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Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Streetmovement(m): 4:01pm On May 08, 2023 |
Wotoporiously speaking Sometimes parents can be extra in ways they relate with em kids, had issues with my dad too years ago but that fatherly and son love for each other never stopped despite our differences, don't let any issue between you and your father stop y'all from having that father and son relationship, from what I understand you've to be the bigger person here....Have it in mind that Nigerian parents especially father's don't apologize even if their life depends on it. So you've got to do it physically chief, best of luck 🤞 |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by pcagbaji(m): 4:02pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile:You are in order |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Jokkarm2: 4:02pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile: go and pay visit, everything will be settled. make sure you drop envelope when leaving , he will open it in your absence and smile. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by AfonjaConehead: 4:09pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile:Complete your story nah,what kind of argument did you have with your father? Let people know so they know where to start from |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Karleb(m): 4:18pm On May 08, 2023 |
schoolboymatt: Even if it's tears of sorrow, that isn't my problem. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by awoluyi(m): 4:18pm On May 08, 2023 |
When I read the title of this post, I concluded in my mind that the writer must be a son-child. Alas, I was right! It is only a son that will be constable losing contact with his father for 5 months. Let this boy continue with the seed is sowing. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by bekpo(m): 4:19pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile: U r rubbing shoulders with ur father. Ur father is everything to u after God. Don't use ur hand n place curse upon urself. If ur father isn't happy with u, find a way n apologize to him. Ur father is always right, he's not d one 2 come apologize to u. Send a txt of apologies to him and b truly sorry, go to his house(ur house) go on ur kneels, hold his legs and apologize to him, he's ur father. If u allow ur father 2 b angry 2 d extend of placing a curse on u, my dear, u r doomed. I don't know what most of u kids of now a days think, honestly. Humility and respect not only 2 ur parents but ur elders should b ur guiding principle. People die too young nowadays because they have no respect 4 their parents and indeed their elders. May God help u. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by mordred44: 4:20pm On May 08, 2023 |
Obiedun:u also belongs 2 someone |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by schoolboymatt(m): 4:21pm On May 08, 2023 |
Karleb: not of sorrow, believe me. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Blackman101: 4:21pm On May 08, 2023 |
dawnomike: the best advice you can get on the issue at hand right now |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Blackman101: 4:28pm On May 08, 2023 |
From my experience children that looks and act like the father hardly get alone with each other due to age gap. You will get to appreciate him as a son when you get to his age and start see things differently |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by YEMOYEMI: 4:34pm On May 08, 2023 |
Please send him an sms and apologize to him even if you think you were right. When you have your own children, I'm sure you won't like any of them walk away on you. Make peace with him and listen to his counsel. no matter what you are or who you are at the moment, he sure knows more than you and wants the best for you. He's not taking your calls probably he was disappointed you left the house. Please take it easy and sort things out. IkeIgboNile: |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Nobody: 4:35pm On May 08, 2023 |
No shit ... It's your choice ... |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by lifenajeje(m): 4:35pm On May 08, 2023 |
Dey play u hear when u hear say e don die nobody go tell u .. U better run like prodigal son for bible go meet ur papa prostrate or sitdown for him leg and apologise.. Na incident like dis make me no talk to my mama ..when I come ready to travel go visit am na I'm I hear say she don die .. Mum I still miss u Ur daughter in-law miss u Ur grand kids miss u Forgive me .. I love u . |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by phemmyfour: 4:36pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile:When he dies , you ll regret not calling him enough now. Fix your ways with your Father. Learn not to speak back even if you don't agree with his opinion. No father appreciate such character in his children 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Onota: 4:36pm On May 08, 2023 |
Best Advice. dawnomike: |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Chineduokeanwu(m): 4:37pm On May 08, 2023 |
I don't Even know who my father is. You're lucky you have one 2 Likes |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by TheGift: 4:46pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile: Every Man gets to this point, where He needs to assert Himself as His own Man in the eyes of His Father. It is not always frictionless. You have made your point. Good thing you said you are not angry. Now you need to Go and see Him face to face. Find out why He is angry without having any agenda of His own. Whatever the issue is , let him know you feel sorry that He feels that way. And take responsibility for any thing that you May have done or not done. You and your Father must not see eye to eye on everything , in order for you to be at peace him. The longer you wait, the harder it will become. Don't let it get to six months. Don't let it become too late. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by jamesversion: 4:52pm On May 08, 2023 |
How Sons manage to pick a quarrel with their father baffles me. How some use their father for money rituals is unthinkable. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by IkeIgboNiile(m): 4:52pm On May 08, 2023 |
Wow....seeing my first ever thread on front page is so cool, it's only a shame that my account got blocked before i couldn't respond or reply but thank you all for your advice and insults. I really needed them and i appreciate your inputs. Personally i have decided to make peace with him no matter the cost.For all those saying i should go back home but forget that i maybe many miles away from home right now. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by purpleicious(f): 4:54pm On May 08, 2023 |
My brother, have good lasting times with your parents as they won't be with you forever. 1 Like |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by NGArmyTerrorist: 5:00pm On May 08, 2023 |
IyaebeTheGreat:Are you a prophetess? |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Flame77: 5:03pm On May 08, 2023 |
Listen first Borns should be very careful not to upset their parents. As a first born myself, I've come to realise that parents don't joke with the first born. There are somethings other children will do and get away with it and the first born must not dear to try same. Please go see your dad in person, prostrate and beg him. He expects a lot from you and you are failing him. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by BeardedmeatR(m): 5:04pm On May 08, 2023 |
Obiedun:Including teenagers like you. 1 Like |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Nobody: 5:07pm On May 08, 2023 |
I haven't spoke to my too since 2003, Reason, cos his late |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by emerged01(m): 5:09pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile:Guy go home and settle with him o. Make it urgent bro. E get reason o. No think say him go dey alive forever. I never get the death of my mum out of my head. I invited her to spend Christmas and new years with me. She left in January and died in Feb,got buried in march. I still cant believe she is gone. 2 days ago,in the dream I was crying that I lost mum even after a month of burial. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by snipernigga(m): 5:17pm On May 08, 2023 |
How can you be his spitting image and behaving like someone else. The poor man is confused |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Fuckyoumod: 5:21pm On May 08, 2023 |
IkeIgboNile:he is your father, he can't come begging, rather you should go to him for peace and settle whatever differences you have with him. You must make that first step, whether you are wrong or right still kneel to him and apologize before it's too late for you. Because, the more you keep staying away from him, the harder it becomes for him to see you as a worthy son to hand over his home,family, properties to, if any, and everything before he leaves this world. This might force him to tilt to your other brothers leaving you behind. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Allwell96: 5:22pm On May 08, 2023 |
Go to your father and settle your difference. You are an adult now, learn to respect your parents no matter the provocation. That's where your blessings hang. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Megabig: 5:25pm On May 08, 2023 |
Go meet him and be very respectful, take it all in and ensure you settle the differences. It’s not that serious, what’s serious is that your proud azz refused to speak to your dad for months and feel you can pick up your phone and call just anytime you want. |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by malali: 5:34pm On May 08, 2023 |
Go and read about Narcissistic Parents. These are the ones Africans call witches and wizards. Nothing good can ever come out of you as a child if you dont distance yourself from such parents. They are 100% pure evil. 1 Like |
Re: I Haven't Spoken To My Father In 5 Months by Obiedun(m): 6:00pm On May 08, 2023 |
BeardedmeatR:Dey play. |
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