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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by abbey621(m): 1:02am On May 16, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Again what you wrote has no bearing on the fact that I stated, minorities are still dominating top 20 high schools in America in terms of intelligence. You can argue all you want, it is just one of the reference point of why the parenting styles of minorities are preferred over Caucasians or black Americans. So get back to topic Mr. or Ms. member, when all things are equal and Nigerian kids are presented with the same opportunities as non Nigerian kids, do they excel or not? Overall, are Nigerian kids in the USA more well behaved than their American peers? Yes Nigeria as a whole is messed up and lots of work to be done but this does not take away from my point on parenting style! P.S I also work with data, in fact I.T audit to be precise, my employer J.P. Morgan Chase is also one of the largest contributors to minority communities, keep up the good work! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Napata77: 1:02am On May 16, 2023 |
SmartyPants: THANK YOU VERY MUCH. THESE PRIMITIVE SADISTS ON NAIRALAND SEEM TO THINK IT IS OKAY TO INFLICT BRUISES ON A CHILD OUT OF ''DISCIPLINE''. THAT IS JUST PURE SAVAGERY AND ABUSE. YOU HAVE NO RIGHT TO DO THAT TO ANY HUMAN BEING, EVEN IF IT'S ''YOUR'' CHILD. (He's not actually yours, he's GOD'S child. You're just the vessel used to birth him) 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:07am On May 16, 2023 |
matm: Well, the kids over there where you are kidnap adults, schoolmates, and even family members for fast money. They also scam everyone they can, join cults, and steal from family and strangers alike just so they can spray money at parties, flex, pour champagne on the floor of nightclubs, and drive an outdated Benz. If Nigeria had reliable, consistent methods of reporting crimes and compiling data, you’d see that it’s just as bad, if not worse, than the Western world. Do you consider that a curse from God? Every country in the world has troubled children and young adults but instead of addressing the root cause, maybe it’s easier to point fingers and look down on others 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Napata77: 1:09am On May 16, 2023 |
JohnBullMySon: THANK YOU. If that man injures his child like that in Nigeria and it gets to court, he WOULD be punished. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:16am On May 16, 2023 |
Shokoloko: The way you explained it is exactly the way it works. If she wouldn’t have taken him to the hospital and his injuries wouldve been discovered, this worthless man would’ve blamed her, laughed while she languished in jail, and continued beating his remaining children like animals. You didn’t ask me the question but if you don’t mind, I’d like to answer. Yes, they would’ve preferred if the woman went to jail. Here they are, blaming both her and the child because the evil, mentally unstable father chose to beat a 9 year old with a metal pipe! If it was a belt or similar object then maybe I could try to understand but a metal pipe? My sister, they don’t even know if the family was known to child services authorities already and the mother was compelled to take him to the hospital because she knew they were being watched. They don’t seem to care that this small child could’ve easily had a damaged organ or internal bleeding from being beaten with a metal pipe. They don’t care that the story says there was evidence of the other children being abused and they definitely don’t care if this man routinely beat his wife to within an inch of her life—the only thing they can see of that everything is the fault of the woman and the child. 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Hotguy27: 1:18am On May 16, 2023 |
Ulunne777: God bless you. I was just reading comments to see who could take exact notes of what you have said here. The woman behaved as if it was a deliberate set up against the man. She knew that if she took the child to a hospital, it would be escalated and she just did that. She even testified against the husband when actually she was the one that initiated the whole trouble by stopping the child from playing game. The man was just trying to ensure that her order was carried out. This is why I don't accept to punish my children when the report is coming from my wife. She has to do the punishment her self. Besides, women use that way to set the fathers against their children. Making them look like the wicked one and the mothers the loving ones. I learnt this lesson since before making children. Sometimes, when I beat my children my wife would pet them and give them biscuits. So, when she beats them I would pet them, give them biscuits, soft drinks and take them out for shopping. Now, my children always peck me and say "Daddy, I love you" I can't come and kill myself. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:26am On May 16, 2023 |
Ulunne777: The story clearly says while the wife was away, the husband came home and found him playing on the computer—it wasn’t reported to the husband by the wife. If he felt he had no other alternative, he could’ve used a belt or anything else within reason to spank the child in a corrective manner. He chose to beat the child with a metal pipe because he had no real control over his household. The bruises and cuts were still visible on the child’s body after several days—was paracetamol going to magically making those disappear? If he was bleeding internally or had a serious injury, would paracetamol cure that? Bruises and cuts leave scars which would’ve eventually been seen by someone outside the household—then what? One or both of the parents would’ve had to take the blame and bear the consequences. If beatings worked, the child would’ve never stopped doing his online schoolwork to begin with. The online classes were provided by the school and cost the family nothing. Kids were issued free laptops to use at home and in most cases, provided with free high-speed internet. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:39am On May 16, 2023 |
I had to 'deport' my own woman from this yeye Europe back to naija last month for a similar reason after repeated pleas and warnings She was becoming too violent with the children even flogging my daughter on their way to school. I had to leave work and come back to pet the pikin mek she no go talk for school say dem beat am from house. The next day, I called my wife to discuss the issue in private as a couple. Na so the woman begin shout dey insult me. I come begin fear mek neighbours no call police for domestic abuse again. She started telling me that she wants to go back to Nigeria. I asked if she will go with the kids and she said no. I come reason am say this woman wants to cause me wahala that can lead to loss of the job that brought us to Europe. When she continued showing attitude, I asked her to put it in writing that she wants to go. When she write finish, I just book am ticket back to naija fir the next morning flight. She did not believe me until when I carry am reach schipol Airport.. she come dey shock. She is not the type to ever apologise to me so I deport am. Now she is making trouble in naija that I pursued her. I now live with the two kids. It is tough but my job is nice and allows me to go to office only 2 times a week. My peace is worth the stress of living as a single father. I have worked too hard from abject poverty to an expatriate position with a multi national to allow woman mess up my life with disrespect and anger issues. Worst case, the marriage end. Can't let no woman Bleep my life up.. 5 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:44am On May 16, 2023 |
Razgas: Do you ever consider the fact that White people went back and colonized Africa after first being invited there to buy humans as slaves? Africans sold other Africans to White people and that showed White people Africans didn’t care—that they could go back and do anything they wanted which they did. Scamming isn’t done to change circumstances, scamming is done out of wickedness and greed. If it was done to change circumstances, scammers would’ve used proceeds to improve their surroundings and uplift their homelands. When they move to countries with opportunities and plenty of jobs, they still scam rather than change their circumstances legally. The changing times, not western culture, is to blame for the way kids all over behave. Are you forgetting that there is a rapidly growing drug culture in Nigeria? What about kidnapping and cultism? Did you forget about the small schoolboy in your country that was bullied, beaten, and turned over to his parents as a corpse? Or the train full of people who were kidnapped and later killed one by one? For every bad thing happening with kids in the west, I can name something bad happening in Nigeria or anywhere else—but what good does pointing fingers do? Wicked men have been sodomizing small boys and raping children all over the world, including Nigeria, long before LGBTQ became a thing. Did the West cause that also? There’s no tolerance for LGBTQ in Africa and some places even have death penalties and laws against it yet I keep reading stories about male and female children being sexually violated by adults of the same sex. Everywhere has problems and it doesn’t always start in the west. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Staphylococcus: 1:45am On May 16, 2023 |
madridguy: That’s why they produce the worst set of kids! If you want the heigh of mannerless and lost kids, move to the west! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:45am On May 16, 2023 |
TrainPark: Sir, I don’t know you from Adam but thank you for doing what you needed to in order to save your children from abuse and trauma. Instead of making excuses, you took actions as a real man should take. You could’ve had her thrown in jail but deporting her was better. Your actions will pay off tenfold and your blessings will be endless. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 1:49am On May 16, 2023 |
TrainPark:Which kain yeye story be this abeg! it is upside down! ![]() 3 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 1:50am On May 16, 2023 |
Staphylococcus: Yes because kids in the west are killing schoolmates and setting their bodies on fire because of something the schoolmate said. Kids in the West are also joining cults and kidnapping innocent motorists in hopes of making quick money to flex and drive outdated Benz, right? The FBI is working with the EFCC to arrest and extradite scammers in the West that drive kids in Nigeria to commit suicide, right? Wrong. Quit pointing fingers when troubled, mannerless, and lost kids exist in every country in the world, including Nigeria and America. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:51am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: And it is all true, bros me! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 1:53am On May 16, 2023 |
TrainPark:Are the kids her kids or her step kids? ![]() |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:54am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie:Her own kids! |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kobojunkie: 1:55am On May 16, 2023 |
TrainPark:aahhh! tor! ![]() 1 Like
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Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by TrainPark: 1:57am On May 16, 2023 |
Kobojunkie: I just reason am say devil wan use this one mess me up. Na him I act ooo 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Staphylococcus: 2:06am On May 16, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: When do kids start violence in Nigeria? Can you compare it to the US? Do you know about gang violence in the UK or US? Tell me one 15 year old kid that is a lunatic in the WHOLE Nigeria and I will mention 10 in the US. 10 teenagers that started catching bodies from teen years You mention cultism, cult groups in Nigeria are not up to 1% of deadly gangs in the US. Do you know what age kids starts catching bodies (killing) in the US or UK? Can you compare it to Nigeria? What age do kids get into drugs in both worlds? Can you compare the number of drug overdose amongst teens in US to Nigeria? I am sure you won’t! Hello! All the vices are for a kid to go lunatic have their HQ in the West! Kids that have been orientated about their rights in school, and ready to explore it. Even the decent ones amongst them, just let them clock 16 and they start setting boundaries, why it’s a norm for parents to kick them out once they start growing wings. 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 2:25am On May 16, 2023 |
Staphylococcus:Taaa! I went to a federal government college and I can tell you that kids murder kids in boarding school. Kids as young as 12-15 murder their fellow classmates. It happens till date, very rampant. Which Nigerian kid went to boarding school and cannot remember at least one kid that was murdered by "senior students " in the hostel? When I was in Nigeria, I lived in a high brow area with "good security" yet my neighbour's cars were bring stolen left right and center. The thieves would even come in broad daylight. Since I got to this country, I have not had any reason to lock my car doors. Amazon delivery drops off my package at my door in the morning and I come back to see it in the evening. Some days I forget to locknmy doors overnight. Have you ever see a home in the western world with burglar bars. Yet in Nigeria if you don't have iron gate ans burglar bars it's over for you because the youth will come and "visit" you. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Staphylococcus: 2:33am On May 16, 2023 |
Shokoloko: That is one in a million! By all norms, A 15 year old boy is still under his family control. He is not exposed and destructive vices readily available to him. 15 year old catching bodies is a norm in the US, its won’t even be a breaking news. Like I said, the vices for a kid to go lunatic are abundant in the West. It’s far more easier to raise a kid in Nigeria than the US. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Hamiltonii: 2:45am On May 16, 2023 |
Mindlog: But turn out to be gays and satanic vessels. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kingosytex(m): 2:51am On May 16, 2023 |
SavageResponse: Yes, he's flogged himself into prison and might not have achieved his desired aim as the child might likely think himself to be the boss now ![]() 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Kingosytex(m): 3:01am On May 16, 2023 |
abbey621: At the bolded, the kids in the West will best ours here in all ramifications, it's just a fact. The structures and everything that brought about the 'bolded' were developed by western men who were once western kids. The question here is: what exactly have we achieved despite the discipline we claim to be inculcating in our children through beatings? Yahoo is on the rise, cultism, ballot box snatching, dishonesty (an honest person is seen and termed as a fool), corrupt/ cash and carry judges, ritual killings which they now call 'grace', olosho.ism which they now christened as hook up/link up and all forms of societal violence. What exactly have we achieved? Evil still rules over good here despite the said discipline we claim to imbibe ![]() ![]() The said western kids who lack morals grow up to be relatively law abiding, creative, and innovative while their so called disciplined peers in Africa (Nigeria to be precise) are the ones mostly involved in all forms of evil. I'm not against disciplining a child, beating should be out of it. There are better ways of achieving the desired results than beating, giving the child corporal punishment like 'pick pin' is much better than flogging a child to the extent of giving him or her bruises. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 3:46am On May 16, 2023 |
drlateef: Since this happened in the UK, I’m sure that he won’t be allowed anywhere around those children, especially not in the same house with them. That whole spiel he told about her being angry is nothing but a lie and an excuse—the wife may be a citizen and not need his help to bring anyone. He lied about everything else so I’m sure he lied about her wanting to get back at him. If he wouldn’t have beat his child senseless with a metal pipe, his wife wouldn’t have had a reason to take the boy to the hospital and he wouldn’t be sitting in jail. Men who brutalize children and women are usually too coward to fight with another man. [b]Everyone in prison finds out what someone is there for and it’s no secret that child molesters and abusers get the holy shit beat out of them in prison. This guy is over 60 years old going to a prison filled with young, strong, aggressive men. His beatings and discipline are loading. 😃 Any mother that would let her child remain bruised, cut, and in pain with God knows what else wrong in order to protect a man who would probably beat the child again before his wounds heal is a worthless woman that can’t be considered a real mother. The wife did the right thing. 2 Likes |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:01am On May 16, 2023 |
Shokoloko: Ma’am, you spit out all the facts! 😚 |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:14am On May 16, 2023 |
Hamiltonii: Let me ask you a question. Whether you admit it or not, Nigeria has a serious epidemic of child molestation, incest, and child sexual assault. Why are some Nigerians so preoccupied (to the point of obsession) with adults in the West that choose to have sexual relations with consenting adults of the same sex but turn a blind eye to the huge social problem of adults forcing sexual relations on children of both sexes who are too young to consent in their own country? Do a thread search and see the high amount male and female monikers who were sodomized, raped, and molested by adults telling their stories and admitting that nothing was done to the adult. Thread after thread, pages and pages long. Next, search the threads for all the stories of female CHILDREN being impregnated by their fathers, family members, or other adult males and you’ll see an endless amount of threads. Very few monikers condemn the evil, sick, perverts in those threads but let it be something about LGBTQ and you’ll see monikers storming the thread with comments. What makes people tolerant to adults sodomizing little boys, raping, molesting, and even impregnating little children in their own country but so angry and triggered about the sexual practices of consenting adults that they’ll never come face to face with in other countries? Are men who sodomize boys not considered gay pedophiles? Are women who molest girls not considered gay pedophiles either? To me, both of those are much worse than any LGBTQ can ever be. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Shokoloko(f): 4:17am On May 16, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican:Thanks! You impress me as well ![]() 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by WantsandMore: 4:20am On May 16, 2023 |
MrBrownJay1:they've spared the rod & spoilt the children. |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:26am On May 16, 2023 |
Staphylococcus: Then why are so many Nigerians willing to sacrifice anything to get their children passports from Western countries like the good old USA or any other country? Why are some Nigerians paying hundreds of million Naira to buy their children passports from small, hardly developed Caribbean island nations? Why do so many Nigerians, my own family included, give birth their children in the US or bring their children to the US and never look back? 1 Like |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by 1stGenAmerican(f): 4:30am On May 16, 2023 |
Shokoloko: 💖 |
Re: London Court Jails Nigerian Three Years For Flogging Son by Staphylococcus: 4:41am On May 16, 2023 |
1stGenAmerican: Nigeria as it odds and I am not disputing that. When it comes to morals, etiquettes, values, and community efforts in raising kids, the US is not close. Yes, the standards of education is good and the opportunities are abound, but those same positivities comes will deadly ills. Blue passport is not a secured future. All the junkies in California and New York all have blue passport. All the gang members in California, Illinois, Tennessee and Alaska all have Blue passport. It’s just a social status thing, and having a Blue passport does not spare you from those dangers. Bullets, drugs and gangs don’t require citizenship. |
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