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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Telldem1(m): 9:17pm On May 16, 2023 |
Eyaah take it to the Lord in prayer. As for baba ijebu , I dreamt of two numbers only to wake up and remember one which is 28. You can try in Enugu, bingo, club master, vag, msp, royal, fair chance. Gold etc just ask anybody to assist you his or her banker. If you win let me know ooo |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by osazsky(m): 9:17pm On May 16, 2023 |
Bewiseedet:all of us na addict on nl...waiting u come want make we tell u..d goal is to win 50m sir 4 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Originalsly: 9:18pm On May 16, 2023 |
My advice is to first sit and take time out to read up and fully understand what it means to be addict. When you do ... you will understand his behaviors and know that you are wasting time explaining and trying to understand why he doesn't see sense. When he is ready he will quit ... you can't force him to quit.... but you can help him to come to that point. You can both watch movies pertaining to addiction that will register on him ... e.g The Corner ... which is a documentary and has great impact. He is no different from a drug addict... they're all the same ... money gets to their hands it must be used immediately to feed the addiction. Maybe you can appeal to his ego ... very dear to a man ... by implying that you may need to find a real man .. one who makes his family a priority. But if he's the violent type ..... hmmm. P.S My mechanic gambles on numbers ... different games .. I think one is every hour or less... he just be killing me! We'll be in the middle of a conversation and a car pulls up .... while I'm looking to see who is the driver etc he is muttering to himself ... 2947?.... 2947? ... that's a good number .... hold on ... I'll be right back.... it's the number on the license plate he rushes off to play without attending to the customer. 5 Likes 1 Share
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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by isabi2lof: 9:19pm On May 16, 2023 |
stevnwigw1: So it's now the duty of the woman to get a grown up man a job to do . You can as well get him a job , alpha male indeed 4 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Archworld(m): 9:22pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: If you have prayed about it , stop insulting/cursing him. Consistently speak what you want into his life. Do not deviate from your prayer even if his present attitude is speaks otherwise. Consistently say what you want irrespective of what you see in him. Most of us have all been involved in gamble and got rescued from it 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by excel101(m): 9:23pm On May 16, 2023 |
So your husband is good at "Agbor rest" This one you're exposing him publicly. What about if your husband wins like #2m, I wonder your reaction |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 9:25pm On May 16, 2023 |
isabi2lof:Precisely! 4 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Merovi: 9:25pm On May 16, 2023 |
Skyfornia: Thumbs up Brother . (went to work) |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Merovi: 9:29pm On May 16, 2023 |
ChizzyBuna: Still goaless @70 min. 3 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Dexy4yah(m): 9:29pm On May 16, 2023 |
Thank God i don't do that shit...it's very addictive just like drugs. I went to betking to charge my phone....i saw a man spent 70k on visual....one of the girls working there advised the man to stop for today. The man never wanted going... I pray God to touch your husband so that he will put an end to gambling. 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Telldem1(m): 9:30pm On May 16, 2023 |
labake1:wait for the second coming of Jesus. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by riverbird: 9:31pm On May 16, 2023 |
I really feel your pain |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Youngsage: 9:32pm On May 16, 2023 |
@o.p, send me a p.m. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 9:32pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me:All these people asking you to pray — destiny4luv, Oloki, nappy760, Westernequinox, KazikageSama, ElijahIme1992, Blackazuma99, Zion243, MASTAkiLLAh, cyprianken, Starz825, Praktikals1000, TheOnlyUyai, isax, Herberthansome, ogascomax — do you know what they have in common? They detest your kind, any woman who would even consider life outside of bondage in marriage as a better option. They despise the fact that you would dare to consider abandoning marriage to one of their own. But guess what? Absolutely none of them would think to pray, even for a second, if they were to find themselves shackled to anything close to what you are dealing with. You better wake the fk up from your brain damage, get out there, and do whatever you need to, to jumpstart your life and situation. God will not answer you; I can assure you of that because God is not a liar. He established the fact that He does not answer the unrighteous- Isaiah 1 and Isaiah 59. You can sit and try to go against Him while you watch your youth and vigor vanish from you in what seems a dead-end situation, or you can get off your butt, go out there, and make yourself an employed woman, for the sake of your and your child. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Ambassadorial(m): 9:32pm On May 16, 2023 |
Your case is very simple. You don't need to divorce him because of gambling. Prayer can solve it. I have seen a case worse than yours and the wife kept praying until holy spirit appears to him in the dream. Don't leave your husband else you will regret your actions. What of immediately you leave him and he hits a big money? |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 9:33pm On May 16, 2023 |
See them! —Telldem1, Archworld Ambassadorial — all hate you so much, they can't stand you even dreaming of better than what you have for your existence. 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by odenkirk: 9:35pm On May 16, 2023 |
the day he won 1billion from alabi you wouldnt be here complaining a poor guy is truggling to put food on your table nd u are here complaining. he is a true hustler |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by rooftops: 9:35pm On May 16, 2023 |
danilho:Na so |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by jaxxy(m): 9:36pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Addiction to anything is bad and gambling is a major disaster Addiction. Ure husband needs education on what gambling is and how it works and is configured to make u lose than win. U don't play gambling with ur last income. u play it with what u can throw away even though economically no money should be thrown away. He's pursuing a Fantasy win that only few get and most of them don't play with their last savings or borrowed money. For ur mental health get a source of income urself and stop being totally or too dependent on ur husband and when u are averagely independent u can seek a separation not a divorce so he can have time to reflect on what he's doing to himself or go and stay with ur parents for awhile. He's trying make big money for his family bt he's doing it the wrong way. He needs financial education. Gambling can make a rich man broke very easily. 3 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by riverbird: 9:36pm On May 16, 2023 |
This gambling thing is a no no for any person that is serious with his life and future. 2 Likes |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Honsla: 9:37pm On May 16, 2023 |
omoadeleye:fear who never collect no be for gambling ohh |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by LaRosa01: 9:37pm On May 16, 2023 |
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Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by gentlesmithugo(m): 9:39pm On May 16, 2023 |
Exmilitant:u r not a responsible man aswear.is that all u have to say.shame on u |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Kobojunkie: 9:40pm On May 16, 2023 |
RenegadeX:Why? You would rather she continue praying in vain? Here, I explain exactly why God does not answer your prayers when you call on Him and you take issue with me, why? |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by LaRosa01: 9:45pm On May 16, 2023 |
I haven't heard from the guy in question but it is already clear to me that you are the problem. 1} when a woman begins to mention divorce ,she has made up her mind she is simply looking for encouragement to do the evil did. 2}the man is depressed and from the way you speak,you must be the chief cause. 3]you can go ahead with the divorce but know he may come out better,because without your stress ,he can focus,women are either a blessings(a mans peace) or a mans down fall. Dearlove2me: 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by easzypeaszy(m): 9:45pm On May 16, 2023 |
You go hear me? 80% of the problem is from you. I am married and we knows how it is not having a job as a married man with a kid or kids. Do you appreciate every penny he gives u or u just ask what for type of qstns? Do you complain abt everytin? Do u respect him or just look or and watch him in disgust? So you motivate him or use passive word like on him? Is he seeing hope in you? Dis is wen u as a woman need to show what makes u a good wife Divorcing him will cause u more Mama I don tell you my own bc it seems you nagg alot. No man will believe most of ur stories even if you post wetin pass Garba Shehu own Most women once dey pick up small financial challenge dat put dem in the position to feed the man even if it's 10days Dey will tell the whole world how dey spent all der business money and life savings on the man. Meanwhile na der husband. Most women also invent talks dat are not true like saying every penny he has is gambling I bet you, no man with a woman staying in his house and a child of his own does dat. His prblm currently is dat he wants to fix his home dat is wht is on his mind. So he is looking for the fastest way. He won't change wt fight |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Nobody: 9:46pm On May 16, 2023 |
Zion243:I screenshot and forwarded to his WhatsApp 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by temiflex01(m): 9:47pm On May 16, 2023 |
Dearlove2me: Your reply here shows how you talk to him, you have attitude problem. Take it or leave it, that's the truth. All men has self pride no matter how little. Talk to him humbly and pray, aside that, get yourself doing something little to be independent. If you can do this and swallow that your rudeness, you'll thank me later. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by proff010: 9:49pm On May 16, 2023 |
Oga wetin happen? This your comments na die ooo. I really like your comment if she can simply do this all will be well. Skyfornia: 1 Like |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Exmilitant(m): 9:49pm On May 16, 2023 |
gentlesmithugo:From your poor grammar I understand you are barely educated. Now run off to play. And hey, Don't you ever mentioned me again okay. |
Re: How Am I Suppose To Fight For My Home Here? by Bewiseedet(m): 9:49pm On May 16, 2023 |
osazsky:Win 50m then invest all in gambling again. 1 Like |
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