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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by IgbosNIGHTMARE: 9:55am On May 07, 2023
Yes!

If you're a WASTED who
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by tete7000(m): 10:00am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.



Please contribute and advise.

Should Christian couples commit adultery in the first instance? If you commit, confession becomes necessary. The thought of confession will keep many from straying into that path.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by LtChisom: 10:03am On May 07, 2023
IgbosNIGHTMARE:
Yes!
Especially the women (it's women that USUALLY LIE, about their sexual past, even the useless so-called feminists.
IF SEXUAL EXPERIENCE IS NOT A A BIG DEAL, WHY DO YOU WHÓRËS LIE ABOUT IT?
A GIRL THAT HER BODYCOUNT NUMBER IS GREATER THAN HER AGE WILL LIE AND TELL YOU THAT HER BODYCOUNT IS JUST TWO:
1, Her childhood lover or boyfriend WHO RAPED HER...
2, HER EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER...
Imagine that from a 22 years old girl with 25-30 BODYCOUNT grin grin

I
IT'S WOMEN THAT THINGS ARE DEPOSITED IN...
IT'S WOMEN THAT CAN KEEP ṢPĒɌMS ALIVE IN THEIR HOLE FOR UP TO A WEEK AFTER SËX (i pity boys that give head... make una dey chop and swallow other people ṣpëɍmṣ out of these oloshos)

THROUGH DNA & GENETICS, ONE CAN DETERMINE THE BODYCOUNT OF A WOMAN, THROUGH DIFFERENT FOREIGN GENES FOUND IN HER DNA ...


SEX IS MORE THAN JUST THE PHYSICAL, ESPECIALLY RAW SEX, A LOT IS EXCHANGED...


- A woman who is not a virgin is LESS
- SHE'S NOT FIT FOR MARRIAGE, EXPECT IF SHE'S WAS CONFIRMED TO BE RAPED, A WIDOW OR DIVORCED.
CHECK YOUR BIBLE (old testament)

Any man who pays a full bride price on a woman with multiple sexual partners and history is a SIMP and a certified FÕÕL.



WHAT'S THERE TO CHERISH, LOVE, ADORE AND ENJOY IN A HOLE THAT VARIOUS MEN HAVE DEPOSITED THEIR GENETIC FLUIDS?

A girl that has gone through "A LOT"

A girl that "A LOT" has gone through...

A girl that has been passed around like football by multiple men...

GOD FORBID BAD THING!

PERSONAL, I CAN NEVER LOVE A GIRL THAT IT'S NOT ME THAT DEFLOWERED HER OR THAT OTHER MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH.

I can like and tolerate you but I can never ever love you genuinely.


Have your loose mother confessed to your loafer father that you are a product of her oloshoism?
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by MrPOTUS: 10:04am On May 07, 2023
IgbosNIGHTMARE:
Yes!
Especially the women (it's women that USUALLY LIE, about their sexual past, even the useless so-called feminists.
IF SEXUAL EXPERIENCE IS NOT A A BIG DEAL, WHY DO YOU WHÓRËS LIE ABOUT IT?
A GIRL THAT HER BODYCOUNT NUMBER IS GREATER THAN HER AGE WILL LIE AND TELL YOU THAT HER BODYCOUNT IS JUST TWO:
1, Her childhood lover or boyfriend WHO RAPED HER...
2, HER EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER...
Imagine that from a 22 years old girl with 25-30 BODYCOUNT grin grin

I
IT'S WOMEN THAT THINGS ARE DEPOSITED IN...
IT'S WOMEN THAT CAN KEEP ṢPĒɌMS ALIVE IN THEIR HOLE FOR UP TO A WEEK AFTER SËX (i pity boys that give head... make una dey chop and swallow other people ṣpëɍmṣ out of these oloshos)

THROUGH DNA & GENETICS, ONE CAN DETERMINE THE BODYCOUNT OF A WOMAN, THROUGH DIFFERENT FOREIGN GENES FOUND IN HER DNA ...


SEX IS MORE THAN JUST THE PHYSICAL, ESPECIALLY RAW SEX, A LOT IS EXCHANGED...


- A woman who is not a virgin is LESS
- SHE'S NOT FIT FOR MARRIAGE, EXPECT IF SHE'S WAS CONFIRMED TO BE RAPED, A WIDOW OR DIVORCED.
CHECK YOUR BIBLE (old testament)

Any man who pays a full bride price on a woman with multiple sexual partners and history is a SIMP and a certified FÕÕL.



WHAT'S THERE TO CHERISH, LOVE, ADORE AND ENJOY IN A HOLE THAT VARIOUS MEN HAVE DEPOSITED THEIR GENETIC FLUIDS?

A girl that has gone through "A LOT"

A girl that "A LOT" has gone through...

A girl that has been passed around like football by multiple men...

GOD FORBID BAD THING!

PERSONAL, I CAN NEVER LOVE A GIRL THAT IT'S NOT ME THAT DEFLOWERED HER OR THAT OTHER MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH.

I can like and tolerate you but I can never ever love you genuinely.



There are always exceptions to this things bro.

And, everyone should keep themselves till marriage, that's what God required, not just women.

Even God made a prophet marry an harlot.

I'm not suggesting that women should be promiscuous o, but, let's just trust God.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Dedonrukky: 10:07am On May 07, 2023
Yes. So you can have a conscience void of offence towards God and man.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by correctguy101(m): 10:08am On May 07, 2023
NwaNimo1:
Women should 100% of the time......



.....Man should ONLY confess to 1 in 5 occurrences

LMAO

Yeye man.

I see you..

You don make this daddy laff tire grin
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by eroticecstasy: 10:09am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.

A God fearing christian can't commit adultery, you're child of the devil.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by pek(m): 10:14am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their there any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.
. James 5:16. If you are a Christian, that passage of the scripture answers your question. Confession and healing go together.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Dagger111(m): 10:16am On May 07, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't advise such. Take it to your graves. Especially for the woman.



They don lamba every hole wey dey ur body. I can see.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by patrickcollins: 10:17am On May 07, 2023
obyrich:
You are not a Christian if you go around committing adultery. You need not put Christianity and adultery together in a sentence.
A Christian can commit adultery, it happened to men of God, who shared a deep relationship with God like David and others, shows our human nature but one can easily get up from such a fall with the help of Christ.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by isabi2lof: 10:18am On May 07, 2023
They should confess to each other but the man first undecided
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Kulas: 10:23am On May 07, 2023
You must confess to your partner and whatever is the consequences should be accepted. It's not easy but if truly you are true child of God and born again, you must do it and let your heart and conscience be free. This is called a restitution. Can a child of God don't have a conscience. Go and do your restitution if you fall into this category
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Advancedman(m): 10:27am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.

YES
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Major77: 10:31am On May 07, 2023
Very necessary and if I find out is true I will break from the marriage once
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Sharatan(m): 10:34am On May 07, 2023
Better keep your mouth shut and save your marriage. Unless you want that marriage to die. Be warned⚠️🚫❗️

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Fiscus105(m): 10:34am On May 07, 2023
You asked yourself, why God gives humans, "minds to think' in which the nearest person won't know what he/she is thinking.

God knows that it's not everything we do in secret that others should know, for things not damaged beyond repair.



Confess it to God and stop it thereafter.

......for it not to damage more than what you think you want to amend......
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by sokunji(m): 10:35am On May 07, 2023
A man who committed adultery with a married woman should not only confess to his wife, but also to the woman's husband he committed adultery with. Because he offended the man as well.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by juman(m): 10:37am On May 07, 2023
orisa37:
YES AND BEFORE THE WRATH OF GOD CONSUME THEM.

Nothing go consume anybody.
Nothing.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by juman(m): 10:40am On May 07, 2023
No, dont confess.
But dont do it again.
But if child is involved, that another level, the partner and the child should know the truth.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Fiscus105(m): 10:51am On May 07, 2023
IgbosNIGHTMARE:
Yes!
Especially the women (it's women that USUALLY LIE about their sexual past, even the useless so-called feminists).
IF SEXUAL EXPERIENCE IS NOT A A BIG DEAL, WHY DO YOU WHÓRËS LIE ABOUT IT?
A GIRL THAT HER BODYCOUNT NUMBER IS GREATER THAN HER AGE WILL LIE AND TELL YOU THAT HER BODYCOUNT IS JUST TWO:
1, Her childhood lover or boyfriend WHO RAPED HER...
2, HER EX BOYFRIEND WHO CHEATED ON HER...
Imagine that from a 22 years old girl with 25-30 BODYCOUNT grin grin


IT'S WOMEN THAT THINGS ARE DEPOSITED IN...
IT'S WOMEN THAT CAN KEEP ṢPĒɌMS ALIVE IN THEIR HOLE FOR UP TO A WEEK AFTER SËX (i pity boys that give head... make una dey chop and swallow other people ṣpëɍmṣ out of these oloshos)

THROUGH DNA & GENETICS, ONE CAN DETERMINE THE BODYCOUNT OF A WOMAN, THROUGH DIFFERENT FOREIGN GENES FOUND IN HER DNA ...


SEX IS MORE THAN JUST THE PHYSICAL, ESPECIALLY RAW SEX, A LOT IS EXCHANGED...


- A woman who is not a virgin is LESS
- SHE'S NOT FIT FOR MARRIAGE, EXPECT IF SHE WAS CONFIRMED TO BE RAPED, A WIDOW OR DIVORCED.
CHECK YOUR BIBLE (old testament)

Any man who pays a full bride price on a woman with multiple sexual partners and history is a SIMP and a certified FÕÕL.



Everything is not about sex, but WHAT'S THERE TO CHERISH, LOVE, ADORE AND ENJOY IN A HOLE THAT VARIOUS MEN HAVE DEPOSITED THEIR GENETIC FLUIDS?

A girl that has gone through "A LOT"

A girl that "A LOT" has gone through...

A girl that has been passed around like football by multiple men...

GOD FORBID BAD THING!

PERSONAL, I CAN NEVER LOVE A GIRL THAT IT'S NOT ME THAT DEFLOWERED HER OR THAT OTHER MEN HAVE SLEPT WITH.

I can like and tolerate you but I can never ever love you genuinely.


Foreign genes found in her DNA? Indeed u are (igbo-hater) bitter and frustrated beings

Oga, what good for geese also good for gander jare.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by nedu2000(m): 10:56am On May 07, 2023
NO. Especially if the wife is the adulteress best to stop and keep it to yourself. Beg God for forgiveness that is all
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by gannod(m): 11:00am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.



It is the right thing to do. Go to God and ask for forgiveness and then to your partner, confess and ask for forgiveness. I have done that before, I must tell you it is a difficult thing to do, imagine looking your partner in the eyes and telling her you cheated not once, not twice! It takes the grace of God for your spouse to forgive or forget.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by phemmyfour: 11:03am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.
Confess to one another. There is no wrong time of saying the TRUTH
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Eriokanmi: 11:03am On May 07, 2023
Hezzyluv:
Yes if a child is involved already. But, it should be done consulting God in prayer and fasting first. Because, it only takes God for human to forgive such huge sin.
But, if child is not involved, just pray to God for forgiveness and let the matter slide.
Good point. If a child is involved, don't keep it to yourself, tell him and if the man had a child outside marriage, he too should not hide it, he should confess to his wife and damn the consequences.

However, confession is a thing of the mind with God. It isn't about just saying it out. What you confessed today could still repeat itself tomorrow if you don't involve God in it. That's why it's very important you confess to your God only and not any spouse, except child is involved. Human beings 90% of the time, are wired to forgive but never to forget. The remaining 10% is for the real believers. So, why confess to anyone? No matter how religous he or she may be, one day when an issue erupts, the sin of the past could be revisited out of anger. Why not confess it only to God and never go back there again? God isn't man. He doesn't act like we do. After confessing our sins, we must always pray to God to give us the grace to not go back to it again. He forgives and forgets when we confess. Some men/women had been caught in the web of adultery or funication, after they had confessed to their spouse and vowed never to do it again so, what's the need of confessing to man( human in this case) in the first place? God is the only one who has power over flesh and He'd help you overcome it and back your decision.

2 weeks ago I had a revelation about a man. He's a man of God, some of us call him pastor. I saw him in the web of adultery. It was hard to believe. He was being brought down by it. Then, I forgot to tell him. Last week, that thing flashed in my memory and I quickly contacted him and told him about it. He confessed it was true, that just a week earlier, a woman almost brought him down and she had to resist her...and she's never rested. In February, something similsr happened. He almost fell but God upheld him. He was shocked when I told him. He was so grateful. He said he'd keep praying and be more careful now.

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by MrJames007: 11:07am On May 07, 2023
ecolime:

Care to share the reason for this assertion?
Why did you commit adultery
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by maticar: 11:14am On May 07, 2023
UyaiIncomparabl:
I don't advise such. Take it to your graves. Especially for the woman.
your advise doesnt matter, theres a command to 'confess our sins to one another'

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by maticar: 11:16am On May 07, 2023
cutecommend:
As a Christian who fears God, is their any need to confess Adultery to your partner? Or should someone just pray to God for forgiveness and move on? Assuming a secret child is involved, should the Adultery still be confessed or should it be sealed after prayers of forgiveness have been offered to God?
Confession to ones partner should be done after guidance from a good and mature Christian counselor.

Please contribute and advise.
you already answered the question in your closing statement

after prayer and guidance from counselor
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Nobody: 11:25am On May 07, 2023
smiley Yes.. It Is Biblically Advised
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by JoeEeL(m): 11:29am On May 07, 2023
Obakoolex:

Ma'am you're damn pretty 🔥

Always a simp @ every damn corner

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Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Bahamas95(m): 11:35am On May 07, 2023
SenatePresdo:


So if you hurt someone, you would rather ask God for forgiveness than to ask the person?

Was it God you offended or the person?

If both, then why not ask both for forgiveness?
I don't regard apology as a big deal, if I offend someone I would definitely seek for forgiveness but not in a sentitive issue like adultery.

I have this feeling that my wife would never trust me again even after forgiving me, I don't wanna find myself in a situation where I would be trying to get back her trust. Anytime I don't come home early I don't want her to be saying "I hope this man has not started cheating again?"

I would prefer to stop the act, confess to God and shower her with love.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Obakoolex(m): 11:37am On May 07, 2023
JoeEeL:


Always a simp @ every damn corner
Hyena claiming alpha
What's wrong in complimenting a beautiful lady, am happily married so if am a simp to my wife it's all good.
Re: Should Christian Couples Confess Adultery To Their Partners? by Hezzyluv: 11:37am On May 07, 2023
Eriokanmi:
Good point. If a child is involved, don't keep it to yourself, tell him and if the man had a child outside marriage, he too should not hide it, he should confess to his wife and damn the consequences.

However, confession is a thing of the mind with God. It isn't about just saying it out. What you confessed today could still repeat itself tomorrow if you don't involve God in it. That's why it's very important you confess to your God only and not any spouse, except child is involved. Human beings 90% of the time, are wired to forgive but never to forget. The remaining 10% is for the real believers. So, why confess to anyone? No matter how religous he or she may be, one day when an issue erupts, the sin of the past could be revisited out of anger. Why not confess it only to God and never go back there again? God isn't man. He doesn't act like we do. After confessing our sins, we must always pray to God to give us the grace to not go back to it again. He forgives and forgets when we confess. Some men/women had been caught in the web of adultery or funication, after they had confessed to their spouse and vowed never to do it again so, what's the need of confessing to man( human in this case) in the first place? God is the only one who has power over flesh and He'd help you overcome it and back your decision.

2 weeks ago I had a revelation about a man. He's a man of God, some of us call him pastor. I saw him in the web of adultery. It was hard to believe. He was being brought down by it. Then, I forgot to tell him. Last week, that thing flashed in my memory and I quickly contacted him and told him about it. He confessed it was true, that just a week earlier, a woman almost brought him down and she had to resist her...and she's never rested. In February, something similsr happened. He almost fell but God upheld him. He was shocked when I told him. He was so grateful. He said he'd keep praying and be more careful now.

I love this. More of God's anointing on your head.

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