi M-U-G-U M-A- G- A On behalf of my fellow male Nairalanders and I, we donate you to the another specie |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by lomprico(m): 7:28pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Megabig:
You de shine teeth, I know say u follow curse me out I no see the thread sef ![grin](https://www.nairaland.com/faces/grin.png) |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Akabuking: 7:30pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Rokiat: just because you disvirgined her doesn’t mean she will belong to you forever.
Dust your self up and move on. Epic |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Edoziesmart(m): 7:31pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Hassanmaye:
So even if I deflowered a girl she can't be mine? This is not true, Read to comprehend |
Re: My Partner’s Betrayal Has Pushed Me To Depression , Please Help by Didi2d(m): 7:32pm On Apr 19, 2023 |
Bros, find your way now.
Even if she promised you she won't do it again, my brother. That thought of someone nacking your wife will hunt you forever |