The question you should be asking is, why are 9ja girls known for Hookup?

Greed and evilness is the answer.

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The guy you quoted is right, 98% of them started prostitute as a result of poverty or lack of supports from their parents.

This later turn to habit they find difficult to stop, because they are getting huge easy money from it. Most of the girls you see charging 100k per night started with 2k per night.

U are also stuck in 1991.... lack of support from parents is not what turns pple into prostitutés...its greed and desire for easy money.....u are one of those giving excuses for these women...continue..... if yahoo boys and armed robbers tell u same thing...u will not gree
.prostitutioń is not a trade of suffering girls who dont have choice....enter street make u know wetin dey happen

Po po po poverty.... POVERTY

Long story.

No be all women fit to do that sh×t show.

SHOUT OUT to all the hard working women (if you're not auctioning your body to the highest bidder as work o!). GOD BLESS YOUR HUSTLE. He will make a way for you.

The other ones serve their purpose too

GeneralPula:
The main culprits for the reason hook up culture is prevelant today is 50% men and 50% women fault!
You're not being real. You can't blame men at all. The blame goes to women of these generations.

You know why you can't blame men? Re-visit the Olden days when their was norms and morals. Their was less to no prostitution! The men of the Olden days lived with the norms & characters the way it is..

Girls of the olden days would dressed well covered and the men do appreciate & cherish them that way..

Check today's scenerio - norms and morals are almost extinct. Girls now dress half naked to feel beautiful! Girls of today just wanna be born, grow up, have a man then enjoy the rest of life! 95% of them have no personal basic plan! They just wanna do what they're watching on TV, on Instagram etc..

The men of these days are just wise enough to detect that you can cum off whatever pressure and tension with a few naira, without stress! Men knacks prostitute not because they needed them, but because prostitute are readily available. If all brothels are closed down and prostitution ends, men would still live with it the way it is..

I disagree. Societies have been corrupt for a long long time. It was simply better hidden. What has changed is not corruption itself but the absence of shame.

Secondly whenever there is a fault on society, it will be scaled usually through technology. Its not the girls writing the code for the apps. It's a man somewhere monetizing an informal market place.

Finally there is no solution. All civilizations inevitably fail and fall. The last stage of that failure is sexual depravity and moral decay. This last stage may last for hundreds of years but the end is sure. Another civilization will arise and become dominant.

Okpomiliki..... With a rebrand called Hookup.

Dshocker:


In aboard, you must work in other to pay your bills, nobody is ready to shoulder or accommodate you, not even your siblings.

Everybody is busy and occupied with work, both male and female.

The girls over there are earning pretty well that they can afford their basic life necessity, so using money to woo them will not work, unlike here where there is no source of income, that is why Nigerian girls has to compromise by selling their body.

Places like Canada or England, do you think you can afford to pay the services of a prostitute?.... When you can barely save more than $2,000 in a month.

You can ask new migrants whatsup with their sex life.... Some stay as much as 1-3yrs without sex.

More than 80% of girls into hookup/prostitution/runs or what ever you call it are not happy with the hustle, but are doing it because they have bills to pay.

80% are not happy with the hustle? Oga, stop this rubbish. There are lots of work to do, online and offline. These ladies are lazy and entitled, so they believe they should be paid for having sex with them. They're happy with the nonsense they're doing.

Merch:
Moral decadence and poverty

Poverty ooo.....

Closely followed by greed.

Greediness and laziness. No more no less.

Please nobody should mention poverty o.

It became rampant in Buhari's tenure.
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Wow, let's blame it on the women as usual, let's take no accountability....lol. If this isn't sexism,I don't know what is.....you said it's 50/50 between men and women but you failed to mention the part men play in this IyaTola well-done

Fahvvy:
The rise in the "hucup" culture is 100% the woman's fault! ...

She made the decision to spread her legs for money...

It's her body..
So it's her choice...
And it's 100% her responsibility!!!

And don't tell me "it's because men are throwing money at them" ..

Cause no matter how much money you take to the market, if no one is willing to sell let's say a bag, YOU WILL STILL COME BACK HOME WITH YOUR MONEY WITHOUT THE BAG!!

So hold every wh.ore responsible for her who.redom ...

And besides...
You said, "the hocup culture hurts women more..."

So a female knows that something will hurt her in the long run, but still SHE DECIDES to do it and then turn around to shift the blame someone else ba? ...

How typical of female gender ...

Spot on. You said it all👏

IyaTola:
My point is, the men here criticising hookup ladies should focus on the men who patronise this ladies, not trade itself. The ladies aren't fvcking themselves nor paying ghosts to fvck these ladies. Men like you are the ones paying whether she has a disease or not.

Blaming ladies without blaming the men patronising them comes across as envy. It's not the ladies fault that pussy commands a higher price in the sexual market than pen!s.

Men na Yahoo Yahoo

Women na Olo Olosho

We are all hoes, we just sell different part of ourselves

It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again

DeeBaDan:
Greed


Extreme societal poverty


Lack of self management and control

Remove poverty there my man.

Have you forgotten the "I'm an adult so I have right to date (which actually mean fornicate) whomever I want ......... It's my body so I can do with it what I like etc " mantra ?

It's just ladies choosing to be deliberately immoral and lazy and that's it.

It's now that everywhere is wide and they're unwanted that their eyes may want to opne ?
Maybe

Revolva:
It is finished with Nigerian girls , 80 percent of them around big cities are on codedruns and michat , if you gi those app you wont want anything to do with any naija gal again

Inmessage app , tinder , badoo ,michat , codedruns and some new ones can list even ur babe there

Many university gals list themself to do runs and later delete themself off these app , that does not mean they wont do runs again o , cos a hoe is a hoe.

I am done with an average nigerian girl , they have notin to offer and they feel they can eat their cake and have it ...

Ashewo na ashewo

Poverty. If you dot take good care and attention on the girl child, she may divert to hook up

Poverty.
Supply and demand.
Trauma.

Poverty.
The day I realise one of the girls i respected so much and held in high regards was into hook up i was broken for almost a month, asked her why she was doing that and she told me she has been out of job for a while so she needed money for upkeep.

TOPCRUISE:
Poverty. If you dot take good care and attention on the girl child, she may divert to hook up

It's not only poverty.

I know some well to do girls from well to do and Christian raised family that still decided to be unfortunate on their own.


The main cause is that morals have depleted.

And the easiest way to spot all them is that they're usually the ones that say"after all women are getting married every day" to mumu men. But find out if those homes usually last for long.

Law of demand and supply.

I've been blocking my girlfriend phone number anytime she's in sch for the past 2 years now. She can't call me n I don't call her. No please send me 5k or whatever. I can't be at home forming loverboy when you are in sch enjoying yourself banging gbolas.

laziness na de do all of dem new generation girls...they are all useless these days , na jusy 20 percent of nigerian girls are available for a larger population of men who need a sensible well cultured woman to marry

the rest na ashewo dem de do .....

na so dem plenty on all hookup site all over social media....


@angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday2 and @strongalphmale advises us to beware of nigerian girls they are all uselesss

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Inmessage app , tinder , badoo ,michat , codedruns and some new ones can list even ur babe there

Many university gals list themself to do runs and later delete themself off these app , that does not mean they wont do runs again o , cos a hoe is a hoe.

I am done with an average nigerian girl , they have notin to offer and they feel they can eat their cake and have it ...

Ashewo na ashewo

and one mu dey look for decent gal

See grown men worry about what the other gender do with her vag.ina.

When are we gonna talk about yahoo boys culture. These ba.stards that render people homeless and penniless.

Every young boy in Nigeria is a potential yahoo yahoo boy. May your days be doom! May you eat with rats and cockroaches in your last days.
May your homes be ruined and May tears never depart from your dwellings

WoroSeeWoro:
laziness na de do all of dem new generation girls...they are all useless these days , na jusy 20 percent of nigerian girls are available for a larger population of men who need a sensible well cultured woman to marry

the rest na ashewo dem de do .....

na so dem plenty on all hookup site all over social media....


@angrygoat @womenareapezz @savedday2 and @strongalphmale advises us to beware of nigerian girls they are all uselesss

for codedruns. they wan marry one day to their future husband

DaveHarry:
I've been blocking my girlfriend phone number anytime she's in sch for the past 2 years now. She can't call me n I don't call her. No please send me 5k or whatever. I can't be at home forming loverboy when you are in sch enjoying yourself banging gbolas.

was she a virgin?

Dshocker:
In developed countries, before a woman will open her legs for a man, it means she loves him.

So poverty and lack of jobs are the major cause fueling the insatiable greed in some girls to open their legs anytime, provided that the theme; money for hand, back for ground

These girls just wants to survive.

Imagine an oil rich country like Nigeria paying her citizens above 18yrs 250k for monthly upkeep, do you think that hookup will be thriving?

What happens in Nigeria is prostitution: exchange of sex for money/other valuables.

Hook up is really about casual sex aka one night stands prevalent in the West and trickling down to Nigeria.

I don't think we need to adopt the western culture of 50% inheritance if marriage dissolves. I think 10% for the lower earning partner (the man or woman), but more financial responsibility for the kids, from who earns more.

The case about where the kids will stay, should be based on who has time and the means to carter for the kids. But visiting should be equal.

@IyaTola:

It would be helpful to differentiate between what occurs in Nigeria: prostitution aka exchange of sex for money

And what occurs in the West: causal sex aka one night stand which is actually the hookup culture.

For Nigeria: prostitution is caused majorly by greed, unresourcefulness, laziness etc. on the part of the men & women. A few women/young girls are victims of trafficking and kidnapping for prostitution.

For the West: hookup is majorly caused by feminism which taught women that they are free to sexually explore aka sleep around. Now, feminism claims that men have been promiscuous for ages and applauded. Instead of holding the men accountable, they strangely preferred to 'join' the men and rather insist that they are not slut shamed. Because of free sex, men wonder why they should buy the cow when they can get the milk for free.

In all of the above, there are young men and women in Nigeria & the West who have decided (due to religion, morals, upbringing or personal determination) to apply sexual restraint and shun instant gratification. To them I say kudos and may God/life lead you to similar partners who have reserved themselves.

Divorce the man and take half of what he owns?

OP, If you live in Nigeria, what does that have to do with you? Is that your reality? Is that what happens in Nigeria? Abeg!


And hookup culture has always existed in Nigeria, the Internet has just made it easier.