The best!

Even the Bible buttressed the claim.

“ Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him” -Proverb 13:24


“ Do not withhold discipline from a child; if you strike him with a rod, he will not die. If you strike him with the rod, you will save his soul from Sheol.”. Proverb 23 13-14

It is. Even Jesus flogged. Spare the rod and spoil the child.

Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.

What kinda trash are you dabbling?

Yes, if not flogging and beating from my uncles during my days with grandpa , who knows if I will be leading the Agbero in my area now.

Nairaland don ask this question since 2005. It has graced the front page almost 20 times if not more since then. What good has come out of it?

Abeg, make I chop go sleep. Mscheew.

When I was a secondary school teacher

I don't resort to flogging except in cases of theft or outright disrespect

Even at that, just a few strokes at the back where the student's hands can't reach

Yes, children are very stubborn, especially boys

Humans are moved by fear and greed. The best way to pass across a message sometimes is by flogging,hitting ,spanking or anything you want to call it.

When a child about 2 yrs tries to stick their hands in the socket or gas, you can't explain to that child ,you need to spank them right there.

Another example is that of a kid that was playing along the road ,he almost got hit by a bike man,I told his mum to spank him,he cried .Next time he will remember the reason he was spanked ,"don't play beside the road" .

Don't do it too much but yes,you need to whoop kids in their early years. If you do it well within the formative years ,you won't have to worry from around 12yrs.

efficiencie:


Flogging works signs and wonders. A child does not have a sense of actions and consequences and you must simulate consequences for bad actions instead of allowing the child bear the real consequences. The wise man said "foolishness abounds in the heart of a child and the rod of correction shall drive it far from him". Even erring women also need the "rod" of correction to set their ass straight. So spare the rod and spoil the babe.

You never jam your match

Fisiryorh:
Hell NO...

if pikin wan dagbo, e go still dagbo no matter how many times, ways and styles u take use flog am...

You were lucky you had emotional parents.

Their was no way you could dagbo if you had some class of parents. No way!

We've parents supporting their children waywardness now than before

abobote:
Yes, children are very stubborn, especially boys

Thank you! I love that point you raised.

The boy child will always grow to have ego, which is natural. if you don’t tame it at the right time, you will blame yourself

Jakumo:


No sir. I agree with Barrister Raji Fashola SAN that beating ANY human being, of ANY age, is morally wrong, medically perilous, gratuitously cruel, and patently counterproductive in ALL ramifications. That conviction informed Fashola's historic BANNING of beating in schools, workplaces, and homes within Lagos State.

That landmark legislation is in my view one of the most compassionate, necessary, and long-overdue masterstrokes of visionary governance ever witnessed over the entire course of Nigeria's history as an independent African nation, bar none.

You agree with fash…

Beating of any human of any age is wrong… bla bla bla.

Yet you yourself typed with your fingers you would like to face the teacher/beater of the girl in hand to hand combat. To pray or clap hands? Or to hand him a medal- hand to hand?

Sounds like double standard to me.

Sometimes we do not practice what we teach!

SALLYBERRY01:
Yes, if not flogging and beating from my uncles during my days with grandpa , who knows if I will be leading the Agbero in my area now.

Same here!

Their was a time I wanted to take flight in ills, my mum and father resounding slaps, punishment and beating brought me back on track.

I watched too much movies and thought I had a right and could talk the way I want. Nobody told me.

God bless those parents! They will deal with you and still take you to the hospital. Then they will buy you Chicken George

Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.

Take a look at the crime rate and lawlessness in the society and you will realize flogging actually is not working. We need a paradigm shift in our parenting style in Nigeria.

Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.

Discipline is a high level discipline in training meaning you need to study it at an advance level.
For instance impartation, impact, and leading by nature popularly called by example.
Bringing a child to a point of brokenness, sobriety, reality realization and self awareness are set of tactical and tactful skill that a guardian must possess and be proficient in their application to specific individual ward as everyone is peculiar and unique in their own way.
All these must be executed in love,care,friendship and understanding.
Listening to children is paramount as well as being active at one's duty as a guardian from foetus till adulthood.

Yes it's a sign of good parenting, when a child mess up you can shout but when the child keep doing that same act u can flog the child it has 90% chances of correcting the child. But not that you will beat the child like criminal oooo flog with care and love.

Because the whites don't lacks the discipline we have that's why their children misbehave anyhow. A child can look into the eyes of his or her parents and say f*CK you, or use other disrespectful words. An african child can't boldly use disrespectful words on their parents.

Staphylococcus:


You were lucky you had emotional parents.

Their was no way you could dagbo if you had some class of parents. No way!

You never meet stubborn pickin!

In this part of the world, yep.

Call me crazy, but it is actually rewarding.

Skyview01:


You never meet stubborn pickin!

If you check the history of that stubborn child, he had the environment to grow his stubbornness. Everybody has the privilege of becoming stubborn, it’s all about how early it’s tamed. Engaging him in discussions and same time letting him know your capabilities once in a while.

That stubborn child you talking about had people around him who unknowingly nurtured that stubbornness

Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.

if you doubt the efficacy of flogging, read the making of a slave, Django, Roots et al.

I'm grateful for the discipline my parents instilled in me through flogging.

Yes! It is. Gone are the days...
We were flogged and we didn't die, and look at where we're today! Unlike now where there's no fear factor... Oyinbo ~colonise~ exploits us finish come still dey neo colonise us and we dey happy

YES

Yes! It is. Gone are the days...
We were flogged and we didn't die, and look at where we're today! Unlike now where there's no fear factor... Oyinbo exploits us finish come still dey neo colonise us and we dey happy

Staphylococcus:


If you check the history of that stubborn child, he had the environment to grow his stubbornness. Everybody has the privilege of becoming stubborn, it’s all about how early it’s tamed. Engaging him in discussions and same time letting him know your capabilities once in a while.

That stubborn child you talking about had people around him who unknowingly nurtured that stubbornness

No be only discussions...


All the western woke mind

Yugoslavia247:
Despite all the flogging, we are still the most corrupt nation. High rate of internet fraud, hook up.

Flogging never actually worked.

Many parents flogg and gave up. Children revolt and fight back. Children become more dangerous and beast mode is activated.

Alot of children want to stay away from home.

At the end the flogging will at a point be needless. That is when most parent use the real parenting skills of advise and pleading.

You can not flog an 18 year old. He will fight you.

I think real parenting is the ability to use the other forms of effective punishment and reward approach. Because advise is the best.

In school the most notorious are still the most flogged. Did they stop being notorious? No.

The most pampered are more willing to excel academically.

In parenting, the ability to use the carrot and stick approach effectively works to a very large extent.

Children get use to beating and it becomes ineffective.

At a point you would not be able to beat that child. What will you do?

This is Africa where we we teach morals to children and encourage corruption of adults

Spits


In Africa is where a Father teaches his children not to steal while he loots his place of work endlessly

We actually are too lazy in African schools to imbibe theories of parenting and teaching. We prefer the easier route. Using pain and fear.

If many Nigeria teachers were living abroad they will learn patience and respect for children rights.

We most certainly do not respect that in Nigeria.

Many wealthy politicians sent their children to these schools in Nigeria where no one hits their children.

These same children end up the in elite and political class. They very confident and outspoken.

Flogging is for the poor.

Very correct, I prefer to be talked to when I was a kid than been beaten, talks brings tears to my eyes. Thank God, my popman realized that early n he constantly talking sense into my brain which really goes a long way in my life.

LeyeWrites:
No be only discussions...


All the western woke mind

Hello! Did you read our discussions or you just jumped into it?

Please do and feedback!