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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by JohnBullMySon: 9:52pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:Read the details. Even in Nigeria, you can't handle your kid like that. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 9:52pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:Do you live in diaspora? then you should know how these things work. One parent has to bear the consequence. It was either her or the man. The moment that child returned to school, the school will take up the matter due to the marks on his body. Yes, schools check the bodies of kids for marks. If they find a mark, they take the kid in for questioning. Child services/police will be contacted, and then the parents would be taken in for questioning. As long as those marks are visible, there is no running away. It was either her or the man taking the fall. Would you have preferred it to be the woman going to jail? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Octopusssy(f): 9:52pm On May 15, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:It's quite shameful, really 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by olisaEze(m): 9:55pm On May 15, 2023 |
As you consider countries to japa to, also consider their laws and how it affects your self worth as a family man. This man forgot himself totally and didn’t consider that his wife was brought up in a different culture. Oh, woe to ye male inhabitants of the earth for these are the days of the pseudo-amazons, the worshippers of the feminine goddess, Hecate, spreading their gospel of feminism. For they come with a heart of fiery vengeance against the innocent male folk of the West African province. Fury against escapees of bad governance who are innocent of the years of these sophists repression or their mental conditioning. They want to people the earth with effeminate men, oh, woe to ye men who don’t understand that japa doesn’t solve all, but rather only presents new hurdles. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Sonyboom: 9:55pm On May 15, 2023 |
I know foolish people like you must comment, what part doing your work is not talking to the kid yet he refused to but instead carry computer game de play but I understand if you are destined to be foolish nothing can stop you from being exceedingly foolish. jackcanfield: |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 9:56pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: If your parent physically disciplining you is considered abuse then 90% of Nigerian kids are abused and guess what? Overall they are still much more well behaved than American or European kids. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:56pm On May 15, 2023 |
SavageResponse:How does resorting to not flogging a child amount to over-indulging him? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 9:56pm On May 15, 2023 |
webcrafty:We all always say Children are the Leaders of tomorrow,, but we in Nigeria always train our Children well, but Nigeria is still a Shithole? While the UK always train der children to be Dumb and Mumu as u say,, In the next 50yrs,, dis Dumb and untrained kids you ar Insultin will be doin well in de Government in UK Guy try de get Civilization |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:57pm On May 15, 2023 |
richmond500: the above is as stupid (no offense) as saying that because some people drive drunk and kill people, we should ban driving altogether. YES some parents are abusive to their kids but, educating a child through mild corporal punishment is not abuse. correctguy101: a child has to learn somehow someway, so when you tell your child DONT DO something, and they knowingly go and do it, then you have to show that child that your words should be respected/followed. even a gentle smack upside the head would leave marks on that child's body...thus can get you arrested. sadly, in todays world, it pains these kids more if you take away their gadgets than beating them black and blue. the father should have just unplugged that Playstation or whatever it was and throw it through the window... play these kids at their own yeye game. problem solved! 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Nobody: 9:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
RaptorX:Keep deceiving urself We all always say Children are the Leaders of tomorrow,, but we in Nigeria always train our Children well, but Nigeria is still a Shithole? While the UK always train der children to be Dumb and Mumu as u say,, In the next 50yrs,, dis Dumb and untrained kids you ar Insultin will be doin well in de UK Government Guy try de get Civilization 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 9:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:1. The abuse ended in my case at 14 after I angrily tried to throw my dad and myself down the stairs while he was attempting to punish me yet again. I was already emotionally battered by it all by then. I am certain there are many such cases of teenagers fighting their parents back that you know of. 2. That is a rubbish conclusion abeg! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Sonyboom: 9:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
Foolish n senseless comment many for NL I swear. How many children was beaten that became dumb from your neighborhood primary secondary to university if you have graduated ? Una go open foolish mouth make foolish comment without caution. richmond500: 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Octopusssy(f): 9:58pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:Coco leave English. Beating is part of the installer of respect. If you do anyhow you go collect |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Pat081: 9:59pm On May 15, 2023 |
If I am the man after spending jail time and am out I will b nice to all of them for some months or years after some time I will find a way of getting them to Nigeria to teach them a lesson they will never forget in their life 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:00pm On May 15, 2023 |
Octopusssy: To the extent that the child is bruised? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 10:00pm On May 15, 2023 |
Octopusssy:See below actions of Nigerian kids who were beaten and had respect installed in them. Violence begets violence. 1 Like
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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:01pm On May 15, 2023 |
There’s no way a gentle smack is leaving bruises on a kid. Be for real. Unless your definition of gentle is different MrBrownJay1: |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:02pm On May 15, 2023 |
etrange: as i said earlier, there is a big difference between abuse and corporal punishment... and as much as some parent are evil abusers, thats not the majority of parents. in most case, the 1st time you flog your child, he/she learn their lesson and start to listen to their parents. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by webcrafty: 10:03pm On May 15, 2023 |
Lewisjohnson:Check well my man. Most people making UK function today are foreigners/immigrants not the "knife wielding youths they are breeding". 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:03pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy: i didnt say bruises, i say a mark.... aka swelling/reddish of the skin (especially if that child is mixed) |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by ZIMDRILL(m): 10:04pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621: i agree with you on action and consequences the problem with most africans, we dont explain in details, therefore our kids dont understand their own action eg a child sometimes is not allowed to explain his/her action becoz s/he is not allowed to explain him/her regardless his/her point of view is useless untill us parent let out children explain i their own reasoning we will never understand how they think and u will able to guide them based on their individual thinking unfortunately most african cultures doesnt allow children to explain themselves regardless whether they make sense or not the most common phrase used by children o the western is " why" therlir asking for your reason/s the ideak is |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Elsueno: 10:04pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: Why would he even wanna come near a kids who willingly threw him in jail?.. in fact I would be happy if I never see any of them in my life..as for child support?, nothing do, I go pay am, after all it's my responsibility as father till they rich adulthood & I cut them off permanently! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Octopusssy(f): 10:04pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:I agree that some parents cross the line between discipline and abuse, but overall mild corporal punishment is one of the effective ways to keep a naughty child in line. Even the bible says in the book of Proverbs that "foolishness is bound in the heart of a child but the rod of correction will drive it far from him". |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by cococandy(f): 10:05pm On May 15, 2023 |
If you are intelligent you’d know that bruising is an indication of injury underneath the skin. Meaning it could be internal bleeding, hairline fracture, punctured ribs/lungs. An open wound with the bleeding controlled is far better than bruising because at least you know what you’re dealing with. Don’t be ignorant and try to tell someone else they are unintelligent. You sound moronic when you do that. Sonyboom: 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Sonyboom: 10:05pm On May 15, 2023 |
I stopped my dad beating me when I showed him I can slam him with my step mom shouting but still in support of flogging but with caution not with this European style of jailing parent. The worse that should happen here is a warning or at worse community service. It as to be crazy if flogging one child is categorize as a criminal offense when you there is every prove of being a responsible parent. I pay your tuition, feed house n provide all your needs from A - Z n a system criminalizes disciplining over a obvious wrong doing that you have been warned about, that can't be right. Kobojunkie: |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by billyG(m): 10:06pm On May 15, 2023 |
THIS IS MADNESS! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 10:06pm On May 15, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: You must be one heavyweight or perhaps your dad no get weight.......We all know that parents can over do things at times but to throw away the entire notion of physical discipline just because of that makes no damn sense! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by JohnBullMySon: 10:08pm On May 15, 2023 |
abbey621:Exaggerated stories. People calling their parents by their first names may not even be up to 5 percent. Do you have any examples? Adults yes but not parents. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Sonyboom: 10:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
What you wrote here proves you are brain dead, no point enlightening your foolishness any further. Injury under the skin..lol I guess you have no idea what internal bleeding entails so I leave you to delude yourself, hairline fracture 😂😂😂😂 Bruises now equal punctured ribs n lungs 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You beta go open a joke factory. cococandy: 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Fuckyoumod: 10:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
cococandy:did your father not flog you? So your papa for chop 3 years for flogging you? |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Otogah: 10:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
Ireportlive:wayward but controlling us 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 10:09pm On May 15, 2023 |
ZIMDRILL: I agree with you to an extent, some things do not need explanation such as skipping school, drugs, juvenile sex and so on. The way the world is going, kids are getting bolder and bolder, parents must learn to balance the western way of parenting with our traditional African methods, otherwise these kids would have no future to look forward to. |
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