dublinkmy6:


My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

This is one of the best comments i’ve read today. Frankly speaking, no man in his right senses will wanna hit a woman. Some people keep saying you should walk away(its not that easy, can you leave your house around 1am when everywhere is dark?
Some women are devil in sheep clothing, they’ll frustrate you to extent that you’ll have to do the “reseting slap”.
I pray you dont marry the wrong person. Been there and i know how it feels.

N3TRAL:
I pity women whose priority on their "Mr Right's personality wishlist" is a "religious man". You're in for a lifetime of subjugation and manipulation.

I also extend my commiseration to those who heed the advice of their religious leaders without reflection- it's about time you took charge of your life!

The day a man hits you should be the last and a bitter first. The appropriate place for such man to spend the weekend is in a police cell.

No, he doesn't love you. No, he isn't jealous. No, he isn't domineering. No, he will not change.

Yes, he is a wild animal. Yes, he hates you. Yes, he will kill you. So, don't only walk away, ensure he is arrested and a restraining order is issued by the court to prevent him from getting close to you.

How do you hit a woman and still caress her body , suck her , kiss her , lick her from head to toe, thrust her deeply and impregnate her?

It's sickening to hit a random girl! How much more the woman you claim you love who's putting her life on the line to bear offspring that will take your name not hers?

Perfectly spoken. How about a woman that slaps her husband?

1stGenAmerican:


Some men don’t need prompts be abusive. There are men who will have a bad work day and go home to beat their wives. Some will be angry at a sidechick and take it out on the wife. Some will be frustrated due to finances and take it out on the wife. There’s a big chance that she did nothing to provoke him but even so, a man who resorts to beating a woman, in this case to death, because of what a woman might say to him when he is angry isn’t really a man.

Emotional abuse is equal to physical abuse. One hurts the mind, the other the body. In the end the end a hurt mind also hurts the body. I know you women know but you hide under the cloak. Whenever you condemn physical abuse also condemn emotional abuse!

N3TRAL:
I pity women whose priority on their "Mr Right's personality wishlist" is a "religious man". You're in for a lifetime of subjugation and manipulation.

I also extend my commiseration to those who heed the advice of their religious leaders without reflection- it's about time you took charge of your life!

The day a man hits you should be the last and a bitter first. The appropriate place for such man to spend the weekend is in a police cell.

No, he doesn't love you. No, he isn't jealous. No, he isn't domineering. No, he will not change.

Yes, he is a wild animal. Yes, he hates you. Yes, he will kill you. So, don't only walk away, ensure he is arrested and a restraining order is issued by the court to prevent him from getting close to you.

How do you hit a woman and still caress her body , suck her , kiss her , lick her from head to toe, thrust her deeply and impregnate her?

It's sickening to hit a random girl! How much more the woman you claim you love who's putting her life on the line to bear offspring that will take your name not hers?

But it's alright for a lady to hit a man. Isn't it?

zangaozanga:
see what the useless idiotic fool of a pastor have cause,religion is the worst thing to happen to mankind

They mentioned relatives too oh, as in her brothers and sisters, uncles and aunties were part of the settlement as well.

Nigerians and the mob (crucify him) mentality for Pastors or anything Church

simplesearch:


Before you marry know who you're getting marry to, but no! We always want it our own ways.
Life is about consequences of choices made, and marriage is one that comes with a permanent one.
It shouldn't always get to the extreme, but the heart of man is extremely wicked.
You can separate from an abusive relationship but you can't divorce or remarry or get involve in extra-marital affairs.


Romans 7:1-3 (KJV) Know ye not, brethren, (for I speak to them that know the law,) how that the law hath dominion over a man as long as he liveth?
For the woman which hath an husband is bound by the law to her husband so long as he liveth; but if the husband be dead, she is loosed from the law of her husband.
So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.

Matthew 19:9-10 (KJV) And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: and whoso marrieth her which is put away doth commit adultery.
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.

A little more study of Romans 7:1-3 would tell you Paul was referring strictly to those who knew the law or rightly put those who were under the law in those verses. You and every other Christian around the world (apart from Israeli Jews) were not under the law. That passage in its strictest sense doesn't apply to you.

I Cor 7:13-15 Paul says if a woman's husband isn't unbelieving and still likes to be with her let the woman stay but if not she can go and marry another because she is not bound in such a union if the unbelieving husband doesn't like her. You see that the human will is given preference here. These are additional reasons for divorce and remarriage. Yet, these days, I have seen religious leaders compelling a woman terrorised by her unbelieving husband to remain with him, which clearly goes against scripture.

In the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:9, 10 where Jesus gave the condition for divorce as fornication, the word Jesus used in the Greek was "porneia" meaning adultery, incest and other forms of illicit sex. These are valid reasons for divorce.

Just trying to have a theological discourse bro. Enjoy your day.

Woman, you need to deliver through c.s.
She said no, coz her pastor said that she will deliver like the Hebrew women.
After several attempt to convince her, she refused and Doctor left her to her opinion.
The next thing is that she died and baby survived.



Pastors

Say no to abuse!

1stGenAmerican:


Good question, I’d love to hear your answer.
What’s stopping you from filing for divorce or packing up and moving? Why not leave?

I can’t leave my own house. I own it.
I can’t bundle her out as well because the law is against kicking her out. And she’ll ruin my daughter as well.

GreyLaw:


A little more study of Romans 7:1-3 would tell you Paul was referring strictly to those who knew the law or rightly put those who were under the law in those verses. You and every other Christian around the world (apart from Israeli Jews) were not under the law. That passage in its strictest sense doesn't apply to you.

I Cor 7:13-15 Paul says if a woman's husband isn't unbelieving and still likes to be with her let the woman stay but if not she can go and marry another because she is not bound in such a union if the unbelieving husband doesn't like her. You see that the human will is given preference here. These are additional reasons for divorce and remarriage. Yet, these days, I have seen religious leaders compelling a woman terrorised by her unbelieving husband to remain with him, which clearly goes against scripture.

In the words of Jesus in Matthew 19:9, 10 where Jesus gave the condition for divorce as fornication, the word Jesus used in the Greek was "porneia" meaning adultery, incest and other forms of illicit sex. These are valid reasons for divorce.

Just trying to have a theological discourse bro. Enjoy your day.

In 1st Corinthians, the passage says the unbelieving spouse can go if they want to. Not that the believing spouse should go.

That means a believer is not under any compulsion to stay in a marriage where the unbelieving spouse wants to walk.

@OP: I guess pastor bashing (true they are not perfect) is the new thing in town.

Hope the husband has been arrested by the girl's father? He is the only one who seems capable to do so.

Na she want die inside abusive marriage na. She died a real wife

IyaebeTheGreat:
Sad. The way I see pastors these days ehn

Was it the pastor who killed the deceased?. If it had been the deceased uncle, am sure this wouldn't make headlines 😕😕😕

"A week after the divorce lawsuit was filed, his client, husband, pastors, and other family members met and agreed that the pair would resolve their differences outside of court."
What a pejudistic reportage! How did manage to single out the clergy as been responsible for her misfortune after what you posted up there?
How about her father and family members as reported?
Most Nigerians and hypocrisy naa 5&6.
I'm not surprised.

Cases like this breaks my heart so much, because I know the manipulation and emotional blackmail that was used on the victim, having experienced religious blackmail for refusing to step into any church for some years now,It will be a continuous warfare to free people especially Nigerians from the shackles of organised religion run by a mafia backed by government.
The government especially in Nigeria has recognized that religion is a major form of control hence government sponsors pilgrimages to encourage religion.
The day Nigerians realize they can think for themselves without needing the guidance of another human or book, that day will be the dawning of a new day.

Pasta, why na?😠

Hmmm

Misterc:
And funny how this same pastor is still alive and going about his business as if nothing happened and I guess he will also be the one to bless her grave before she's finally buried....


Moral of the story....
Don't allow anyone play kalo-kalo with your precious life.... We all got one life to live

The best part about this story is that Jesus the magic Jew forgives everyone and “it is well”!!

Who are you to question god?

dublinkmy6:


My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

Make sure you give her an Exodus type of beating i.e. everything goes as long as she doesn’t die. This way her brain is reset permanently lol

What a dvmb xtupid slowpoke you are

dublinkmy6:


My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

N3TRAL:


Most victims of domestic violence are females.

domestic violence knows no gender.. both genders suffer from domestic violence.. so stop trying to draw sympathy for one gender only..

dublinkmy6:


My father hit my mother a couple of times (mum herself is a fighter from her youth) and they're still married for almost 40yrs now.

I've seen a man slap the hell out of his wife to reset her brain and he loves her to bits till date and are still married.

Hitting your woman to correct her erroneous mentality is same as correcting a child by spanking, and seeing how mentaly immature some Nigerian women can be at times, that brain resetting hit can be utterly necessary and can even save a marriage, it only depends on the circumstances.

Marriage is not a straight journey as I've come to understand it. At times the man has to take charge of situations and do the needful at times, and if that involves the occasional hit then so be it.

Is your head functioning at all?

cococandy:
What a dvmb xtupid slowpoke you are

Damn!!! Is there something emotionally and mentally wrong with you? Is it so difficult to type without insulting someone?
You did same thing some minutes ago, look at you now? Allow people to air their opinion no matter how stupid it is. You're a married woman, and just coming out from the fasting period.

Kindly maintain some decorum.

JasonScoolari:
Damn!!! Is there something emotionally and mentally wrong with you? Is it so difficult to type without insulting someone?
You did same thing some minutes ago, look at you now? Allow people to air their opinion no matter how stupid it is. You're a married woman, and just coming out from the fasting period.

Kindly maintain some decorum.

It takes a special kind of hypocrite to talk about fasting and then turn a blind eye to posts that endorse violence against women.
Disgusting.

The ladies that are maintaining decorum while y’all actively call for women to be harmed are part of the reason men like you and that poster I quoted feel comfortable saying the things you say. Things that lead to the death of women.

Take your fasting bullshiet and shove it where the sun don’t shine

cococandy:


It takes a special kind of hypocrite to talk about fasting and turn a blind eye to posts that endorse violence against women.
Disgusting

No need for insulting him over the reckless comment.
Shows how emotionally destabilized you are If you keep throwing insults

JasonScoolari:
No need for insulting him over the reckless comment.
Shows how emotionally destabilized you are If you keep throwing insults

You’re the emotionally and intellectually destabilized one if you can’t see the connection between the violence y’all propagate on this forum and the real life effect it has on the safety of women around you.

Also I don’t know what me being married has to do with the conversation. I suppose being married means I have to become one of the desperados you see everywhere that stay mute in the face of BS in order to keep a MRS title.

cococandy:


You’re the emotionally and intellectually destabilized one if you can’t see the connection between the violence y’all propagate on this forum and the real life effect it has on the safety of women around you.

Also I don’t know what me being married has to do with the conversation. I suppose being married means I have to become one the of the desperados you see everywhere that stay mute in the face of BS in order to keep a MRS title.

Even from your write up, one can tell you're not okay upstairs, or better still, too hyperactive downstairs.

That guy made a reckless comment, you can condemn it without throwing insults just like you do to most people who had contrary opinions.

Stay civil

JasonScoolari:
Even from your write up, one can tell you're not okay upstairs, or better still, too hyperactive downstairs.

That guy made a reckless comment, you can condemn it without throwing insults just like you do to most people who had contrary opinions.

Stay civil

The audacity you have to expect a civil response to a post that suggests women should be beaten like children tells me you have dry cotton wool where your brain is supposed to be.

Here how about you formulate a civil response to this. “I think you and that guy are lowly animals that deserve to be chained up and trained like animals”. I mean since a civil response is the perfect thing to say to disrespectful comments I suggest you come up with something civil in response to that

cococandy:


The audacity you have to expect a civil response to a post that suggests women should be beaten like children tells me you have dry cotton wool where your brain is supposed to be.

Here about you formulate a civil response to this. “I think you and that guy are lowly animals that deserve to be chained up and trained like animals”. I mean since a civil response is the perfect thing to say to disrespectful comments I suggest you come up with something civil in response to that

Still proving me right when I said you are hyperactive downstairs and inactive upstairs.

Maybe that's how you insult the unfortunate man that married you. Who knows.

JasonScoolari:
Still proving me right when I said you are hyperactive downstairs and inactive upstairs.

Maybe that's how you insult the unfortunate man that married you. Who knows.

I know your father dog-walked your mom in the streets that’s why you are okay with his comments and upset with me for rightfully insulting him.

Go and console your mom.

cococandy:


I know your father dog-walked your mom in the streets that’s why you are okay with his comments and upset with me for rightfully insulting him.

Go and console your mom.

You're actually mistaking your parents for mine.

Too much of head slamming.

JasonScoolari:
You're actually mistaking your parents for mine.

Too much of head slamming.

Between us it’s clear who was raised in a condition where beating wives and mothers is considered normal and a sign of family leadership. That’s why you can’t understand why anyone would have something to say against that. Your damaged parents raised a damaged man who goes online and advocates for more violence on the women in their family.

You should be embarrassed