I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

You're not serious..you wanted to be his girlfriend yet you asked him if you could be just friends. Why should he be just friends with you? And you expect him to agree.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

You approached a Nigerian man first? Like seriously? I'll rather choke than try that. If I too like you and manage show you small green light and you are not smart, I simply ignore your existence . Don't ever try it again ooo

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Rule number one: never pursue a man.

Rokiat:


Rule number one: never pursue a man.

This is 2023..the tables have turned..if you maintain this mindset you go grow beards for your papa house.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.
So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.
This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

so because a guy rejects your proposal, he is automatically immature?!

MrBrownJay1:


so because a guy rejects your proposal, he is automatically immature?!

But they reject guys everyday..that immature word they use is a shaming tactic to cope when they realise they've been rejected

I respect your approach to the matter. It must be a hard decision for you to make seeing that we are from a part of the world where this is not the norm... but all I can tell you is you did great... let no one talk you down. Keep building and adding values to your life... Soon your prince charming will sweep you off your feet. A nd you will be glad you waited

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

You proposed weekly billings in the form of relationship and he rejected but somehow you're still angry?

SenecaTheYonger:


You proposed weekly billings in the form of relationship and he rejected but somehow you're still angry?

Rokiat:


Rule number one: never pursue a man.

She didn't do anything wrong. No rule, just take your chances that's it. Nowadays it is hard to find a man ready for serious relationship.

It's a two way response which you ought to have known, it's nothing to be angry about, you can't force relationship on anyone. Also, maybe he knows about your terrible past life

Lemos14:


This is 2023..the tables have turned..if you maintain this mindset you go grow beards for your papa house.

I have and will always maintain this mindset. I have no issues never have never will pulling guys.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

there's nothing to be ashamed of, you acted maturely and he equally acted maturely. He might be in a relationship with another person and doesn't want to cheat.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Omo Getat.

IyaebeTheGreat:
You approached a Nigerian man first? Like seriously? I'll rather choke than try that. If I too like you and manage show you small green light and you are not smart, I simply ignore your existence . Don't ever try it again ooo

lol see nairaland wife material in the mud Simp way go end up with you will forever regret his actions

That's not the end of the world Mrs poster at least you also have also rejected some friends request before so move on

maybe ya toasting skills are poor... KPELE... afterall you have rejected guys before,so it's nice knowing how it feels...

if na me even if i no like you i go accept you, shey you get towtow? i go deh knack am everyday like carpenter weh hit contract

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

You Don't care if he has any girlfriend or some one he loves, so because you proposed to him, he should accept,.. you may not even be his spec or he doesn't like you,.. yet you call him immature 😆😆😆,..
So do we have to call you immature for every guy you turn down
I know say e Sha pain you scatter.....

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

women don't propose to men,it devalues your worth,all the babes that proposed to me I nacked and moved on,flirt or try to get his attention but never open mouth to chase a man,it always ends in disaster

Girl such is life.

We don't always get what we want..

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Oh he is immature because he said no to you. Mumu. No is no. E no wan do. Carry your kaya go front. He that finds a wife hath found a good thing. If you are a good thing men will seek you out but if you are trash you will become a fisher of men.

OP, don't be Sad.
Dat's how Girls Reject Guys too. And we Move on. 🙂

You don't know Why he said No.
It May not be because you aren't Pretty or Sexy, But maybe a Relationship with you is something he doesn't want @the Moment.

I once Rejected a Very Pretty Girl in 2018 not because She was Bad in any way.
BUT she looked 'Churchy' and I was afraid she will be too Clingy and too Emotional. 😒

Learn how to deal with rejection in life.

This is the only reason I think a woman shouldn't approach a man.

If he rejects you, how are you going to handle that? Some men can be very brutal with their rejection especially if you don't meet their requirements.

Rokiat:


Rule number one: never pursue a man.

Counter attack

It takes courage for anyone (man or woman) to propose relationship.
In fact, I can't recall ever proposing to any woman (as a man o) before starting a relationship with her.
What happened was that I "sensed" her out, and she did the same and, if there is an unspoken "click", things took off.
Even marriage proposal is not a must!
People know what they want, and they develop whatever relationship they want.
What I've found has been that the more a relationship is "formalized" through express proposals, it is more likely to also end through formality -another proposal in the line of "please let us end this relationship before someone gets hurt".
But you see people who never proposed, start a sizzling and fulfilling relationship, sometimes lifelong.
If there is any lesson from this your experience, it is to ACT rather than TALK next time.
How do you ACT? Try getting close without talking and, if he refuses to connect, back off and go away.
Take action rather than talk. If there is no smoke there, there will be no fires.
This is the most important secret of most seemingly unlikely marriages or relationship.
You see that couple that makes you wonder (how could she accept him or how could he accept her?) it usually starts the way I just described:
Unspoken ACTION-led "proposal".

I will rather sleep than to woo a Nigerian man.
Many are so immature and a misogynist but if I like him, I will make him proposed by himself. I will push him till he propose

labake1:
I will rather sleep than to woo a Nigerian man.
Many are so immature and a misogynist but if I like him, I will make him proposed by himself. I will push him till he propose

So women are naturally immature for saying no to relationships?

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Just move on. Guys feel big when we approach first. Most are immature. They ll practice opposite of what they preach

Karen2024:
I am so disappointed in myself.

So I decided to tell a guy who has been my crush that I want us to be friends but he outrightly rejected my proposal.

This guy is just irresistible but he's very immature. I am very much disappointed.

Up your seduction game.